Kind-hearted, happy marriage.

The fate between people can be divided into four kinds: repaying kindness, complaining, collecting debts and paying off debts.

Buddha said: All encounters in life are actually reunions after a long separation. Your family in this life are all your friends in previous lives, and your friends in this life are also your family in previous lives. Between people, that's it.

I have changed my outlook on life since I came into contact with Buddhism. I am no longer cynical and cynical. With a grateful heart, I have formed a good relationship with people I met in my life. Those who need my help, I am willing to lend a helping hand and do my bit; Those who have helped me are grateful and bear in mind.

Sometimes, fate is so wonderful. For example, my colleague Mr. Wang and I knew her before I arrived in Dongguan. She is a partner of my friend Hui Hui, and they get along well. I met her because of Hui Hui, and she helped me.

After I transferred to Dongguan, I was honored to sit in an office with her and get along with her day and night. Teacher Wang is kind and virtuous, and she is very enthusiastic when any relatives and friends have something to ask her. We have similar views and hit it off very well. We often communicate together. She is like a warm sister.

When my daughter volunteered for the college entrance examination, she cried and said that she would apply for the media major. After studying science for three years, she had to abandon reason and follow literature. The whole family disagreed and did her ideological work. Everyone thinks that science has a wide future and it is easy to find employment in the future. Didn't you always say that learning math and physics well is not afraid to travel all over the world?

My daughter is very determined, and I don't want to be too reluctant. After all, the road ahead depends on her. If she doesn't want to, it's no use trying. This aspect is also related to my family style. My parents generally don't interfere with their children's choices and give us full freedom.

I thought of Mr. Wang's son, a brilliant young man who was delayed because of the wrong choice, so I contacted Mr. Wang and got the contact information of her son, Miss Wang.

At that time, Xiao Wang obviously liked liberal arts in high school, but his parents insisted that he study science. Later, I went to an ordinary undergraduate college in Zhengzhou. Xiao Wang didn't like his job after work, so he resolutely put everything down and worked hard for the postgraduate entrance examination. Finally, I was admitted to my favorite school's favorite major, Chuanzhong International Chinese. After graduation, he applied to be a secretary in a company in Hangzhou.

When I contacted Xiao Wang, he was in Hangzhou. After introducing himself to him, Xiao Wang hung up, then called me and talked with me enthusiastically for thirty or forty minutes. What a careful and educated child. Xiao Wang analyzed the situation of the media industry with me and told me that it was easy to get a job. All units need a pen container, major newspapers, websites, TV stations, etc. They are all useful, and you can also take an examination of civil servants. There are many ways out, except for high-paying jobs.

Finally, Xiao Wang said earnestly that if you choose a major you don't like, you will study every day in the future, and it will be difficult to stick to it in the future. This sentence touched me. I also hold this view. Isn't it wonderful to choose your favorite major, find your favorite job and live a happy life? Although it is difficult to get what you want in your life, why not follow your inner choice once when you have a choice?

I chose my major and started to choose a school. All six schools put media major in the first place, and then put other majors together. I sent the photos of the volunteers I chose to Xiao Wang, asking him to help me refer to them again. When chatting with Xiao Wang, put her on speaker and let her listen carefully. In the face of volunteering, Xiao Wang analyzed every major in every school and made a clear statement from the subject learning content to the future employment direction. Because Xiao Wang has not only employment experience, but also learning experience and lessons from detours, and Xiao Wang's classmates have good eloquence and strong language expression skills. Hearing this, the daughter said: after listening to so many people's suggestions, only Xiao Wang is the most reliable.

When my daughter was a sophomore, she began to think about the future postgraduate entrance examination. Because their major in network and new media is new, she is a fifth-grade student, with only an undergraduate course and no graduate students. If she wants to take the postgraduate entrance examination, she has to cross majors. My daughter is caught in the dilemma of choice again, and she doesn't know which major to choose.

I contacted Xiao Wang again. He has gone to the Confucius Institute in Ukraine to teach Chinese. As always, Xiao Wang answered questions enthusiastically, being polite, self-disciplined, and especially modest and polite.

