My friends say I am naive, and my family says I aim too high. I want to hear more people's opinions.

You are rebellious and want to make some achievements, but you have no perseverance and can't afford to suffer. The most terrible thing is that you don't know what you want.

You are in your early twenties. I don't think you are naive. Most people of this age do.

However, I think your family is right to say that your eyes are high and your eyes are low.

First of all, if it is true that you work outside, I think it makes sense that you don't work for your relatives. Relatives or something, don't expect too much. Only when you are similar to him can he really treat you as a relative. If you don't beg him, your face will be ugly.

Of course, you feel wronged that you have not been reused. In fact, the relationship with relatives actually reduces a lot of bullying for you. If you go out by yourself, you will know that the people outside are much worse than you imagined and met. So from this standpoint, it is understandable that your father is dissatisfied with you.

I think you have low vision, no perseverance and can't bear hardships. It has nothing to do with your previous four years' work experience. The point is that you want to quit school now. You have repeatedly stressed that you can't stand it and feel useless, but in any case, this place can assign you a job until the end. Going out to work, I feel that people don't value you, and you don't want to go out alone. You stayed at home for half a year without finding a job (didn't you say you would go home and work for eight hours? I didn't see you do it either. Your family gives you money and energy to bow and scrape to your teacher, so you say you can't go because school is boring and say, "That's not the place for people like me." Where should people like you stay? Stay at home?

No matter how bad your school is, you will eventually get a job, otherwise your parents won't be so angry with you.

Of course, you are young and energetic, you can't stand being wronged, and you don't want to force yourself. I can understand that.

But you should know that many things in life are irreversible, such as time. For the first four years, you can study hard (if you went to college, you may still be a student now). The starting point for coming out to work in the future is higher, and you missed it. At least those four years are irreversible, and your family's trust in you is the same. Of course, it can't be said that it is completely irreversible, but you disappoint them again and again, indicating that you are overdrawing their trust and you want it very much in the future.

I think you are always indulging yourself and making excuses for yourself.

In fact, many people are like this, but doing so often makes people regret it. You are still young, and you still have a lot of youth to squander, but when you are old and have accomplished nothing, you won't know what regret is until you look back, and then it may be too late.

Environment is meaningless. What matters is what you think and whether you want to make progress or not.

You can say I don't like your arrangement, then you have to do what you like yourself and stick to it.

If you don't have perseverance and don't know what you really want, do what you can in front of you.

If you are self-motivated, learn something else at school and buy some technical books at home during the holiday; Do you want to eat and sleep, even as you said, at least until you graduate and find a job? As you know, you should give gifts to the teacher during the exam. You can't say you can't make money if you spend 50 thousand or 60 thousand. Is it easy to earn 50 thousand or 60 thousand? You used to earn 1.7 thousand a month. How many months will it take to earn it back without eating or drinking?