How to treat "ordinary people, it is best not to go to the north to develop, life is short and life is very important"?

Young people don't go to the north to develop? I don't agree with this view. Tell me about myself. I was born in a town born after 90. I have been in Shanghai for ten years and have an account. I bought a house and settled down. I am very grateful to this city for giving me more opportunities as a girl from an ordinary background. Then I think young people in Beijing have two advantages-Guangzhou.

Benefit 1: If I am far away from home, I will definitely get married and have children, and there may be various relationships. If you can't do it, you can't do it. Comments alone can make people panic. But Shanghai won't be like this. I can do what I want. I can have more freedom to stay away from comments and accusations.

In Shanghai, it may not matter if you don't get married at the age of 30, but you must call yourself an old girl in your hometown. Many people in my hometown were forced to get married, but I have the right to choose, and finally I let my parents check. This kind of freedom only exists when the city is open. Then the more developed the city, the more open-minded it is, so young people are suitable for going north to Guangzhou.

Benefit 2: You don't need connections to have opportunities in your hometown. If you want to do something, you always have to ask someone to eat and help. But in Shanghai, there is absolutely no need to rush administrative efficiency, because once it is not done well, you can complain. Thanks to the perfect supervision mechanism in big cities, I don't need to rely on relationships to do things. At the same time, e-government is also the fastest, and it is often used as a pilot.

For young people, there are more opportunities in big cities, not to mention relationships. The same is true for finding a job. There are countless Fortune 500 companies in Shanghai. You can get in as long as you work hard. Recruitment is relatively fair and there are many jobs.

For ordinary people, I am satisfied with this relative fairness. This is the key reason why I insist on staying here.

To sum up, I think young people should go to big cities more often. I also listed two benefits I felt in big cities. Of course, big cities also have disadvantages, such as high housing prices, but there is always hope when there is opportunity. I like the way that hard work pays off.

Above, blessing.

Note that the topic is about ordinary people.

Therefore, if you think you are a "favored son of heaven" or an ambitious "ordinary person", then you should go to Beishangguang for development, but less than 1% people can really take root there, and most of them just sacrificed their young lives there.

I want you to be that 1%, but obviously, you are not, or most of us are not!

Money is very important, but it is only a part of life! You can still struggle and win the future in non-first-tier cities!

First, those "good" and "bad" in Beishangguang ① High housing prices and high competition, can ordinary people stand it?

Let's take a look at the housing prices in Beijing first. Oh, my God!

Such a high price is simply beyond our ordinary people's ability to bear, and it is impossible to bear it in this life!

Unless you and the aborigines in Beijing sell old houses and buy new ones, you will live in a shabby place all your life! It's even harder for outsiders!

1 square 60,000 yuan, assuming the salary is 1 month 1.5 million yuan, you can keep 8,000 yuan. Is it comfortable to live in a flat 100 square meter (less than 100 square meter)? ), 6 million, 30% down payment, that is 1.8 million. The down payment depends on yourself for 225 months, which is 18 years!

The final payment is more difficult. Can a family live, eat, drink, sleep and study in Beijing?

I have to admit that it is not ordinary people who can get along in Beijing, but most ordinary people just don't give up!

Big world, high salary, you earn more per unit time!

Even if the house price is so high, most of us ordinary people simply can't afford it. Then why do many people choose to work in the north, Guangzhou and Shenzhen?

The reason is actually very simple. Many people think that in big cities, they have a bigger world outlook and can see more and more advanced things and ideas!

And in big cities, wages are indeed higher. In the same month, you may earn 20,000 yuan in Beijing and only 5,000 yuan or 1 10,000 yuan in a small city.

I am in Xiamen, and the salary here is basically half that of Beijing company. In other words, if you go to Beijing, it is more appropriate to raise your salary by 1.5 times, otherwise you will lose money.

Many people send money back to their hometown in the north, Guangzhou and Shenzhen, because the house in their hometown is very cheap, maybe only 3000 yuan a square meter, and some of it is useless! So when they go to Beijing, they really just spend time making money there and then send the money back to their hometown. When they earn almost enough money, they will go back to their hometown to live. This is actually ok. I don't think it is necessary to give up staying in a big city.

