Douban score is 8.4. What miracle did this ugly little boy conquer 350 thousand people with?

Miracle Boy is a tear-jerking film released on 20 17, which touched tens of thousands of viewers. Up to now, the score of Douban is close to 350,000. The score was as high as 8.6 points, which received rave reviews.

The film tells the story of a 10-year-old boy who enters the campus for the first time and adapts to his new life. Augie was born with facial deformity because of genetic problems. After 27 operations, he can breathe through his nose, see with his eyes, hear with his ears and speak normally with his mouth. But the appearance did not become normal because of the operation.

Every time Auggie goes out, children will cry because of his face, while adults will dodge and even look at him in disgust. So going to school this time is a great challenge for him and his family, and no one knows how many difficulties he will face.

The director told the whole story from the perspective of Auggie and three other children. The misunderstanding that each character sees from his own perspective is explained from the perspective of the second character, why there is such a misunderstanding. People have to think, sometimes, what we see is the truth? If we can't see the truth, can we choose to forgive?

The director also hopes that after watching the movie, if children meet ugly children like Auggie in their lives, we can be afraid. This is our truest reaction. But we can choose to be kind, not to hurt them, and give a warm smile after being afraid. Even, we can try to understand them. They may have a very interesting soul behind them and can be our friends.

It is said that children nowadays are very smart and already know what lies are and what is true and false. In the latest issue of Qipa Shuo, Luo Zhenyu also mentioned that her daughter didn't know the truth until she was three years old. They know that we are pretending to be princesses and cooking. Therefore, when we educate our children, we should actually be more reasonable and more honest.

Auggie was bullied on the first day. In fact, this is also something that Auggie's family has been worried about. Many times, we choose not to take care of things and let time dilute everything, but in children's hearts, these injuries may become the shadow of life. And Auggie's mother chose to face this matter bravely with Auggie and talk openly.

Mom told Auggie frankly that once people got to know him, they would like him. This is a fact, because Augie has a clever mind, a helpful heart and a sense of humor. But no matter how long it will be in the future, it is also true that people may not like Auggie immediately because of his looks. Because Auggie can't change his appearance, and people can't change their aesthetics.

We are always worried that children will be hurt by cruel display, but children actually have a natural ability to distinguish right from wrong. Even reading fairy tales and cartoons, you can see good and evil. How can a sensitive child like Auggie not see what emotions are in other people's eyes? But my mother's honesty to Auggie at this time is affirmation and support. Mom affirmed Auggie's feelings, but also gave Auggie hope that his personality would be seen by other children and his friends would like his lovely children. And when Auggie really accepts others' reactions to him, he will grow up, let go and be more real.

But Auggie didn't actually see it. What is more painful than him is Auggie's mother herself. When I took Auggie out, what was my mother's first reaction when other children were scared to cry by her poor son? Scold each other's children? Afraid to cover Auggie's face right away? Mom must have more struggles and worries in her heart.

Before Auggie can accept the reality and face it calmly, mom actually needs to convince herself to accept the reality and face it bravely. What a strong belief she needs in her heart to do this. My mother, tempered by this experience for ten years, stood at the school gate the day she sent Auggie to school. She was still full of worries and prayed silently, "Let others be kind to him."

She doesn't feel bad about her children being treated like this. But she knows that running away is not the solution. And the sooner you face it, the more opportunities you can give him to grow up. Growing up in such a family, my sister Via. When she met her boyfriend Justin unhappy, she chose to hide Auggie's things. Because she also wants to be noticed, not because she has a "special" brother. But at the critical moment, I chose to be honest with Justin and lie to myself, and finally I got true love.

Choose honesty, and your true self will be happy and loved.

A survey called "Children's Participation in Family Education" shows that 4 1.4% of primary school students and 46.9% of middle school students want their parents to have a sense of humor; 23.5% of primary school students and 22.5% of middle school students expressed their hope to play games, surf the Internet and have fun with their parents.

Auggie is very lucky. He has a humorous father, like a friend. He will have a lightsaber duel with Auggie and watch Star Wars with him. Even playing video games with his little friends.

The United States attaches great importance to cultivating children's sense of humor, because it can make the beginning healthier and more optimistic. In fact, it is hard for us to imagine that Augie, a child with a deformed face, can often laugh at himself and play jokes on others. But when I saw my father, I understood that it was because of my father.

At present, whether the sense of humor is inherited is inconclusive, and compared with sadness and other emotions, there are few papers on humor. Even if there is heredity, there are only 30% factors, and 70% are acquired. The benefits of humor are obvious.

