H2 invite spouse process sharing

I am a Korean with F4 visa. I brought my daughter-in-law to South Korea at the end of last year. I applied for F1. The process was bumpy, but fortunately I finally got the visa. During the epidemic, I stayed at home and had nothing to do, so I wrote down my experience and shared it with everyone so that everyone can have a reference when applying for a visa in the future. I write whatever comes to my mind. My writing skills are limited and I can’t write well. Old friends, please forgive me.

My wife and I obtained our marriage certificate at the Civil Affairs Bureau of Jixi, my hometown in Heilongjiang Province, in May 2018. I was 40 years old that year and my wife was 28 years old. I am married for the first time, and my wife is from the second marriage. I am Korean, and I have an F-4 landing permit in South Korea. My wife is Han, has no job, and her household registration is in Jilin Province. Before my wife met me, she was rejected by the Korean Embassy in Shenyang four times. The first two times were hers. Her uncle (a Korean) invited her to visit relatives in South Korea and was refused a visa. The last two times she applied for a tourist visa were refused. The money was spent and things were not accomplished. Spending money is considered a trivial matter. The key is to refuse the visa and let go of the shadow in my heart. As soon as the visa was mentioned, it was thrust into my arms.

After we got married, my wife applied for a visa twice. Both times, I provided complete invitation materials, including employment certificate, tax form, insurance, statement of account, deposit certificate, etc. She was there. I found it through a travel agency in Changchun. The first time I spent 1,500 yuan, the travel agency said less than 5 sentences from beginning to end. They didn’t give any suggestions or explain anything to us. They told us that they didn’t know everything they asked. They said everything should be determined by the consulate. , also unwilling to pay attention to us, and finally successfully refused the visa.

For the second time, I switched to a company that guaranteed the signature. I first paid a deposit of 5,000, and then paid another 30,000 to sign the signature. They said it was a 100% signature. After giving them the materials, I spent more than 2 days. I handed it over only a few months ago, but in the end the visa was refused, and the 5,000 yuan was not refunded at all. In the end, the phone and WeChat were blocked. My wife and I cried and complained several times. I knew she felt sorry for the money. I comforted her and said that money is a trivial matter.

The reason for the two visa refusals was that the purpose of entry was unclear. This makes me very depressed. It is so easy for others to apply for a visa, but why is it so difficult for us to get a visa? I know that we are remarried, my daughter-in-law is unemployed, has several visa rejection records, has been married for a short time, has no children, etc. There are many disadvantages. But I still want to do it, still hold on to a glimmer of hope, and still want her to come to Korea. My wife is also willing to come. She has wanted to come to Korea for a long time. Besides, I don’t worry about her being fat and fat at home. It’s okay to come here. Okay, if you can work, go out and do some work. If you don't want to, just wash clothes and cook for me. It's also good. The couple will have a companion together. At that time, I was preparing to start an e-commerce business in South Korea and had a lot of time, so I decided to handle it myself.

I also know little about visas. I don’t know where the embassy door opens. The first thing I think of when applying for a visa is a travel agency. I went to a travel agency in Shenyang. The old woman behind the counter looked at my passport and threw it back to me, saying it couldn't be done. Why? What happened? I'll fuck you!

In those few days, I went to many travel agencies in Shenyang that applied for visas. Some of them simply refused to apply for visas; some were able to handle them, but only talked about collecting money and didn’t know anything else; some were OK. I applied for a guarantee, but I can't tell you anything. I'm just blowing the whistle, which seems unreliable at first glance.

To be honest, I am not a very capable person. I have not made a name for myself until now, and I have almost been a bachelor for the rest of my life. However, I have traveled all over the country for so many years, selling clothes and driving a car. I have worked in restaurants, factories, and worked in the field. Not to mention meeting countless people, I have also seen some small things about the world. Whether he is a business person or not, you can feel that he is inseparable just from listening to his speech. Seeing this, some people may be disgusted, saying that you are so confident, how can you still find a second wife?