Second, the "good" and "bad" of small cities ① The pressure is small and the pace of life is slow.

Then compared with the high prices and high competition in big cities, the pressure in small cities will be relatively less. The overall pace of life will be slower, and everyone is being a qualified ordinary person. The ordinary people here don't mean that you are really an ordinary person, but that we have chosen a pace that suits us better. Unlike in a big city like Beishangguangshen and Shenzhen, we basically have no life of our own, except for work, and we don't even have time to cry.

(2) The fewer opportunities, the more difficult it is to make a big breakthrough.

Then, of course, in fact, there will be fewer so-called big opportunities in small cities, because there are fewer big enterprises themselves. Many large enterprises set their headquarters in the north, Guangzhou and Shenzhen, not necessarily in small cities, so many Internet users go to Beijing, Shanghai, Shenzhen and Guangzhou because there are indeed more opportunities there.

Opportunity means breakthrough, so in a small city, most people's progress may be 1:00 1:00, but if you are in a big city, your progress may be fast, which does not mean that your ability is fast, or your opportunities may be fast.

Third, to sum up, in my opinion, more ordinary people are suitable for living in small cities, and big cities are reserved for people who love to toss. Life itself is not just about making money, making money is very important. You can make money in a small city, and you have time to spend the money you earn.

what do you think?

I often encourage young people to go to Beijing, Guangzhou and Shenzhen for development. Is life important? I don't think it matters. Opportunity is ten thousand times more important than life. I don't know what's the point of living if there is no chance and a dull life.

For example, I told my nephew that you should go to the north, Guangzhou and Shenzhen. If you are at Huawei, maybe you need to work hard for 5- 10 years to get wealth and freedom. And in these 5- 10 years, you have to work overtime, travel and work hard. You look tired. But if you insist, you can have a house in Shenzhen and retire at the age of 40. Can be financially free.

On the other hand, if you are in the mainland, you don't have to work hard. As long as it is nine to five, life is slow and everything should be available. If not, you can live for a lifetime.

But if the two are compared, one is in Shenzhen, and the concentrated 10 year is exchanged for the "diluted" 50 years, and the result is the same, then which value is it?

Perhaps, using Huawei as a case is a bit incomparable. Most people are not such talents. If you only compare ordinary positions, such as management, technology or procurement. So is there a difference between Beishangguangshen and the mainland? The answer is yes:

First of all. Job opportunities, employment opportunities are greater than those in the mainland.

For the same job, you will definitely have more chances to change jobs in Shenzhen than in the Mainland. If you work in a company for several years, the growth of its business volume will definitely be much greater than that in the mainland.

Second, the starting point of salary must be higher than that in the mainland.

For example, in the third-and fourth-tier cities in the Mainland, the monthly income must be around 4,000 to be considered as middle income, while in Shenzhen, 1 0,000 is considered as middle income.

Third, the appreciation of real estate assets.

Mainland housing prices will also rise. Compared with the housing prices in Shenzhen, in the long run, the cities with net population inflow must be stronger than those with net population outflow. Similarly, if you buy a house in debt in the mortgage, the monthly payment in Shenzhen will definitely be large, but your asset appreciation probability is high. In the long run, it is indisputable that the mainland must gradually widen the gap with first-tier and second-tier cities such as Shenzhen.

Fourth, social support.

In terms of education, infrastructure and living environment, the gap between the mainland and big cities such as Shenzhen will gradually widen.

Fifth, industry resources.

This is the most attractive place in the north, Guangzhou and Shenzhen. If you are a wise person, you will not only face the prosperity of the industry far exceeding that of the mainland, but also be far ahead of the mainland in terms of industry resources, such as contacts and the influence of your own circle. For example, starting a business, or developing a job, or jumping ship, first-tier cities such as Shenzhen naturally have enough depth and breadth.

Of course, everyone has their own interests, and some people are willing to choose a plain, simple and delicious life. However, I prefer to choose a focused and hard-working life than a dull and diluted life-even if it is only to achieve the same goal as the mainland in a shorter time, I think I have won time for life.

