Exercise eloquence

Exercise your eloquence

Sentiment Selection 1:

How to exercise your eloquence

People who work hard in business should make great efforts to enhance their self-confidence and improve their self-speaking potential. Only in this way can we avoid social failure and work difficulties, promote the success of my career and make my life colorful, comfortable and pleasant. In work and career, people who dare to speak and are good at speaking can fully convince others with their own language communication potential, so that the work can go smoothly and reach both ends. Self-confidence and charm of speaking are the necessary conditions for a successful career. People are growing slowly, and the more they grow, the more they find out; Eloquence plays an important role in communication. Communication is the premise of success. Therefore, if you want to succeed, you must practice your breath well. So, what kind of eloquence can be called good eloquence? What are the conditions for a eloquent person? What is the fundamental difference between people with good eloquence and those with poor eloquence? Here, let's discuss it together, and as a smoke, let's talk about our own experience. Debut for more than a year, which is equivalent to those who have been in business for ten or eight years, is nothing at all, but compared with my peers at school or at the same time when I debuted, my experience can be called an experience. People, like this, slowly experience and grow up. Because of my straightforward personality, I don't like flattery, and I walk like a wall. It is precisely because of this personality that I have serious hatred and dissatisfaction with this ugly social state. I can't deny that eloquence has always accounted for a large proportion, whether it is flattering or following my own path and creating my own career.

There is a limit to being quiet in your own career. You must stand up and speak. Since you have chosen to start a business, you must bravely deal with all difficulties. The first thing you have to learn is to "speak"!

every time I go out to run a business, I see different situations. People are eloquent, and I can get a single order at once or twice. No matter how sincere you are, you dare not speak and have nothing to make up. Of course, this is not to deny your sincerity. It's a pity to say: Sorry, you are not suitable for this job!

what do you mean by eloquence? What do you mean, eloquence is not good? Perhaps no one can explain this question clearly. Personally, I think that the difference between good eloquence and bad eloquence lies in opening one's mouth and continuous conversation. Therefore, we should be brave enough to speak. I have always believed: Dare to speak is the winner!

how to make your speech more touching?

Image is also an important issue. What is the definition of image? Let's not discuss it for the time being. No matter what you do, people's first impression of you is what you wear, and then what you say. Therefore, we should pay attention to the image problem individually. This is related to the question of whether you can get into the state. In communication, image plays the first role! We should be good at creating a pleasant conversation atmosphere. Say whatever you see. This is not flattery, but speaking skills, which most young people can't do. Because of their youth and arrogance, many things are impulsive, let alone asking them to create an atmosphere and talk to people. If the customer deliberately gives them a hard time, maybe the business will be over. Therefore, many enterprises are not optimistic about fresh graduates when recruiting staff at the moment. Personally, I think this is one of the reasons. Humor will never fall behind in business or communication. Humor is an affinity. It will bring us closer together and further our career. It's a lubricant.

courtesy is essential for new customers. The most successful way to meet new brothers and sisters is to be a loyal listener and give the right to speak to others. Of course, everything is not absolute, it will change from thing to thing and from person to person! Everyone should improvise. Play it by ear :)

Self-confidence is very important. We must firmly believe that we must succeed. This is the premise of success. Talk the same way. Everyone should firmly believe that each of us is an excellent speaker.

Language potential is one of the essential qualities of a modern talent. Speaking is not only a science, but also a constantly changing new capital for you to win things and get things done. A good mouth will bring you good luck and wealth, so having a good eloquence means having a brilliant future. A person, no matter how intelligent you are by nature, how well educated you have been, how beautiful clothes you wear and how abundant assets you have, if you can't express yourself fluently and properly, you still can't really realize your self-worth. (I dreamed of washing my hair)

The above is a brief talk about marriage. Welcome everyone to discuss the benefits of eloquence and what factors should be paid attention to and improved when replying. For everyone to have a happy day of mutual understanding and cooperation, and for these noble purposes, let's exercise our eloquence well!

Exercise the boldest speech, the loudest speech and the smoothest speech.

