A woman told a man her unhappy and disgraceful emotional experience and said that only her family knew about it. What does this mean?

It means she wants to tell you that she at least regards you as family.

You are not an outsider.

But if you want to be my wife ... it depends.

Women are emotional animals, and the content of a conversation is not enough to explain too many problems.

She may talk to you about some personal topics because of external environmental infection or internal memory.

But an accidental experience is not enough to evaluate your's relations.

Maybe when she wakes up tomorrow morning, she will regret her carelessness.

If what you expect is to deepen the relationship between your, then don't mention the topic itself.

It just wants to recreate the dialogue.

This conversation only happens when she drinks with you, or when you are alone.

It means that this situation makes her feel safe and comfortable.

Just continue to provide a sense of security, rather than trying to understand the conversation in depth.

She doesn't necessarily want you to get involved too early. Just remember. Respond at an appropriate time.

For example, if you once said XX, then I will XX. I hope you like it.

Maybe you are not a potential suitor, just trying to evaluate her.

Then do less opportunities that may lead to private conversations, and it will be very troublesome to cause misunderstandings.