There is no doubt that whether in Shenzhen or in the mainland, there is not much difference between idle people and mediocre people, and there is no reference value in discussing such people.

what do you think? Nonsense. What matters is not life, but how to live.

I come from a small county on the China 18 line. I was admitted to the best senior middle school in the county with a score of 0.3 points more than the admission score. In our county, as long as I enter this high school, I will definitely be admitted to the university. Finally, all my classes are admitted to the university.

It's almost 20 years since I graduated, and I had a party last year. As you can see, most of my classmates are in big cities, such as Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou, Shenzhen, Fuzhou and Xiamen, and only a few have returned to our county. One of them went to a bank in the county, one to a hospital in the county, two to a middle school in the county, two to a small business, a class of 60 people, and six to their hometown.

It doesn't matter what they have. They can go to banks and hospitals, or go back to teaching. There are also two business people, family businesses.

Life in a small city is an acquaintance society. You need connections in a small city. Everyone you meet, sit together and talk more. Maybe if you turn a few corners, there will be people you know, so this is an acquaintance society.

In an acquaintance society, everyone depends on relationships. This relationship may not be money, but an exchange of resources. You help me, I will help you, and everyone will do things. When you have no relationship, you can't compete, and you don't even know how to be excluded.

In small cities, resources are limited, and everyone is competing for the only resources, such as traditional posts such as banking, electricity, hospitals, civil servants and telecommunications. Among them, the interests are intertwined, and it is difficult for a person without background to enter. Even if he enters, it is difficult to become important.

Other industries in small cities have limited jobs. After graduating from college, there is no professional counterpart at all, so it is also a struggle to go back and start all over again.

1) If you have various relationships with your family in a small city, it's great to go back to a small county.

Small cities have low housing prices and low consumption. Compared with urban wages, it is still guaranteed compared with ordinary people, and the pressure is low. For example, my aunt is living a fairy life now. She bought a house and a car early, and her salary was not bad. I can often see her in a circle of friends looking for another place to eat, farm food, private cuisine and mountain villa.

At this time, you can say that you are alive.

2) If you have no connections and resources, it will be very tangled to go back and start over.

In a small place, it doesn't matter, without resources, you will find that the choice is narrow and blocked everywhere. It is difficult to find a job, it is difficult to find a job, and it is difficult to work. You may find that this company in the whole city can afford you.

Then at this time, you can also say that you are alive, not alive.

As an ordinary person, I suggest you go to a big city, which depends on your ability and the opportunity to come to a big city. You will find that there are all kinds of people, and everyone has space. In a big city, everyone is a stranger, so there are not so many interests involved. There aren't that many networks.

So you will find that when you go to the government of a big city, everyone behaves well. Prepare the materials according to the government's guidelines and it will be done soon. There are no other moths.

Friends' grievances, such as noisy and messy things, are handled by people who call to complain, and there are also return visits.

There are all kinds of companies in big cities. As long as you have the ability, you can try it yourself. If you feel uncomfortable, you can quit. There are all kinds of opportunities anyway.

In big cities, all kinds of resources are concentrated. Although the competition is fierce, as long as you have the ability, you can still fight for it and will not be blocked by various networks.

And there are all kinds of industries in big cities. No matter what major you graduate, you can find a job that suits you.

What you want when you come to a big city is an opportunity, especially when you come to Shenzhen, which is a paradise for young people. We come from all corners of the country and do what we can.

Of course, the competition pressure in big cities is also great. Every morning when I get up, I can see pedestrians rushing to the subway bus, holding breakfast in their hands and rushing to eat.

In big cities, housing prices are staggering and consumption is high. Rent and meals account for most of the consumption.

1) If you have ambition and ability, go to a big city.

Ambitious people need opportunities. This demand contains a lot of opportunities in big cities. As long as you grasp it, you will have a chance to turn over.

Of course, to seize the opportunity, we must have the ability and not rely on faith. Hardworking is common. This is all too common for anyone who has never seen the sun at four or five in the morning. As long as you get to the big company downstairs, at 2.3 am, the lights are brightly lit, and there are long queues of taxis waiting for people to get off work.

This is a dream. Follow your dreams. This is life.

2) People who don't want to live so tired and are abandoned in big cities at any time.

