Ask the parents' meeting of the first grade of primary school to speak (longer)

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Dear parents:

Hello everyone! I'm glad we're together because of the baby. The child has been in school for almost two months. The main purpose of the parent-teacher meeting today is to let parents know about their children's performance in school and talk about some topics of habit cultivation. I also hope that parents can further cooperate with teachers, do some work well and strengthen the contact between home and school. In a word, it is "all for students, all for students, all for students", which is also a fundamental starting point of our education. Next, I want to communicate with you from the following aspects.

First, the importance of habit cultivation

The facts of many successful people prove how important a good habit is. If children's habits are not cultivated well from childhood, it is very difficult and difficult to correct them when they grow up. The first grade is a new starting point for cultivating education. The first-grade children are now the cleanest piece of white paper. What color you draw on this piece of white paper is its future color. Therefore, in order to make this blank piece of paper the most beautiful picture in the future, you must carefully draw every stroke from now on. Therefore, the cultivation education of first-year students is the most important. I think every child has unlimited potential and can do his best. The key lies in whether the children themselves take it seriously and whether they take learning seriously. Therefore, I hope that parents can cooperate and give full play to the role of external forces, so that children can walk more steadily and develop faster on the road of growth.

It is a great turning point for children to go from kindergarten to primary school. So when I first entered school, the following happened: for example, the bell rang and I didn't know to go back to the classroom. Sometimes, I have to send students all over the campus to find children. Going back to the classroom is also noisy. As long as the teacher doesn't criticize, the voice can't stop, and it feels like going to the market. In class, some students don't concentrate, talk, make small moves and do whatever they want. Next, I want to talk about my views on this.

1) We should correctly guide children ideologically.

As parents, we should educate our children to love labor, be civilized, respect their elders and be polite to others. The educational charm of teaching children what to do, doing it well first and setting an example by others is enormous. "Small trees are easy to be straight, small trees are easy to bend", and children are still young and can't tell right from wrong. As long as we educate our children from an early age and guide them what to do and what not to do, it is very beneficial to their future growth.

2) Behavior should continue to coach children.

Parents should cooperate with the following education in their daily behavior:

(1) Children's etiquette education. Respect elders and parents at home (say hello when coming and going); When you meet teachers and classmates, you should form the habit of greeting. Let our children love their parents, their schools and teachers.

(2) Children's gregarious education. Sometimes some unpleasant things happen between friends, such as collision and injury, you hit me between children, I recruit you, take your favorite items and so on. Parents educate their children to be tolerant and generous, don't haggle over every ounce, and contact the teacher in time when you find the situation.

(3) Children's concept of discipline and hygiene. If I can't come to school, I must ask for leave. Don't throw scraps of paper casually. Don't bring snacks into the campus, and don't go to the vendors near the school gate to buy snacks. Children in grade one lack self-control and need to emphasize discipline. As the saying goes, Fiona Fang can't be Fiona Fang without rules; The school has discipline and the class has rules. It should be clear that since it is a discipline, it should be strictly observed, and there is no reason to violate and destroy it. Everyone is equal before discipline, without discrimination.

(4) Strictly control children's pocket money. Don't give children pocket money casually, and don't buy unhealthy toys, such as playing cards. Children often sit on the ground and play cards, and the cards are passed around, which is very unsanitary; Don't buy novelty stationery for children, such as multifunctional pencil case, pencil and pencil sharpener. Novelty stationery is particularly easy to distract children. Some children just play with pencils, pencil sharpeners and pencil boxes in class, and put pencils in pencil boxes as cannons. A play is a genre. After you confiscate it for a period of time, he plays something else. The best way is: first, parents should not buy such toys for their children; Second, don't give money to children. Some children want money to buy school supplies, but in fact they buy toys. Third, check the children's schoolbags before going to school to prevent them from bringing toys to school.

At the same time, our parents should also do "three bogeys":

(1) Avoid over-protection. A seedling, knocked down in your hand, was afraid of melting in your mouth, and everything was arranged (carrying a schoolbag and holding a water cup). We should let our children know that when they grow up, they are already a primary school student. Their life and study can't depend entirely on their parents and teachers. They should do their own thing well and find a solution when they encounter difficulties. Take part in some hard work and learn some simple labor skills, such as opening and closing doors and windows, sweeping the floor, cleaning tables and chairs, sorting out schoolbags and school supplies, and tying shoelaces. Cultivate children's self-care ability, gradually reduce their dependence on adults, and cultivate their ability to live independently.