Time to achieve the goal: 3 days

1. Mind training

1. Self-suggestion: I meditate 1 times every morning. "I must speak most boldly, I must speak most loudly, and I must speak most fluently. I have to! This day must be a pleasant day! " (I usually suggest to myself, meditate or write it out, at least 1 times. )

2. Imagination training: at least 5 minutes to imagine my successful speech in public and imagine my success.

3. Understand the smile in front of the mirror for at least 5 minutes, and show your gestures and forms

2. Eloquence training

(1) Take at least 1 minutes of deep breathing training every day.

(2) seize every opportunity to speak and exercise your eloquence. (Sentence in a bad mood)

1. Communicate with at least five people consciously every day.

2. Read aloud or speak loudly for at least 5 minutes every day.

3. Train yourself to "speak in three minutes" or "speak silently in three minutes" every day.

4. Tell at least one story or a complete story to your relatives and colleagues every day.

5. Pay attention to some skills when speaking.

a. Before speaking, take a deep breath, calm down, smile and make eye contact, and then start speaking.

B, speak the first sentence bravely, louder and slower, and say short sentences without interrupting.

C, when you find nervous jam, stop and take a deep breath consciously, and then speak it out with your breath.

D, if the performance is not good, comfort yourself: "Why were you nervous just now?" It doesn't matter, continue to speak steadily "; At the same time, conquer fear with confidence in feeling and action.

E, when you are nervous, you can do relaxation exercises, take a deep breath, or try your best to clench your fist and relax quickly for 1 times in a row. (Strong personality signature)

Third, auxiliary exercise

1. Read inspirational books or eloquence books for at least 2 minutes every day, cultivate a self-centered mentality and understand some skills.

2. Laugh 1 times a day, be optimistic about life and relax.

3. Train to understand the sight and gaze of others, and cultivate self-confidence and observation potential.

4. Cultivate the habit of smiling, smile brightly and sincerely, and exercise affinity.

5. Learn and comprehend the review, sum up the gains and losses every day, and write your experience. Every week, we should comprehensively summarize the achievements and shortcomings, and determine the goals for next week.

Sentiment Selection 2:

How do introverts exercise their eloquence

Generally speaking, people with poor self-eloquence are mostly introverted and taciturn.

They listen more and talk less. The key is that they dare not speak. Therefore, I think that to practice eloquence well, we must first practice our courage to speak. The establishment of personal courage should be based on good self-confidence.

recommendation:

1. Get up every day to read the motivational words for success: A I am the best speaker in the world

B My eloquence is getting better every day

C I have good communication potential, and the more brothers and sisters I have

D I have incomparable charm and good temperament

E I can freely deal with all kinds of different people

　2。 Find three different people to talk to every day

3. Read some colloquial articles every day, read them out loud, preferably until your mouth is numb

The most important thing is: stick to it! Hold on! Hold on!

How to talk about yourself in life and social occasions

Self-talk has always puzzled many people. Many people are afraid of talking about themselves and feel that they don't know what they can say except their names. In fact, self-talk plays a very important role in our life. A good self-talk can leave a deep impression on others, which plays a very good role in accumulating contacts or working life. Many students often come to ask me how to design self-talk. On this day, I will sort out my thoughts, write a few simple points, analyze and analyze, and hope to be of necessary help to everyone.

Self-talk is divided into different occasions and different environments. We should always prepare the self-talk we need for different occasions. It is necessary to spend a little time preparing it carefully. Generally, your designed self-talk can last for at least several years, and you can use it when you need it, and you will no longer worry about not knowing how to say it.

Self-talk in life and social situations should be concise and clear, usually about 1 seconds, sometimes accompanied by shaking hands.

for example: hello! My name is Zhang Wenkui, Gong Changzhang, and I'm a writer with both civil and military skills. I won the championship in one fell swoop, and I'm from Sixian Education (nice to meet you).

This self-talk is divided into three parts: Part I: Name; The second part: simple explanation of the name (convenient for others to remember); Part III: Where did it come from? As a life and social occasion, this kind of self-talk is enough, and sometimes the second part can be removed according to the situation, just what's your name and where you come from.

How to talk about yourself in public

Speaking about yourself in public is different from talking about yourself in social life. It can't be as simple as talking about yourself in life. After all, since you are standing on a stage, let everyone know more about you, and you should also seize the opportunity to promote yourself.