I was born in 1978. I majored in international trade with a bachelor's degree. I am a full-time student. I am 180 centimeters tall and weigh 80 kilograms. I have long legs and double eyelids. I can play football, basketball, and badminton. Quasi-professional; not to mention being suave and graceful, he is also someone who can make progress in the sunshine. If you meet me in person, you will never associate me with a bachelor. You will think that I am the kind of man that most women like. When I was a freshman, I dated a female classmate. They were childhood sweethearts for several years. They walked through the woods with their arms around their waists and necks. Their parents met and got engaged. After graduation, her employer sent him to study in the UK. After studying, she found a job there. At first she told me that she would come back after practicing for a few years, so I waited for her for six years. Finally, she married an old white man and stayed in the UK. She was bald and we broke up crying. Handed. After that, we went on a few blind dates at home. I either thought the person had short legs or thought the person had a small mouth. I was not happy with it, maybe the fate was not there. Later, my father got lung cancer. I took him all over the world to find famous doctors, perform surgeries, and recuperate his health. I just gave up on finding a wife.

Until I met my current wife, her name is Hongqin. She is also a rural girl. She didn’t go to school for a few years and got married early. Her husband is a driver of a big car. We were married just two years ago. I drove on the Qinghai-Tibet Line but didn't get off. So Hongqin became a widow.

Hongqin is kind-hearted and cheerful. She never cares about others. She just cries when something happens, like a child. She has been married before, so that’s okay. Haven’t I slept with other women too?

I’m such an old bachelor, so what else can I choose! What more bikes do you want? After thinking about it like this, we got the certificate.

When I was planning the wedding, my mother was in poor health and was hospitalized for injections every day. Later, I simply canceled the wedding, and my wife didn't say anything. She said that as long as I was good to her, she would never quarrel or lose my temper with me. She also said that she was remarrying, and it didn't matter whether we had a wedding or not, but she had wronged me.

After taking wedding photos, a new life begins. My daughter-in-law is clean and tidy, she takes good care of my mother, and she never passes her urine or feces back. I am very grateful to her. The two of them get along very well.

Maybe the fates of her mother and son are too similar. When my parents got married, my father was also 40 years old, and my mother was also 28 years old. Before my mother married my father, she also had a short period of time. marriage. Is it fate? Is it a bad feng shui? Or is it God’s deliberate arrangement? It's really puzzling. Later, I went to Wudang Mountain for this purpose. I digress, this time I’m mainly talking about visas.

Back to the main story, I walked around Shenyang but couldn’t find a suitable place to apply for a visa. The main reason was that I couldn’t find anyone I felt comfortable with. I accidentally heard that it is easy to apply for a visa in Qingdao, so I boarded the train to Qingdao with great enthusiasm.

I first rushed to the visa center in Qingdao. They said that my wife’s household registration could only be applied for in Shenyang, not Qingdao.

Later, I raided some travel agencies, large and small. Based on what I saw and heard, I concluded that it is indeed easier to apply for a visa in Qingdao than in Shenyang, but there are also many visa refusals. Moreover, those with non-local residence registration are required to provide social security, employment certificate, salary statement and other materials. It seems to be very difficult for my wife to apply for a visa here. Besides, I haven't met a travel agency that I can speak to, so I'm a little hesitant about how to go about it.

On Friday morning, an old classmate of mine introduced me to Qingdao Youdi Travel Agency. They can handle various types of Korean visas on their behalf. Many people around me have successfully obtained visas from them. I decided to go over and have a look right away.

They were in an office building, with about twenty or thirty people. The place was not particularly big. Stacks of passports were piled on the table, making it seem a little crowded. The staff were hurriedly walking and the phone calls were ringing one after another. Intertwined into one, the scene of a busy writing room. The young man who received me was called Zhang Zhen. He was very polite, spoke in a clear manner, and looked very knowledgeable and professional.