(2) Avoid overindulgence. Sometimes parents know it is unreasonable, but they can't stand their children crying, so they have to do everything according to him, which leads to the phenomenon that children are centered on me. But after entering school, everyone is equal, and no one has the privilege, constraints and pressure. Such children will not adapt, do not listen to the teacher, and often have conflicts with their classmates. Therefore, it is essential for children to encounter setbacks and criticisms during their growth. As parents, we should stop children's unreasonable behavior and criticize them.

(3) Avoid excessive expectations. Both parents want their children to succeed, and they want their children to be the first in everything. Their wishes are good, but parents should be reminded that primary schools cannot be compared with kindergartens, and the learning burden of kindergartens is definitely different from that of grade one. It doesn't matter if the child takes the exam once. The key is to help children find out the causes of mistakes and remind them often in future studies.

Second, how to cultivate good habits (for fear that parents can't remember, I printed a document with suggestions on how to cultivate habits. I'll just briefly talk about the key points here. )

In terms of habit cultivation, the most important thing is the cultivation of study habits, including homework habits and listening habits. Some parents are anxious when they see their children's lax study and unsatisfactory grades. They often complain, criticize and even punish them, which is very wrong. You know, there is a process to develop study habits. You shouldn't act in haste, but take your time. I would like to make the following suggestions to parents:

First, study habits

1. Arrive at school on time, not late, but early, especially in the morning, when the children are early and the teacher hasn't arrived at work, which is very unsafe. Ask for leave in time when you are sick and be a punctual person.

2. Listen carefully to others, complete your homework as required, and read and write correctly.

3. Take good care of school supplies, arrange them immediately after use, and don't lose them.

4. Take the initiative to acquire knowledge, read more, listen more, see more, think more and do more.

5. Be able to tidy up your schoolbag and get ready for class.

Second, work habits. It is necessary to stipulate that children must finish their homework after school, go out to play after checking, and cultivate the good habit of children to finish their homework before playing; The first thing to urge children to come home from school is to do their homework. Don't let them watch TV or play around as soon as they get home. If his parents don't correct him in the first grade, it will be difficult to correct him when he is older, because he has formed a habit. I hope parents will supervise this matter no matter how busy they are. When you do your homework, be sure to turn off the TV. Check your child's homework every day. Don't think that the child's homework is finished. More important is the quality of homework, including developing correct writing posture and good writing habits. Nowadays, children in Grade One in senior high school have less literacy, and some questions are not understood by children. Parents should patiently explain the meaning of the question and encourage their children to ask if they don't understand. But parents should not tell him the answer directly. As long as you explain the problem clearly, the child can solve it by himself. I found that children with poor grades tend to be more dependent and unwilling to think independently. They either wait for the teacher to explain in class or turn to look at others. These students must be dragging their feet when they do their homework at home. Parents should pay attention to correct guidance.

Here I want to make it clear that parents must sacrifice their children's first grade, and don't pay too much attention to their children's homework in order to do business or do their own thing. After finishing, parents must check whether reading, writing, calculating, memorizing and memorizing pass, remedy the problem in time, and sign in the notebook or notebook. After school, communicate with children what they have learned at school, so that home and school can cooperate and urge children to study better. Although some children speak fluently, they are not good at writing, and some children write slowly. Teachers will nag for a long time if they practice new words more, and they may hate writing in middle and senior grades. This is because of the lack of thinking, imagination and expressiveness. Therefore, from the first grade, you should train to write words. For example, after school, children always say to their parents, "Mom, today is at school ..." Even if it is only a few simple words, parents can prepare a diary to encourage him to write it down. Slowly, parents can ask him, "Why?" "What do you think?" "What did the teacher say?" Wait, let him expand gradually and lengthen the article. Children in grade one like to write with the words they have learned. Parents should praise him, encourage him and keep it carefully after reading it.

Push the children to the podium and share their experiences and lessons with them.

Another trick to cultivate children's expressive ability is to "consult" children frequently, push them onto the platform and be their "students". Although this is suspected of knowing perfectly well past asking, it does not hinder children's teaching enthusiasm. They will play the role of teachers with great excitement and enthusiasm. Tell us something about your study today. This is a good way for first-grade children to review.

During these two months, I saw that the students made great progress. For example, they listen carefully in class. Zhang Lina, Zhang, Tu, Li Shenglong, Wang Jueya, Ruan Jinxi and Xia Jinhao made positive speeches. Some students are introverted and not active enough, but they sit up straight and listen carefully in every class. Of course, there are others.

Third, living habits.

① Pay attention to hygiene. Every student should bring a water cup. As the weather changes in the future, remember to bring your umbrella and raincoat, and remember it yourself.

