What is the psychology of a boy who keeps playing with his mobile phone during a blind date?

During the blind date, the man keeps playing with his mobile phone. What does it mean?

A few days ago, my cousin and I complained about a weird blind date guy we met. Except for the first ten minutes of meeting, he spent the rest of the time looking at his phone. He only looked up and chatted occasionally when we encountered topics of interest. .

Such a rude blind date man is probably single because of his strength.

This oddity is by no means unique. There was news before that a "love job fair" was held in a certain city. More than 200 young men and women in the business district came to sign up, most of them young people born in the 1990s.

In the 2-hour blind date meeting, the most talked about sentence by the host was: "Dear friends, don't look down at your phone! Whoever lowers his head again, we will let him perform in this game." ”

However, every time you can see many people looking up and smiling awkwardly.

This kind of reminder to confront the mobile phone appeared more than ten times in two hours, which is comparable to the school teacher's mantra - "Students, pay attention."

For modern people, the farthest distance in the world is not between life and death, but when we sit together and you lower your head and play with your mobile phone.

This experience is familiar to everyone:

I invited a friend I hadn’t seen for a long time to dinner. I thought we could have a good chat, but I didn’t want my friend to keep watching. Using a mobile phone, the whole process passed awkwardly. Relatives are finally together during the Chinese New Year. As a result, the younger one beat the king at the dinner table and the older one grabbed the red envelope. Everyone has their own "career" on the phone.

I think there may be the following reasons:

1. I may not be interested in you, but just look down on you, so I play on my phone to avoid embarrassment.

2. People with low emotional intelligence should like to play with mobile phones as usual, so even on a blind date, they don’t know how to restrain themselves.

3. Maybe he is the kind of person who is very slow and shy. He didn't know how to chat and didn't dare to speak, so he had to play with his mobile phone to hide his dullness or uneasiness.

4. Belong to uneducated people. This may be the case at ordinary times, so it will appear this way no matter what the occasion.

5. It is also possible that the other party really needs to handle something through the mobile phone. But if that's the case, I need to apologize in advance. (However, it is not as important as life-long events, and it is still a sign of low emotional intelligence.)

To sum up, the only thing you have to do about this blind date process is to stay away from it. In any case, such a man would not be a good partner.