Self-promotion is actually a very important thing, just like Ma Yun will talk about his Alibaba wherever he goes, Niu Gensheng will talk about his Mengniu wherever he goes, and Yu Minhong will talk about his New Oriental wherever he goes. We should learn and understand to constantly promote ourselves, so that more people can know about you and leave a deep impression on you.

For example: Good afternoon, dear brothers and sisters! My name is Zhang Wenkui. I'm a writer with both civil and military skills. I came from Sixian Education. I'm very happy to meet so many outstanding brothers and sisters there this day. I wish every brother and sister here a happy family and a more successful career since I met Wen Kui. Thanks a lot! (Time: about 3 seconds)

The most important thing for me to say is to let others remember your name. I have seen many people say a lot when they go on stage. When he finished speaking, he was about to step down, and the people in the audience were anxious and asked, "Brothers and sisters, you haven't said your name yet!" It's not good to talk too much about hobbies in the short 3 seconds before the public (if the time is three minutes, you can talk about hobbies). You only have one purpose for 3 seconds, that is, to let others remember your name.

In the example above, I mentioned my name four times in a short span of 3 seconds, and all these four mentions only express one meaning: You must remember that my name is Zhang Wenkui!

How to talk about yourself in a job interview

Generally speaking, the self-talk in a job interview lasts for three minutes. This self-talk means that the examiner wants to know more about you, so during these three minutes, he should try to convey as much information as possible.

For example:

Hello! My name is Zhang Wenkui, and I graduated from Wuhan Huazhong University of Science and Technology in 25. Since 25, I have been working as a lecturer in the course of speech eloquence in Sixian Education. My main work is the large-scale open class speech and two-day and one-night public speech training class.

During my college years, I began to systematically study the valuable experiences of successful people such as Carnegie, Anthony Robin, the world potential master, Chen Anzhi, the authority of Asian success, Joe Gillard, the god of marketing, and Ceng Shiqiang, a Chinese management expert.

In 26, I went to Shanghai specially to study speech and eloquence, and got the guidance of many successful people, such as Mr. Lin Zhengcai, the general representative of China, an international training institution in Chen Anzhi, the president of Zhang Bin, the first in China's wedding photography industry, and Lin Weixian, one of the eight lecturers in Asia.

In 27, I was invited by a famous training company in Wuhan to be a special lecturer of the company, and conducted lectures and eloquence training for college students, and the trainees were all over Wuhan.

After that, I went to Beijing to systematically study charm eloquence and public speaking, and discussed with many famous speakers in Beijing how to improve eloquence and public speaking potential. After returning to Hangzhou, I combined my own characteristics to form a unique public speaking training system.

Up to now, hundreds of lecture tours have been made in colleges and universities all over the country, which has inspired many college students to exercise and improve their eloquence, and also helped many college students to establish their confidence in public speaking.

I am good at public speaking and public speaking training, and I look forward to contributing to your company. Thank you.

Job interviews are generally divided into the following parts: name, where you graduated, the position you have held, which job you were mainly responsible for, what kind of experience you have, and what you are good at.

by the time we finish these six parts, we actually have a basic understanding of you. Of course, this six-part self-talk is just a better way I think. If you have other better ways, it is also possible. Please give me more advice.

To practice eloquence, you must first practice listening.

Many people think that the population who can speak is good, which is incorrect. For example, a bitch scolds the street. She can scold and talk in the street all day, but it really needs to be used. When giving her a scene, she doesn't have to say it. People with good eloquence don't talk much, just be incisive. If you can speak incisively, you must first listen well. Only by listening well can you speak well.

When listening, especially listen to the implication of others, and hear what others say.

Once upon a time, there was an old man whose wife went early. He felt a little lonely, so he wanted to find another wife, but he was too embarrassed to tell his son directly, so he said to his son, "Alas, it's really cold to sleep alone at night." This son is also very filial. As soon as he heard that it was cold to sleep alone at night, he went to buy an electric blanket on the bed. The grandfather was unhappy when he saw the electric blanket, so he said, "Alas, no one scratched my back when I slept." As soon as the son heard this, he immediately understood the meaning and ran to buy him a back scratcher. One day, the uncle's son decided to get married. At this time, the uncle angrily said to his son, "Why not buy an electric blanket and a back scratcher?"