② Cultivate children's good habits such as not telling lies, loving labor, cherishing learning tools, uniting classmates, respecting teachers and observing discipline.

Teach children some life skills necessary for entering school, such as putting on and taking off clothes, tying shoelaces, sorting schoolbags, asking for help when encountering difficulties, walking without running or jumping, etc. Don't play on the road, especially let the children know that they should go to the toilet before class and be prepared before class.

(4) Support children to participate in various school activities, so that children can fully display themselves and exercise their abilities; Children learn special skills to show themselves boldly and fully.

Fourth, safety.

Parents should educate their children about self-protection and safety awareness.

Remember the safety knowledge on the way to and from school. Whether parents accompany their children to school or not, it is very important to pay attention to traffic safety. Parents should make full use of the time on the road to explain traffic safety knowledge to their children. If parents come to pick up their children late, tell them not to run around, wait at the designated place on campus, and don't go with others. Children should be guided to protect themselves and know which parts of their bodies should be protected, such as head, eyes, arms and teeth. The first-grade children are in the period of changing their teeth, which is particularly easy to knock out their teeth. If it is a deciduous tooth, it will never grow out if it is a permanent tooth. Therefore, recess activities should be civilized and safe. In the corridor, especially at the corner, no chasing or running, no dangerous actions, no rushing, no littering are allowed, and safety and civilized activities should be carried out.

In addition, parents who come to pick up their children should not come too early or too late, too early will waste your time; It is too late. There is a main road in front of the school. It is not safe for children to run around without the care of their teachers.

Another point: when the school has major activities or activities, it will issue a "receipt form", and parents should sign it in time.

Finally, I will send two words to parents and friends to share with you: First, educate children to set an example. Second, details determine the success or failure of education. Educating children should start with details. The more details children pay attention to, the greater their progress will be. At the same time, I give parents a hope-to communicate more with their children, other parents and teachers. Communication is very convenient now. You can come to the school to talk to the teacher, or you can call us and send a message, so that our teacher can teach your children in a targeted way. I believe that with our joint efforts, our children will thrive.

Thank you!

Some suggestions and reminders for parents

Class 3, Grade 1

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On the cultivation of homework habits;

Cultivation of writing habits: be strict. If you find that your writing is not beautiful enough, you must rewrite it.

Oral homework requirements: preview the pinyin, new words and texts to be learned in the next lesson, review the pinyin and new words taught that day, and recite the texts. These preparations should be carefully supervised by children every day. Parents who can do this effectively will certainly surpass other children in knowledge mastery.

Written homework requirements: parents look at the questions and lead the way. Even if the teacher doesn't leave homework such as reciting and dictation, parents should take exams and recite them in order to keep abreast of their children's learning. Let the child correct his mistakes in time, so that his shaky knowledge in school can be consolidated in time. You can ask your children to read the questions with you, think about the purpose and meaning of the questions, and do a post-test. If it is wrong, let the child think about why it is wrong, and then let the child do similar questions. Finish your homework on time without delay; Concentrate on your homework and don't dawdle; Keep books and exercise books clean and tidy, and don't scribble or tear them up. When children do their homework, parents should avoid watching TV, playing mahjong or asking questions frequently at home, but let their children finish their homework independently. Parents should also be interested in reading books and newspapers, exerting a subtle influence on their children. Habit of doing homework check: Parents can ask some questions according to their children's learning content, and let their children be teachers to correct their parents' mistakes. This practice will not only arouse children's interest, but also naturally cultivate the ability to carefully check homework in the process of correcting test papers.

Reading habits: 1. Give children 15 minutes to read extracurricular books (pinyin reading materials) every day. Primary school 65,438+0 is still an extension of kindergarten education, so parents say it is necessary to listen to him and read to him. Never refuse: "Look for yourself!" It is best to read the story books that children want to read to him, and don't force children to accept the choices of adults. Children who don't like reading hate to see a lot of small print. Parents can choose a picture book with a large font suitable for their children.

2 After reading, let the children talk about your gains (for example, knowing a few words or reading something, or even telling what you read as a story)? Reading is a lifelong thing, and it is important to be uninterrupted and full of enthusiasm every day. As long as the child is studying, as long as he makes progress this week than last week, he should be happy and encouraged. In the end, he can also have the reading ability to be proud of.

Some suggestions:

First, the family study environment: prepare an independent study space for children, which can be a corner of the room or a separate room, with a small desk and a small bookcase, mainly quiet and tidy. Don't put the child in the same room as the TV, don't write at the dinner table, and don't let toys appear beside him.

