Three blessings in life: meet a good teacher, get a good friend and seize the opportunity.

Dong Qing once said in the "Reader" program:

"In a sense, everything in the world is satisfied. Cold and warm, rainy; Winter meets spring, and there are years; Heaven and earth meet, and there is eternity; People meet people and have lives. "

When we met, a relationship began.

Some meet, start in a hurry, and end in a hurry, without bringing any benefits.

And some encounters are stored in the long river of time and hidden in the long river of water, giving people warmth and hope.

The greatest blessing in life is to meet a mentor, get a good friend and seize a good opportunity.

1.

When you meet your mentor, the spring breeze will turn into rain.

There is a saying in Han Yu's Ma Shuo: "There is Bole in the world, and then there is a swift horse. There are often swift horses, but Bole is not often. "

Maxima needs the appreciation of Bole to show its ability to gallop far away, and people also need the guidance of good teachers to stimulate their potential.

Su, a famous mathematician in China, once mentioned three teachers who made him succeed from youth and ignorance.

Sue's family is not rich. He entered a primary school as a placement student at the age of ten, and his grades have been unsatisfactory. He is often the last in the class.

When I first went to school, I didn't understand the language and my grades couldn't go up. Even the teacher asked Sue to take him back to his father's farm.

But there is a teacher Chen who doesn't dislike him at all, and will take the initiative to communicate with him and patiently encourage him to study hard.

Teacher Chen also enlightened Sue: "I think your qualifications are not bad. As long as you work hard, you will definitely become a useful talent. "

Teacher Chen's words gave Sue great encouragement. In the end, he didn't live up to the teacher's expectations and was admitted to middle school with excellent results.

It was also in middle school that Sue met two other teachers.

There was a teacher Yang who taught mathematics at that time. His class is lively and interesting. Before class, he told them the story of saving the country through science.

This made Su, who was originally interested in the direction of literature, turn to the direction of mathematics, and began his journey to become a great mathematician.

The third teacher was President Hong, who was also a geometry class.

President Hong not only imparted knowledge, but also subsidized him to study in Japan with 200 silver dollars after he graduated from Suzhou University, encouraging him to study for the prosperity of the country.

The teaching and encouragement of the three teachers is undoubtedly a boost to Sue's success, enabling him to exert his potential, do what he wants to do and become the person he wants to be.

There have been many stories about teachers since ancient times.

From "being a teacher, so I was educated by this vocational education" to "silkworms will weave until they die in spring, and candles will cry the wick away every night."

This sentence all contains people's praise and reverence for the teacher.

Like raindrops diving with the wind, the mentor beside us is a bright lighthouse on our way forward, and also a guide for us to know the world, giving us a wordless nourishment.

2.

A good friend is like a duck to water

I especially agree with Bacon's sentence: "The most unbearable loneliness is the lack of true friendship."

In this journey of life, we will meet all kinds of people.

Some people just walked with you for a while and left alone in the middle.

Others can support each other and accompany you through the whole journey.

And this person is often the friend who can make you feel as beautiful as icing on the cake, or as warm as a timely help.

My father once told me the story of him and Uncle Li.

When my father was a child, his family was not rich. When he was at school, tuition alone could keep the family from boiling.

Later, I was admitted to the university, but looking at the high tuition fees, my father's family could only look at each other.

After uncle Li found out, he took his father to find a part-time job, traveled all over the streets of his hometown, and finally found a job in a restaurant.

A month later, Uncle Li gave it to his father together with his salary.

Father said, in my impression, Uncle Li only said, "Pay me back when you make money."

Until now, Uncle Li's name is often on my father's lips, and I often say, "It's good to have such a friend who is willing to help you at any time."

People often say, "Many friends, many roads".

That's true.

No matter which way we take, there must always be someone willing to accompany you through difficulties and obstacles.

I envy the friendship between Lu Xun and Qu Qiubai.

1932, Lu Xun and Qu Qiubai met for the first time, but there was always a feeling of seeing each other for a while.

As Qu Qiubai said: "We are such close people, so close but never meet."

When Qu Qiubai was killed and arrested, he often took refuge in Lu Xun's house. Lu Xun always received him warmly and took the trouble.

They are also in tune in literature.

Always comment on each other's works, point out mistakes rudely, and express praise without stint.

On one occasion, just after the publication of the novel Destruction translated by Lu Xun, he sent a copy to Qu Qiubai.

Qu Qiubai also wrote a 6000-word reply to Lu Xun, which shows his praise and encouragement to Lu Xun.

Later, after Qu Qiubai's heroic sacrifice, Lu Xun also dragged his seriously ill body to write "Forest at Sea" for his dead friend, in order to send his grief.

Two people who are like-minded and appreciate each other encourage each other, support each other, grow together and achieve each other.

On this road of life, some are just passers-by, while others are friends who need to be cherished.

With the company of good friends, the road around you will get wider and wider; Walking with good friends, the direction of progress will become clearer and clearer.

Having a good friend by your side is like meeting a bosom friend in Boya Zhong Ziqi's landscape. With many good friends around you, your life will be smoother.

3.

Seize the opportunity and rise steadily.

Eliot once said, "What's the use of timing for those who can't make use of it? An unfertilized egg was washed into waste by the tide of time. "

I'm impressed.

People often say that "opportunities are reserved for those who are prepared".

People who are not prepared will just stay where they are and dream of finding his chance; People who are prepared will take the initiative to find opportunities.

There are often many such examples in life.

For example, in the wave of fresh graduates looking for jobs, some people just look at the recruitment information of major companies, but never submit resumes; And some people will attend various job fairs from morning till night and try their best to show themselves to major companies.

For another example, in restaurants, some waiters will only think about how to be lazy in another way; And some waiters can be promoted and raised because they are very careful in doing every little thing.

Life is bitter and sweet, which is fair to everyone.

Bitter or sweet depends on whether you can seize the opportunity from bitter to sweet.

Just like a bitter dark chocolate, it can be sweetened by adding sugar or milk at the right time.

So is life.

When I was in college, my computer teacher told me a story.

Three years ago, there was a student named Jia Jia in the class. After graduation, I entered an internship in an Internet company.

Although Jia Jia majored in computers, her programming ability was not very good, but Jia Jia served as the director of the computer club during her college years, which gave her excellent management ability.

In the first month of internship, the programmer who took him in the company often wondered if she studied computer.

Once, the company management wanted to start recruiting new employees. Jia Jia gave up the road of programming and turned to the resume of the management department.

Later, with several years of department management experience, Jia Jia was successfully appreciated by his boss. Now, she has also become the manager of the management department.

Teachers often vomit: "If Jia Jia didn't seize the opportunity to interview the management department, she might have been fired because of her programming ability."

Everyone may meet an opportunity, but not everyone knows that they have met it, and not everyone can seize it when they meet it.

As disraeli said, "The secret of success in life is to seize a good opportunity when it comes."

Good opportunities are like kites. If you pull the kite string, it seems that you are seizing the opportunity.

But only by finding the right wind direction and accumulating enough strength can we better master this kite and make it fly higher and higher.

4.

Writer Frederick? Buckman once said: "There is always a moment in everyone's life that determines what kind of person he will become."

The moment you meet a mentor, it gives you a spring breeze like rain;

When you get a good friend, it will make you feel like a duck to water;

Seize the opportunity at that moment and give people hope of rising.

I believe that no matter what you encounter, it is a kind of fate and luck.

Only by cherishing these encounters will our life have a steady stream of motivation.

May a swift horse full of blood finally meet Bole, appreciate each other and become bosom friends, and you and I will finally seize the opportunity.