When Victoria's boyfriend Justin first met Auggie, he was a little surprised and embarrassed. It was Auggie who broke the atmosphere with humor. Before leaving, don't forget Doby's sister and boyfriend to see if they will kiss and hug when they are alone. Humor instantly brought Auggie and Justin closer to each other and broke the deadlock.

Humor also reflects a person's wisdom. Before the latest declaration of the sixth Chipa lecture instructor, many people thought that he was not good at debating and was not serious. No one should choose him as his own debate tutor. And he knows that. He said: "I am everyone's bottom line. Winning is your credit, and losing is all my responsibility. " He humorously expressed everyone's concerns, and also reassured the debaters and became the mentor with the most votes.

So did Auggie. His good friend Jack hesitated and asked him if he had considered plastic surgery. In fact, Auggie can see the worries behind this good friend. He knew that the reaction of outsiders to see himself would hurt Auggie. But it's actually embarrassing to ask, and Jack is afraid of hurting Auggie. However, the clever Auggie responded that he is so handsome now because he has had many plastic surgery. Instantly broke the embarrassment of the two. This self-mockery also reflects Auggie's wit.

Nowadays, humor is a necessity in a stressful life, and both children and adults need humor. Not long ago, a recruitment by NASA also emphasized that besides passing the technical barrier, players also want to have a sense of humor. This humorous team member is a great atmosphere regulator in the long space life in the future, and even plays a very encouraging role when the team encounters difficulties.

Humor allows us to face setbacks bravely and solve difficulties wisely.

At the beginning of life, whether human nature is good or evil has been a controversial topic.

In The Source of Good and Evil published on 20 15, a scientific conclusion was finally reached. In the book, a series of experiments were carried out on babies by scientific means. The youngest baby is only three months old, but they prove that babies have a primitive sense of fairness and justice, and they have the ability to judge whether their behavior is good or bad before talking and walking. Therefore, the child is born with kindness, and his kindness needs our good care.

In the film, Julian, a rich second generation, has been bullying Auggie. In the last conversation between Julian's family and the headmaster, my mother faced the conclusive evidence of bullying and directly lied that she did it all by herself. Dad threatened the headmaster to protect Julian by getting to know the school board. In the end, the headmaster did not waver and asked Julian to apologize and attend class for one day. However, the parents couldn't accept it and dragged Julian away in anger. However, Julian finally grabbed the door and finally said to the headmaster, "I'm sorry." "

It can be seen that the child's nature is kind, but in the process of growing up the day after tomorrow, parents did not give their children the opportunity to do good things, and chose lies and rights to cover up the facts. Over time, they also made their children forget their own nature. Julian's parents chose lies and rights to cover up Julian's bullying behavior. But what he really needs is a chance to admit his mistake this time.

When the freshmen introduced themselves, Augie introduced their families, while Julian said two things: games and table tennis. At this time, he may be used to attracting the attention of others with scarce materials, but he can't get the real concern of his parents, and materials can't maintain true friendship. Julian wasn't very happy when he bullied Auggie. He is often attracted by the happy smiles of Auggie and his friends around him. At this time, if his parents gave him the power to choose kindness, to apologize for his bullying, to express his true thoughts and to be Auggie's good friend, nothing would happen.

Adam Smith, the father of economics, proposed in "On Moral Sentiments" that human beings have a natural imagination. When others get happiness, imagine that happiness happens to them and they will be happy for them. or vice versa, Dallas to the auditorium

So when Julian bullied Auggie, he was not happy. This is also the reason why many children living in wealthy families are unhappy. Nowadays, many parents say that children should be given whatever they want and why they are unhappy. This simple material happiness may exist, but it must be short-lived. The sense of accomplishment and happiness gained by helping others succeed can last longer.

When adults go through all kinds of cruel baptism in society, we instinctively choose to protect ourselves and choose indifference. But we have no right to deprive children of this gift. We should protect him. When things happen, we should protect children's kind nature. When we make a choice, we must first choose kindness and set an example for our children. This is the greatest protection for parents.

This film is adapted from the book Miracle of the same name. When the author R.J. Palacio was in an ice cream shop, his three-year-old son was scared to cry by a girl with a deformed face. Palacio didn't know how to react and went home with his son.

Turning around, she heard the girl's mother say calmly, let's go home, too. The other family did not react violently because of Rapacio's son's crying. This scene has been haunting her mind. She imagined that they might experience similar scenes every day, and they didn't have enough to bear. So, with this novel.

The author hopes to pay attention to the inner world of children with the same troubles, and even to the situation of their families and friends. At the same time, as the director wants to express, when we encounter unfair things, we actually need the courage to look at these people and things different from us and choose kindness, just like Auggie.