I explained my situation to Xiao Zhang. I asked him about the chances of getting the visa. He said that brother, if you are applying for a remarry, you have been refused the visa several times before getting married. The embassy must be suspicious of you. The purpose of marriage. In addition, since neither of you has a stable job or income now, the embassy will worry about whether she can come back on time, so the approval rate of your application will not be too high. If you are concerned about the application rate, you can wait until the situation changes, such as having a child or something.

Of course I care about the lottery rate, but I don’t want to wait that long. When I went back, I was a little desperate and my mind was in chaos. I went back to the hotel and rested for a while, but I still didn't give up. I wanted to talk to him again to see if there was any other way. I called Xiao Zhang’s cell phone and asked him to have a casual dinner with him in the evening.

We met as scheduled in the evening, and we had a very good chat. I thought he was a nice person, and his words were reliable and quality. Unlike some bragging travel agencies, those people know which consuls they know with their mouths, and it doesn't matter if they keep their mouths shut. Why do you still do this when you have so much ability and earn such a small amount of money? Even if you really have this ability, you don't have to talk about it. The aroma of wine is not afraid of the alley, and others will know it even if you don't tell them.

In fact, I have no prejudice against intermediaries, because I know that in today's society, there are many visible and invisible intermediaries, and they play a very important role in everything from buying a house to selling a car. , nanny transportation, everything from running for an office to buying an official, or project bidding, are all inseparable from intermediaries. That year, I accidentally talked about speculation with a friend who was a real estate agent. We worshiped Guan Gong and called each other brother. At that time, he was still a clerk in the real estate agency who swept the streets every day. In 2012, he became the regional manager of a chain real estate agency. With his help, I bought a house in Shanghai, Hangzhou, and Qingdao. Later, my father became seriously ill and had to go to various places for medical treatment. Spending money was like water. In Beijing It costs more than 8,000 to register an expert account. I relied on those few houses to survive. My father gave birth to me when he was in his forties. I have never given up on him. In fact, it is still those few houses that support me. Without money, everything is hard. , although in the end it was a waste of time and money, but I have paid and worked hard. Thanks to my brother, he is my benefactor. So, I like to make friends very much.

This Xiao Zhang in front of me is good. Make a friend. Even if you can’t get the visa this time, it won’t be a bad thing to have a friend like this to take care of you when entering and exiting the country in the future. After some sweet talk, we are brothers. My brother is a visa manager, so the older brother must take care of his business, so my visa was naturally handed over to him. That night, we both drank too much, and the clearest thing I remember him saying was "Brother! You are my biological brother."

After seeing this, you may say, bachelor, you are too powerful. In fact, it is real to apply for a visa, and it is real to make friends. We have no second thoughts. Later, every time Xiao Zhang came to South Korea, I, the older brother, would be the escort. The arrangement was clear, and it was a must for brothers.

I asked him if there was one with a visa guarantee. I wanted to apply for a visa guarantee. He said there was, and he could apply for half price for me and pay me after the visa was approved. Some people here may say, "Bachelor, you have been deceived. You are stupid. There is no such thing as a guarantee." "It doesn't matter. We are all brothers. Is there still a little money left?" Anyway, we have been refused visas so many times, and we applied when the conditions were good, but we just couldn't get it done. So why not trust my brother once? Even if my brother picked up the visa and it didn’t cost a penny, what if I gave him thousands of dollars?

I have read through the invitation posts on Fenhan several times, and thought about each one several times. Some of them did it by themselves, and some did it with very little money. But I analyzed it and found that we are similar on the surface. We both apply for the same visa, but there are too many differences:

His wife has a job and social security, but you say you don’t want to go back to your country to fight. No one believes it even to death. Our daughter-in-law has no job and no education. She is a home wherever she goes;

People invite people to have tax bills, current bills, and insurance. I have had it before, but it didn’t work. Now I don’t have anything. No more;

She was married for the first time and had a child, but we were married for the second time and have no children yet;

They were married for 56, 78 years, and we just got the certificate and didn’t even hold the wedding; < /p>

His household registration is in Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou, and our household registration is in a large rural area in the Northeast;

His passport has been to the United States, Japan and Canada, and the furthest we have been is Datieling;

His wife Doctors, doctors, civil servants, our daughter-in-law has to be taught how to write her own name

Details determine success or failure. There are too many differences in details. Comparisons are complete, so it is meaningless to compare with others. , to be honest, maybe the embassy has a big question mark in its mind as to whether we are a real couple?

