Why do more and more men not want to get married now?

Speaking of not wanting to get married, I think many people have had such thoughts. So today we will take a look at why more and more men do not want to get married and what are the reasons.

The first point is the high betrothal gift.

I believe you have all seen some news reports, or that you have experienced this betrothal gift in your own province or around you. In some places, the betrothal gift is 100,000 to 200,000, or even as high as 30,000. There are about 500,000 and 500,000 yuan. So when faced with this high betrothal gift, many men do not want to get married. To put it bluntly, they cannot afford to get married. It is not that they do not want to get married. If they really have the strength to spend so much money, they may not. If their family is empty, they will face greater pressure to survive.

Point 2: Women have higher requirements.

To be honest, when a woman gets married, if she wants to marry you, it is not just about feelings like before. He will require you to have a car, a house and a deposit. You must have a wedding house and a place for two people to live. So in this case, many men find it really difficult to buy a house, because to provide for one house, You have to repay the loan every month, and at the same time, turning yourself into a house slave will reduce your quality of life. In addition, the other party requires a car, so under the premise that you are not capable, you will naturally feel that it is quite good. He is afraid, because it is too stressful and makes him very tired. He feels it is not worth it, so he does not want to get married.

Point 3, they like freedom.

男人他们更加向往那种天马行空那种无拘无束的生活，觉得一个人挺好的，策划完了跟哥们撸串，晚上的时候去喝两杯，吹吹牛，谈谈梦想，谈 Talking about ideals and life is quite pleasant this way, but it will be different after getting married. You will be restricted. If you want to go out for a drink or two at night, your wife will control you, but then you will make yourself Very helpless.