I've always wanted to meet Xiao Wang, invite him to dinner and thank him for his deep friendship. Xiao Wang was trapped in Ukraine because of the epidemic. This summer vacation, he finally returned to China. After being quarantined in Sichuan 14 days, I returned to my hometown and continued to be quarantined 14 days. Finally, at the end of the quarantine period, he asked him out to meet him.

That day, I took my daughter and invited Xiao Wang and her son to a western restaurant for tea. Epidemic prevention and control is very strict. It is not easy to meet people when you enter public places and register with a mask.

My daughter met the legendary eldest brother for the first time, and she gave him guidance many times. My junior year is coming, and the postgraduate entrance examination must be put on the agenda. Because, in recent years, the postgraduate entrance examination team has grown stronger and stronger. The girl from my daughter's family failed in the postgraduate entrance examination in the first year, and made up her mind in the second year to rent a house with her classmates in the graduation school and study hard at night. At an early age, I lost my hair one by one and studied hard. It only succeeded for the second time, and it was not a first-class institution.

My aunt's cousin's daughter, a veritable top student, took a double degree in school, served as the president of the student union, worked part-time and finally joined the party on the eve of graduation and became a serious child of others.

Maybe she studies hard. When her cousin advised her to take the postgraduate entrance examination, she wanted to find a job. Major units went to their school to recruit, and several units she applied for hired her, and finally chose Huatai Securities near the school. When she first started working, she found that an undergraduate had a heavy task and little room for improvement. Resolutely resigned and began to prepare for the postgraduate entrance examination. Later, due to the hasty time, the first postgraduate entrance examination ended in failure, and now I am preparing for the second postgraduate entrance examination.

My aunt's cousin's daughter went to Huazhong Normal University and was admitted to Wuhan University as a graduate student. I didn't go home during the summer vacation, so I was tired of studying at school. I threw away my book and cried on my desk. After crying, I continued to study and cried to my cousin, saying: If I worked so hard in senior three, I could be admitted to a better school.

These living examples around us make people feel anxious. My two cousins' daughters are more progressive than my girl, and it's still so difficult. Why is my girl not worrying?

The four of us chatted over tea. Xiao Wang analyzed the current situation for her daughter and told her that it is not so difficult to take the postgraduate entrance examination, so don't be afraid. According to her major, it is suggested that she choose Zhong Chuan, because Zhong Chuan ranks first in their major. But I am interested in Peking University, because my best friend knows a tutor of Peking University, and entering the interview session can provide some help. Besides, the aura of Peking University is so dazzling that I have never had that chance in my life. It is also good for my daughter to take a chance. Xiao Wang said that it is not bad to be admitted to Peking University, which is his dream school. My daughter is worried that she can't pass the exam on her own. Xiao Wang said, it's okay. Your school's professional ranking is higher than that of Peking University, and some two books have been admitted. My daughter's confidence has greatly increased.

Xiao Wang told her daughter not to stretch the front too long, and she began to prepare for the next period of her junior year. Now, she should choose a good school first, and understand the major of the school and the trend of the school's problems.

This autumn, I reminded my daughter from time to time that it was time to consider schools and majors. The daughter is in trouble, suffering from difficult choices. Graduate students are different from undergraduates. They can only choose one school at a time according to their college entrance examination results, and each school has different questions. Experienced candidates say: Sometimes, for postgraduate entrance examination, choice is more important than hard work.

When I was vacillating between several universities, I met Xiao Wang's mother and learned that Xiao Wang had applied to teach at Peking University. Seeing the news sent by Xiao Wang in the circle of friends, the spring breeze was full and the word Peking University was shining.

Quickly share this good news with my daughter and tell her that there is no need to struggle. Just choose Peking University and work hard. As long as you go all out, it is not impossible. Xiao Wang, the beacon, light up ahead and sprint once.

Think about it all the way, and the fate of the Wang family is quite deep. Maybe this fate was planted in a previous life. Miss Wang became a noble person on her daughter's way to school, and made suggestions from time to time to avoid some unnecessary pits.

I often feel that my daughter's learning luck is super good, and she never loses her chain at critical moments. There are always noble people to give advice.

As the master taught: But do good, Mo Wen's future, you are just kind, God has his own arrangements. As long as you have a kind heart, you can form a good relationship.