At this point, I have given my wife’s passport, ID card, household registration booklet, 2-inch photo, a copy of my landing certificate, ID card, passport, household registration booklet, and marriage certificate. With him, that's all. He also wanted some photos of the wedding, which should have been there, but there really weren't.

I believe in his character and I feel reassured. I can get out and do more of what I can do, and I feel a lot more relaxed. More importantly, I have an extra brother.

A few days later, my wife received a call from the Qingdao Embassy and asked some questions, such as when did she get married? What's your husband's name? What does your husband do? What do I do? Why are the materials for current insurance not provided? Why wasn't there a wedding? Questions such as what to do in South Korea and so on were all answered truthfully.

Three or four days later, I received a call from my brother, "Brother, my sister-in-law's visa has been issued..."

In this way, my wife came to my home as she wished. around.

Looking back on the past, it is full of ups and downs and helplessness. It is really not easy. We are all Chinese who have left our hometown. Wouldn’t it be better to help each other more? So, I decided to share it with the veterans. Maybe some people will sneer, maybe some people will laugh at it, but what the heck, this is what I want to say, everyone will be less likely to suffer and be fooled, and the bad guys will have nowhere to hide.

I often tell my wife: No matter what happens in the future, I will never leave you, nor will I let you leave me. I will love you well, and you must cherish everything. You see, How many times have I traveled to Changchun, Shenyang, and Qingdao, and how much money have I spent! From now on, when there are people around, you call me husband, when there is no one around, you call me master. From then on, in the dead of night, the sound of master comes one after another...

Just kidding, I summed it up,

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1. There is no need to consider agents whose addresses are in Meihekou, Shuangyashan. The consulates are in big cities like Shenyang and Beijing. We can’t go to those ravines to find agents. I can’t believe what they say;

2. The agency said that the invitation was difficult to apply for. I had to apply for a tourist visa first and then change to F1 when I went to South Korea. I blocked him directly. My registered residence is not in Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou. I have no job and no income. Can I still apply for a tourist visa? It’s just nonsense;

3. I won’t consider it if the agent is XX\XX. Those people are so good at cheating, they talk a lot and lie without a blush

4. Apply for insurance Those who require a deposit before signing will not be considered. Anyone who pays first, no matter how much the deposit is, is interested in our small deposit

5. If it is delivered by regular delivery, I will not tell you anything. I can't ask anything. Maybe they are really NB, so don't think about it. It's normal that they don't have time to serve us.

6. It is normal for those who apply for visas part-time at newsstands, barber shops, grocery stores, massage parlors, etc., may have to try thirty times and can’t find their passport in the end. If If the passport is still there, it is abnormal

7. I will not consider the Korean travel agency. This visa was issued in China, and they will transfer it to the Chinese travel agency after receiving it. I just want to find one< /p>

8. If you know little about visas and don’t look professional, but only know how to get along with you, proceed with caution.

9. The price of applying for a visa is only 58,000 yuan. Don’t apply for it. This visa is not worth that much. The reason why he can ask for this price must be because she went to her home to give it to him. The price is high, let’s go talk to his employer

10. Those who post online all day long to answer questions about this and solve problems for that are all trying to catch you.

Some people say that your experience cannot be replicated. It is impossible for everyone to apply for a visa, right? Yes, don’t ask for help. The point of what I write is to tell you that you have to find the right person to do things. If you find the right person, the price will be reasonable, the trouble will be less, and the signing will be successful. Don’t preconceptions that everyone is the same. Bad guys and good guys are accidental, and those with quality are not just pretending, they are developed like that.

Don’t be afraid when you encounter difficulties. Just think about it, a coward like me, a bachelor, has gone through it. You must be able to do it too, so let’s just write it here!