"Late at night, my husband slipped into the toilet and didn't come out for a long time." I learned the truth with tears in my eyes. Why?

"I ran into my husband going to the toilet in the middle of the night, and I couldn't help crying." Cheating is not terrible, poverty is terrible. Recently, readers have left messages. Her husband has been coming back late every day recently, and his intuition tells her what happened. At midnight 1 o'clock, she heard an abnormal noise in the toilet and ran to see him with red eyes. Only then did I know that he had been taking private jobs to make money recently, and this time he was also contacting the toilet work. After knowing, she was very sad.

In the world of adults, everyone is very difficult, and most of the difficulties in life are related to lack of money. Recently, Sasaki Nozomi, the Japanese national goddess, was cheated, and her husband had an indissoluble bond with more than 200 women, but the goddess chose to forgive her and hoped that her husband would return to the family ... In recent months, her husband always came back late at night, and returned my messages slowly every day, making it very quiet at home every day. I didn't notice it before. Until these two days, he always got up quietly and went to the living room after I fell asleep.

A woman's intuition tells me that there must be something. At about two o'clock in the morning, my husband quietly went to the living room again, and I continued to pretend to sleep. After a while, I heard the toilet flush. It is better to find it early than to think about it every day. I got up and went to the living room to find him.

He just came out of the toilet and saw me. He was startled, really startled, and his body twitched. Before he spoke, I asked him if he was hiding anything from me. He has been silent. If you haven't done anything shameful, why are you so secretive? I have been looking for it with him, when my husband suddenly said:

Honey, it's nothing. It's just that I'm temporarily ... unemployed ... I'll check the recruitment website at this time of night. I want to tell you when I find a job, lest you worry. The tone of his mistake made me suddenly stand there, and my heart was like being caught, and it hurt badly. He took a bus online these days. He comes back so late every day because there is no traffic jam at night, so he can make more trips. Suddenly I saw my husband with white hair on his head, so I couldn't help crying.

He has done a lot for this family. The monthly mortgage at home is 4500 yuan, the car loan is more than 2000 yuan, and the tuition fee for children is nearly 1000 per semester. And my mother-in-law has been in poor health and takes medicine every day. The money I earned is nothing compared with my husband.

In these years together, my husband rarely shows his weakness. He can be unique in this family, but at this time, I not only don't understand him, but also make trouble without reason. I really feel like a sinner in this family.

I comforted her for a long time, and then sent her a message: stick to it for a while, and it will always get better. The last sentence became her WeChat signature. Everyone says that after the age of 30, the sweet and sour disappeared, leaving only the bitter and spicy. But don't be afraid. On the road of life, we are all beginners.

1 "It is the normal state of life to go against one's wishes." San Mao once said, "Whatever God didn't give me, no matter how tight my fingers are tied, they will still leak. Give it to me, no matter how I missed it in the past, I will have it. " So, don't deliberately care about gains and losses. Everything has its own arrangement. What you can do now is to be a happy ordinary person, which is already an extra compensation for life.

Most of what you want will deviate; Most of what you expect deeply is that the bad news comes first; Most of the things you hold fast will be lost faster. You don't have to worry about fairness. Love without action is the normal state of life. Perhaps, the expectation of disappointment has its own arrangements. Please believe that everything in the world is conservative. As long as the result is good, the previous twists and turns are worth it.

2 "The world of adults? There is no word "give up". "If I'm unhappy, can I say it? ""If you are a child, you can. " "What if it's not a child?" "It's going to pass ..."

In the adult world, the word "court" has its own power, pulling people back to the ground again and again. A hundred people will have a hundred kinds of lives, with mixed tastes and mixed feelings of sadness and joy. It seems insignificant to see that people who are more difficult than us are still persisting. There is a saying: even if life is hopeless, struggle itself is a kind of hope.

If the hard work of the chair doesn't turn into the desired result, don't worry, stick to it for a while, and no one will fall behind in the hard days of life. Bad luck is under control, and the future will be a good day.

3 "If gains and losses are inevitable, we don't have a free meal" Japanese drama "Leisure Holiday":

"When life is not satisfactory, it is a long vacation given by God. Enjoy this holiday. Suddenly, the holiday is over, and the luck turns, and life really begins. " If it is the normal state of life to go against one's wishes, then an unexpected surprise is a gift from God. Let me tell you the sequel to the above story.

The friend mentioned above later left a message saying that her husband had found a new job and his salary was much higher than before. If he works more shifts, he can earn more overtime. Now her head is changed to a photo of a family of three, and everyone in the photo is very happy. The softness and little luck outside life is the stability and neatness of the family.

So, don't panic, when you lose something, God will definitely bring it back in another way. No matter what happens in the end, there must be a happy ending. If not, it means it's not over. There is a saying in the movie "Under the Tuscan Sun": Undoubtedly, good things will come. And it's a surprise to come late. Life is a process of self-cultivation. You always have to see clearly the joys and sorrows, and taste the ups and downs before you come to the world in vain. There is no need to complain, this is our lifelong practice. What about suffering?

You gave me suffering, and I finished the customs clearance. Don't thank you for your suffering, please thank yourself and touch your head all the way. It's really hard. I hope that many years later, when we think of these little things again, we can all answer with a smile: "I stand in front of you, and in the end, you will see my scars and know that I am injured and healed."