The phenomenon of polygamy among workers in Dongguan is seriously unbalanced.

Dongguan is on fire recently. Recently, the phenomenon of polygamy among migrant workers in Dongguan was exposed after CCTV reported on pornography. Dongguan is known as the world manufacturing center. There is a serious imbalance between men and women here, and polygamy is common among workers in Dongguan. Although polygamy of Dongguan workers has long been discovered, the reality is still very helpless.

Xiao Fang's boyfriend has three girlfriends, and they all know each other's existence. Her boyfriend is an ordinary male worker from Sichuan named Li Bing. Because of the complicated relationship and story between Qin Xiao and the "other party", we have the right to let Bing speak for us. Li Bing is not outstanding in appearance and has worked in Dongguan for ten years. In 2008, Li Bing was in Shangsha Science and Technology Park in Chang 'an, Dongguan. At the same time, she had a relationship with three female workers, one was living together, the other was in love and the other was a lover. "They know each other." Li Bing said that she was honest with all three girls. At first, Li Bing only had a fixed girlfriend, a "post-90s" female worker. Four months later, at the factory dance before the Spring Festival in 2008, Li Bing met his second girlfriend. She worked in an electronics factory in the Science Park and soon moved in together.

"The third girl also works nearby. Seeing that she was always unhappy, I went to talk to her. Unexpectedly, she offered to associate with me. I said to her,' I already have two girlfriends. I can't have a third I can only be a lover. She agreed. "

Male employees like Li Bing are not uncommon. In some factories visited by reporters, it is considered "normal" for male workers to associate with several female workers at the same time and have sexual relations. In Bai Hao Village of Houjie, there are many plastic factories, shoe factories and zipper factories, and most workers live together because of their native place.

Xiaolin, a male worker in Sichuan, told reporters without hesitation, "I also have three girlfriends, which is normal. Who hasn't? " It is no secret between him and his familiar fellow villagers in Sichuan. "Several elder brothers are like this. Polygamy is very common. This factory has a (girlfriend) and that factory has a (girlfriend). There are many beautiful young girls in the factory. They are simple and easy to make friends. Why not eat more? Anyone who has only one girlfriend is too shameful and will be laughed to death. "

Kobayashi's logic is, "Anyway, everyone is young and can play for a few years. When they are almost old, girls will still be good women when they go home and get married. " The reality is that men may not find a job, but women can't stop looking for boyfriends. Ayi 1990 was born handsome. The young man admitted without hesitation that he had come to Dongguan to marry his wife and go home. "Don't you know? It costs 30 thousand to marry a daughter-in-law in our village. There are many girls here and no money. " He is in the right place.

This large electronics factory near Zhaowu Street has 20,000 female workers. Aunt arrived in Dongguan at the end of 2009. She never worked hard, but she got a girlfriend by accident. Speaking of girlfriends, my aunt happily turned out the big sticker in her wallet for the reporter to see. The girl is a female worker in an electronics factory, from Henan. Although the living expenses are borne by my girlfriend, my aunt plans to take her girlfriend back to her hometown to get married early.

Such examples are not uncommon. Qin Xiao, who works in an electronics factory in Chang 'an, Dongguan, once "raised" a boyfriend with a meager salary. Qin Xiao, a native of Wanzhou, Chongqing, was born in 1984. At the factory dance before the Spring Festival in 2008, the taciturn Qin Xiao got to know her ex-boyfriend who worked in a supermarket and began to pay without a bottom line. The income of supermarkets is much lower than that of factories. Qin Xiao earns more than 2,000 yuan a month, which is very frugal, but he is generous to his boyfriend. "As long as he sees that the money in his wallet is less than that in 200 yuan, he will immediately put a few hundred dollars into it, reluctant to eat and wear, but he takes his boyfriend to eat KFC. It's really kung fu. As long as he likes it, buy it for him immediately. " Qin Xiao said that she was looking forward to marrying this boyfriend, but the man still kept in touch with other girls. Qin Xiao can only continue to spend money and be doubly friendly to him.