In big cities, capital is ruthless. Use it if it is valuable, and discard it if it is not. So you're here, trying to make your life easier. You can when you are young, because you have the best cost performance.

But at the age of 35, you may be abandoned at any time.

At this time, just live, not live.

So ordinary people, living or not, do not depend on going to big cities, but on how much resources you have, how much ability you have and whether you are willing to pay.

You have the resources, the ability and the willingness to pay, pursue your dreams and live a good life.

No resources, no effort, no matter where I go, I just live.

If it has nothing to do with the length of life,

Well, it is precisely because life is short that life is very important.

I'm going everywhere! (Beishangguang is listed as the first choice only because the city is bigger and more likely. )

Because, the quality of life,

Not determined by the level of food, clothing, housing and transportation,

Is determined by inner feelings.

The most boring life is to stay in the same place all the time, only one day in your life.

Ordinary people don't go to big cities to develop, is it to make the three generations ordinary? Ordinary people should go to big cities to develop.

I have a brother in my hometown. His family is poor. Both parents are farmers, and they have never got ahead. He said, I must work hard outside for several years. After graduating from college, he went to Beijing alone.

I have been wandering in Beijing for several years, and I heard that the years he worked hard were really difficult. Every year, the hard seat ticket to go home is broken. It takes 20 hours from Beijing to his home. He will go home in a hurry during the New Year, buy something for his parents, and then go back to the cabin he rented in Beijing.

Although these years have been hard, they have had a great influence on him.

Now he finally has his own house in Beijing. It's not big, but at least I have a small home with peace of mind. But also married a wife, gave birth to a child, and the child also fell into a Beijing hukou.

This is a case of ordinary people's counterattack. Although his life is very hard, his children have access to the best educational resources and can enjoy a better environment. The growing environment will affect a person's life.

Moreover, in recent years, working hard outside and broadening your horizons is a test of personal spirit and will.

So I think ordinary people should go to big cities more.

As for the subject, life is short and life is very important. Is life all about entertainment and relaxation? Everyone says that sometimes work can lead to no personal life.

Then I want to ask, isn't work a part of your life?

If everyone looks at work and life separately, the two will never be balanced. In fact, your job is a part of life, and we should combine it into one.

Whether you choose to go to Beishangguang or stay in your hometown, there will be hardships and gains. Just think it over before making a decision. Don't regret it.

The above is my opinion, hoping to help the subject.

The question you asked is actually confused and wrong in logic, and the concept is vague. Here, I will extract two words in your sentence, "ordinary people" and "life", and then I will make these two words clear before I look at your question.

"Ordinary people": people with no background, rich material conditions and rich family resources are all ordinary people.

"Life": broadly speaking, it refers to people's various activities, including daily life behavior, study, work, leisure, socialization and entertainment.

1. What kind of career development does "Beishangguang" give to migrants? The biggest difference between "going north to Guangzhou" and the mainland is to pay attention to fairness and order. There are not too many human relationships here to influence everything, and everything depends on our own strength and efforts.

There is no fixed solidification here, and everyone should strive to realize their career dreams. Maybe you can't see what will happen tomorrow, but as long as you work hard in the right direction, your career and life will get better every day.

1. Give "ordinary people" more opportunities for career advancement.

In "Northern Guangzhou", you can give more ordinary people a chance of fair competition in the workplace. As long as your education and ability meet the prescribed requirements, you can do it, and you don't have to be considerate like your hometown. You know, ordinary people account for 70%-80% of the total population, and their IQ is close, so everyone works hard.

Strive to learn new knowledge and skills; Strive to improve various comprehensive abilities; Strive to improve their quality and self-cultivation; Strive to expand their horizons and realms. Through constant change and promotion, I will integrate into the society and reap the fruits of my own labor.

2. Give "ordinary people" a richer dimension of "life".

Compared with mainland cities, "Beishangguang" is rich in living standards, materials, culture and entertainment, and all kinds of new ideas and thoughts are constantly impacting all aspects of ordinary people's lives. Your life will become rich and colorful. You have many choices, and everything depends on your heart.