Preparation of school supplies: When parents prepare pens, rulers, schoolbags, erasers and other school supplies for their children, they must take into account the unfavorable factors that may affect their children's study. For example, the pencil case should be as simple as possible, as long as it contains 6 or 7 pencils, an eraser and a ruler. Multifunctional pencil case is no less than children's toys, which easily distracts students' attention in class.

Third, teaching children some life skills necessary for entering school, such as taking off clothes, tying shoelaces and practicing sweeping the floor at home at ordinary times, will also reduce your burden. You have a good habit, cultivate him to love labor, ask for help in case of difficulties, walk without running or jumping, don't play on the road, and open the door with a key. In particular, let children know that they should go to the toilet before class and make fun preparations before class.

Fourth, cultivate self-care ability, tidy up your schoolbag and prepare the learning tools you will bring tomorrow. Don't do everything yourself in life. Children often say that they forgot to bring back their textbooks or exercise books. We can prepare a curriculum for our children, let them copy it well, and then teach them to tidy up their schoolbags and bring all their school supplies every night. All things should be brought by students themselves. This is conducive to cultivating students' habit of sorting out school supplies, and parents had better not do all of them.

Fifth, we should pay attention to the influence of encouragement and criticism on children, encourage as much as possible and criticize less. Some parents like to keep up with the joneses and always praise other children, which will dampen their self-confidence. Some parents like to exaggerate their children's advantages, which leads to their pride and bad interpersonal relationships. If they are overtaken by others, they will become narrow-minded or stubborn. We should see the advantages and disadvantages of children, communicate with them and really understand them. We should discuss things with them and pay attention to cultivating their independence. Child as we are, we can't do everything. Let him do what he knows, what he can do, what he wants to do, and if he doesn't do well, let him try. There is always a process in which he never comes to the meeting.

6. Go to bed early and get up early, and live a regular life. Go to bed before nine o'clock. Some children doze off in class and stay up late at night. I don't know. They try not to watch TV and play video games during school hours. Arrange time to watch children's programs on Friday and Saturday instead of watching long TV series. )

Seven, teaching children to endure some expensive toys requires children to endure birthdays or important festivals, so that children can't get what they want right away, which can cultivate patience, let children's spirit get exercise, and let children have confidence. In this material-rich era, parents are a little sad to see their children restricted, but please remember that children whose desires are easily satisfied don't know how to cherish them. Children who don't know how to be patient are very nerve-racking. Those children who always have enough to eat in comfortable rooms will not have a great future.

Warm reminder:

First, there is a process to learn and consolidate Pinyin. Parents must let their children read more books, practice more and read aloud at home. The reading homework assigned by the teacher must be completed with good quality and quantity. Practice makes perfect. As long as children insist on reading, teaching and spelling every day, it is only a matter of time before children learn pinyin well.

Second, the textbook is accompanied by a vocabulary list and a vocabulary list. Table 1 is the words that need to be recognized. The standard of mastering is that children should not only know these words in Chinese books, but also know them in different language environments in other places. Table 2 requires children to not only know, read, but also write these words. You can dictate and write words. (Minus one sum, change one sum, add one sum) What is it?

Third, life is a big classroom. Ordinary life is an important way for children to learn Chinese characters, and it is also the best opportunity for parents to educate their children. In life, we can make use of movies, trademarks, advertisements, supermarkets and so on. Develop autonomous literacy, such as: encouraging children to read while watching TV; Household daily necessities literacy, toothpaste, washing powder, etc. Go to the supermarket and recognize the name of the item; Walking in the street, recognizing signs, etc. Let children not only have literacy ability, but also have literacy achievements, and have ways and methods of independent literacy in life, and cultivate children's interest in literacy and the habit of active literacy.

Fourth, we should cultivate the habit of cutting nails, changing clothes and taking a bath frequently, especially not wearing earrings, necklaces and other accessories. It is easy for children to fall down when they walk, but the hard thing like necklace has become a sharp weapon to hurt children.

For most parents, what I want to say is: don't worry, don't compare with others, don't cling to one or two scores, don't expect to eat a fat man in one bite, and don't ask for more than children can accept. Some children are not timid, but later began to understand. In the words of educators, the mind is temporarily in a state of deep sleep. So, how to wake up thinking and let yourself have awakening wisdom? The best way is to let them read more interesting extracurricular books and play less with toys.

One expectation: communicate more with children, other parents and teachers. Communication is very convenient now. You can come to the school to talk to the teacher, or you can call us and send a message, so that our teacher can teach your children in a targeted way.

Habits need a process from helping to letting go, and parents need patient guidance and cooperation. I believe that with our joint efforts, your children will study happily and thrive.