In the afternoon, it is time for a large number of female workers to return to work in the factory, put on work clothes, hats, gloves and masks and enter the production line. Wang, the personnel manager of this large electronics factory, said that half of the female workers in the factory rented houses outside the factory, and most of them were married or cohabited. Many female employees do "raise" a boyfriend, which is not a derogatory term.

No sex at night, but during the day. Let the other couple go out for a walk, have a meal and visit a supermarket, and the remaining two will be solved. In a rented house of less than 20 square meters in Qiaotou Village, houjie town, floral curtains are hung. On both sides of the curtain are two young factory couples in their early twenties. On Sunday, Mei Lan and her boyfriend woke up early in the morning, simply freshened up and said to the couple at the other end of the curtain, "Let's go out for a walk and come back around noon." I added, "I won't be back for two hours." In a year of sharing, two couples solved their sexual life by this tacit understanding.

Meilan and her boyfriend work in a factory at the bridge head of Houjie, with little income, and the rent of 300 yuan per month is under great pressure. The two of them set aside half of the original one-room rental house and shared it with another couple. Mei Lan's boyfriend said, "You can't have sex at night, but during the day." Let the other couple go out, have a meal, visit a supermarket, and the remaining two will be solved. "

This tacit understanding didn't last long, and Meilan couldn't stand it. "I'll go crazy if I keep sharing like this!" In fact, in order to make factory couples no longer embarrassed, Dongguan enterprises began to open "husband and wife room" dormitory in 2005. Nowadays, more and more enterprises regard "husband and wife housing" as a bargaining chip to alleviate the shortage of migrant workers. A few months ago, Mr. and Mrs. Chen Bo lived in this dormitory. "We also rented a house outside the factory for several months. 400 yuan a month, the world of two people is of course comfortable, but we feel distressed after paying the rent, and later moved back to the factory. " "The so-called' husband and wife room' is a small single room, only a few square meters big. There used to be a big dormitory. Some rooms are empty and can be heard in the next room.

Lili from a factory in Li 'ao Town completed a painful adult ceremony in Dongguan. Three years ago, 18-year-old Lili left her hometown in Henan, followed her aunt to Dongguan and entered the factory in Liaobu. Soon, the simple lily ignited the desire for love, but what was waiting for her was despair again and again.

From 2007 to 2009, in less than a year and a half, Li Li fell in love three times, lost her love three times, got pregnant three times and miscarried three times. In the spring of 2007, Li Li fell in love with a 20-year-old male worker in the same factory shortly after she joined the work. Like all girls, Li Li's love is full of curiosity about fancy fashion, and she completed what she thought was the process of love in the rented room near the factory. At this time, she didn't even know that having sex with men required contraception. Soon after, Lili broke up with her boyfriend, and at the same time, she was pregnant. "He gave me 200 yuan, and a sister took me to a small clinic to have an abortion. It cost more than 60 yuan, which was very painful. At this point, I hate this person. " Quite a few girls come to the hospital after four months of pregnancy. This situation requires induced labor, which is very harmful to the body. The questionnaire survey on female workers' sexual knowledge shows that more than 10% of female workers who have sex never take contraceptive measures.

According to the information of Guangdong Women's Rights Protection Station, a high proportion of female workers live together unmarried and are abandoned after pregnancy. Liu Xiulian, the stationmaster of the rights protection station, believes that young female workers are simple-minded and lack self-protection awareness. "Most of them are spontaneous and lack consideration of reality."

In Dongguan, a manufacturing center, there is a serious imbalance between men and women. Polygamy is common among workers in Dongguan. Although it is exaggerated, it also creates many problems. Women workers' rights and interests are not guaranteed and they lack self-protection consciousness. In the face of helpless reality, such a story may still happen. The only solution is to recruit a large number of male workers to alleviate the labor shortage.