3. Give "ordinary people" new ideas and modes of thinking.

This is the best gift from "Northern Guangzhou" to ordinary people. Whether you are poor or rich, whether you are a powerful person or a common people, you can have it here as long as you are willing to accept you with an open mind. After these talents are integrated into your consciousness, you have undergone fundamental changes in your workplace and in your life.

Second, life is short. Everyone has the right to choose their own way of life. It depends on your personal choice whether to develop your career in "going north to Guangzhou" or to stay in your hometown and live a relatively comfortable life. This is everyone's right. No matter which one you choose, you don't have to care about the others.

If you choose to live comfortably in your hometown, don't envy the prosperity of "going north to Guangzhou", which is the result of the efforts of generations of local people; If you choose to go to "Beishangguang" to develop your career, you will leave your ease and laziness at home. "North to Guangzhou" has its own survival rule of "North to Guangzhou".

Third, when you come to "North to Guangzhou", you must first abandon the bad habits in your hometown and integrate into the local people's literature. Is the real value you have been to. "When in Rome, do as the Romans do" is the principle of being a man! Everyone who decides to develop in "Northern Guangzhou" knows this law. It is necessary for every foreigner to respect local culture and abide by local rules. If not, please leave smoothly.

All the progress and prosperity of "going north to Guangzhou" stems from local laws and regulations, public order and good customs, and so does fairness in the workplace. Fair competition and orderly development are the basis of "going north to Guangzhou". Only by integrating into local culture and observing public order and good customs can we find a platform for career development.

Good professional habits can significantly improve people's lives, just as doctors' families usually have better personal and family hygiene habits than others; Families engaged in the financial industry have unique benefits for individuals and families to manage their finances; After many ordinary people from other places have made good achievements in the workplace through their own continuous efforts, their family life quality will definitely be much higher than that of their classmates or relatives and friends who stay at home.

Fourth, leaving "going to the North" can take away the new ideas and concepts developed here and lead the hometown elders to be passers-by in life. Similarly, ordinary foreigners are also passers-by who "go to the North". When you leave "going to the North", you can take away those new ideas and concepts that have been integrated into your life, and help your hometown people improve their quality of life imperceptibly after returning home. You can also use the new knowledge and skills you have learned in "going north" for the construction of your hometown.

Write at the end: look at different problems in different realms and choose different careers and lives. As long as the career development path you choose suits your own conditions, you should have no regrets if you have really worked hard.

Ordinary people had better not go to Beishangguang. This sentence still has some constructive suggestions for those who start to work hard when they are old. For example, after working in a small city for a lifetime, I want to go to Beishangguang when I am old. I advise you to save it Life is short, and living is really important. Because you haven't experienced the subway in the morning rush hour in a big city, you don't know that there is another "squeeze to death" S method. The subway in Beijing is almost packed in the morning, and it's not "you" every day. I rush to work with this quarrel almost every day.

Of course, the pace of work is also very fast. I have seen a friend get out of the subway in the morning in order not to be late for punching in, just to punch in a normal card. Sometimes I really feel tired in a big city when I see this scene. Why not go back to your hometown and find a stable job to support yourself?

But for young people, it is still problematic to have this idea of being content with the status quo early. As the subject said, life is short, and it is precisely because life is short that you have to live a colorful and interesting life. There are many things in big cities that you can't imagine staying in your hometown.

Students are basically teachers in their hometown, with a monthly salary of 4000. After working for a year, they began to teach while taking care of the baby. Before they get married, they think not only about life in front of them, but also about poetry and distance. After marriage, I found that life was only in front of me, so I took a few broken poems that everyone recited every day in my textbook and taught them again and again year after year. They have to take care of children and old people, and they can't go anywhere. After graduating from the same major, you recorded the teaching video of excel, realizing self-media. He can't use the shortcut key of copy and paste. He saw your video and laughed at you like an S-bag, doing nothing every day. Then you explained that you are from the media. As a result, he asked you what is self-media and explained it for a long time. The more he listens, the more he thinks you are doing C sales.

So the difference between living in a big city and a small city lies not only in the level of income, but also in the limitation and narrowness of thinking, because the people and things you contact are different, and how much money you earn is often positively related to the expansion of your thinking and the distance you can see!

