How to do things in life?

People are social people, which determines that people are not free. Man is the product of the environment. First of all, men are the continuation of parents' hopes. To some extent, your parents' ideas and thoughts determine the education you received from childhood and your choice of education. Although you are an independent person, you are not recognized as a person by society, but as an object of education. So society ignores the existence of your thoughts. Society arranges your study according to normal logic, chooses your major and chooses everything for you. So you enter the unconscious orientation of life.

Because your major makes you look like you have certain skills, you went to work in a counterpart unit to show your skills, and then you got who you are today, as if you were living in an orderly way.

What is conscious orientation?

When you have an independent mind and discover your real interests, you start your own life choices and do what you want to do, which is the conscious life orientation.

Of course, it is also possible that the unconscious life orientation is consistent with the conscious life orientation, which is the correct life orientation, so I am happy for you.

What is the correct life orientation?

Do the work that suits you.

How to evaluate whether the job is suitable for you?

The job that suits you should naturally make you like it, attract your attention, like to study deeply and enjoy it.

If you can't arouse your interest, make you naturally pay attention, feel particularly tired, particularly painful, even incompetent, and work hard but lose confidence, then this may be an incorrect life orientation.

For example, a girl who just graduated from a university goes to apply for an interview with an administrative officer: the front desk. The interviewer asked her, "What do you think of our receptionist?" Because she didn't pay attention to the front desk staff when she came in, that is, her subconscious front desk work didn't attract her attention. She can only simply answer ok. What does this mean? She is not suitable to be a receptionist because she has no real interest in this job and life characteristics. She just wants to find a job. She saw the job in the advertisement and applied for it.

This does not mean her failure, on the contrary, it reminds her that this is not her real life orientation, and she should choose again.

Everyone can find their place, as long as they don't give up.

People always position themselves by the amount of money they make, that is, the amount of money they make is the basis of positioning. How many mistakes are easy to make, especially in today's material society.

There are also some lovely professional managers who find that their bosses earn more than themselves and feel that they are being exploited and have no freedom, so they do their own thing regardless of the willy-nilly, thinking that only in this way can they succeed and live a meaningful life.

As a result, not only can I not make money, I lose my freedom, and my life is getting harder and harder.

This is a tragedy caused by human selfish desires and distrust. He doesn't know what abilities he has, what these abilities are suitable for, and he doesn't know what the boss's life characteristics are and whether he has them.

The above wrong positioning is easy to solve, as long as you have a correct attitude and know yourself.

There are more mistakes in life that you already know, but it seems that you can't change them. For example, you have done a good job (at least in the eyes of the public), and you still have to make money. You can do it, but you don't like it, or you prefer it.

Dare not give up easily. The pressure of family and society makes you unable to make a decision. After all, this is a ready-made visible income. If you give up knowing where tomorrow's breakfast is, can that favorite job really bring you a good income? Can you really make yourself successful? What should I do if I fail?

With the development of urbanization, the distance between people is getting farther and farther, human feelings are becoming more and more indifferent, and egoism is prevalent. Everyone is minding his own business, so how can he care about and help others? The social welfare security system is not perfect, the economic and social values have undergone tremendous changes, the money worship ideology has become more and more serious, the sense of self-struggle has declined globally, and the hedonic ideology has grown.

It has caused people's shortsightedness and increased social insecurity.

People are afraid of change, dare not change easily, and live if they can.

I think ideal is a game I played when I was a child, but the reality is so cruel. Life is like this. So I slowly accepted my current life orientation and defaulted to the life orientation I should have. Although he was tired and had other ideas, he felt that he had betrayed his soul in the dead of night, but he still resigned.

He doesn't want to give up and change, because he thinks he may fail after giving up. And his social resources are not enough, which leads him to have no way out.

So will it fail to do what you like and are suitable for? Is it risky?

The greatest risk of mankind is to imagine the risk, but imagine not to try.

As long as you dare to try and enjoy the beautiful scenery all the way, you will naturally have the right result.