If I say what I regret most so far, I will say that I chose Beipiao. If I say what is the most meaningful thing in my life at present, I will still say that I chose to drift north, because there are opportunities and challenges everywhere, just like a customs clearance game in life, which makes you feel difficult but enjoy it.

I want to say that most young people who go to the north, Guangzhou and Shenzhen are ordinary people.

If you are a rich second generation, or your family has the ability to arrange everything for you. Why did you drift north?

If you are content with mediocrity and mediocrity, how dare you drift north?

Those young people who wander in big cities are actually ordinary people.

Don't be fooled by TV dramas. Just like Ode to Joy, which was hit hard two years ago, there are really not many elites like Andy in the real society. Most people actually prefer Fan Meisheng.

Going to a big city for development is just because I want to gamble. After graduation, many of my college classmates choose to work in big cities like Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Hangzhou. When I was in college, I got together once, met again after a long separation and talked a lot.

One of my classmates who works in Shanghai said to me:

Who doesn't want to be with my parents? But if you go back to your hometown, which is not even a third-tier city, how do you live with those dead wages every month? My parents can't help me. If I want to buy a house, I have to rely on myself. There are many opportunities in big cities and I want to gamble.

Like most young people who work hard in big cities, there are more opportunities hidden under the neon lights in big cities.

I once read an article that some people in the northern suburbs live in Tongzhou, get up at four o'clock every day to clean up, then go to work in Zhongguancun and spend at least four hours on the road every day.

Smoggy weather, crowded cars, flying around Dai Yue every day, I have never experienced that kind of life, it is hard to imagine what makes these people stick to it.

Is this life? Of course not. Everyone knows who doesn't want to live a carefree life, working at sunrise every day and resting at sunset. But life is not so much poetry and distance as the present.

Life is really important, but the premise of life is that all roads lead to Rome, but some people were born in Rome, children without umbrellas can only learn to run, and some people try their best just to survive.

I have always believed that the world is fair. If God gives you a well-off family, it takes away your enterprising spirit. Similarly, if he gives you a poor family, he will also give you an indomitable blood.

Many times, everyone will achieve the same goal through different routes, just the process, and everyone's excitement is different.

And "life is important". I am happy to see these five words.

The leader of my last company left less than a week after joining the company. Why? The family forced him to go back to be a teacher! His family lives in a small county in Guizhou, and his parents, uncles and aunts are both teachers, so they have been strongly opposed to his travel to Guangzhou, because they just feel that Peking University is under great pressure and teachers are good.

This has been nagging for years. My leader had been fighting hard, but his father was seriously ill that year. My father's greatest wish is that my leader can be around, and he still thinks that being a teacher is the best for him.

My leader is a filial man, and finally he made up his mind to go back to his hometown to be an ordinary teacher and enjoy an ordinary life. I didn't really understand it at that time. He also told me: "It's really tiring to work hard in Guangzhou in recent years and work overtime every day. I think it's good to go home and have a rest. "

So I left after a week's employment, with my daughter-in-law. At that time, they got married soon. Because the leader has given instructions before, I occasionally contact the leader. Their family has many connections in the local school, so the leader easily entered a middle school as a teacher with a monthly salary of about 3500.

By the way, the leader is a brand manager in Guangzhou, with a monthly salary of about 20 thousand.

Almost half a year, the leader suddenly told me that he planned to go back to Guangzhou.

I quickly asked what was wrong.

"In the past six months, I have borrowed one or two thousand just to borrow money, and I really can't live."

It turns out that in my hometown, although my life is leisurely, my salary is too low. Their families are all teachers, with low salaries and little savings. He spends more than 3000 yuan a month. According to him, a bad cold will cost more than half of the salt water in a few days.

His daughter-in-law is pregnant again, and all kinds of inspections and shopping are simply stressful. Besides, his father's illness also needs a lot of money to support.

In the past six months, their families have also begun to realize this problem and agreed to let him go back to Guangzhou.

As a result, there is a "life" in small places. The price of this kind of life is that you can't get sick, you can't have higher consumption, you can't invite people to dinner casually, and you can't take a trip. ...

Do you think this is called "survival" or "life"?