What should I pay attention to when looking for a new moon?

1. Please have a new moon and be sure to choose a formal institution. You can't let a street person or acquaintance with no professional knowledge introduce the so-called "new moon". Please check her ID card and professional qualification certificate first, and pay attention to whether she has a health certificate issued by a professional hospital and whether she has been evaluated by customers and companies before. This is the guarantee of a safe new moon. First-time parents will inevitably be at a loss when facing prenatal and newborn birth. At this time, having a professional around to provide you with professional services, psychological guidance and share the nursing work can not only help new parents to enter the role more quickly, but also greatly help the maternal body to restore bodybuilding and the healthy growth of newborns. As a father-to-be, you can't just stand by and push all the work to Yue Yue, but you must actively devote yourself to parenting and comforting the parturient. This can increase the family contact with the baby as soon as possible and deepen the relationship between husband and wife.

2. Be sure to sign the contract. Please book the first month to sign the contract. However, for the sake of convenience, some families did not sign a contract with Yue Yue Company, and did not agree on the scope of work and working hours. During my service in Yue Yue, there was an argument and my mother couldn't reason clearly. In addition, when signing a service contract, read the terms of the contract and make sure there is no problem before signing it. Moreover, the specific requirements of Yueyue's work and the special situation of her family clearly told her what she needed to pay attention to.

Step 3 evaluate the new moon. In the process of providing Lunar New Year service, we should constantly cooperate with Lunar New Year Company to evaluate the Lunar New Year service, and carefully fill in the Evaluation Form of Lunar New Year Service. If we are not satisfied with the service, we can correct the Lunar New Year or put forward specific requirements to the company. After inviting Yue Yue, I felt that everything was fine. I started to be a shopkeeper or had no sense of service. I didn't seriously evaluate and evaluate Yue Yue's work, and finally I lost myself and my future clients.

4. Communicate with Yue Yue in time. In the second month of pregnancy, women are prone to be in a bad mood, and some people even suffer from postpartum depression. At this time, mother easily loses her temper and complains. Therefore, Yue Yue may think that her mother is not satisfied with her job, or that her mother is too difficult to serve. Therefore, the communication between mother and Yue Yue should be strengthened in time. Mother can directly tell Yue Yue her preferences or put forward her own suggestions (frankly, Yue Yue will explain scientific parenting knowledge and scientific nursing experience and knowledge, but will not resist the guidance of mother and family), and Yue Yue should also directly put forward her opinions to her mother. Without good communication, in the long run, it may have a negative or even wrong impact on her work.

5. The danger of finding a new moon in private. Some families think that Yue Yue will charge a fee, so they will not reach an agreement with Yue Yue privately through the company. The consequences of this behavior are very serious. Not only does the maternal family lose credibility, but once there are accidents and some unsafe factors in the service process, the service cannot be guaranteed. On the contrary, if something happens to the new moon, there is no guarantee.

How to evaluate birth nanny

One: looking for evidence from the predecessor, the third party evaluation is more fair. After I decided to find a new moon, I began to ask people around me about it. After hearing about it, a relative introduced me to a relative in my hometown, saying that he wanted to earn some money at home when he was free, and it was no problem to take care of my baby. On hearing this reason, I refused. The reason is very simple, such a new moon is not professional at all, but it will pull out some unscientific taboos to toss people. After hearing that there is a more formal and popular Confucius Center in the city, I began to call there to contact. After making my request, I also asked the other party to introduce me to the Confucius Center, which must be experienced and professionally trained. The Confucius Center sent several resumes of Yue Yue. I think two of them are more experienced and have written down the contact information of people who have served before. I called according to the phone, and I told each other frankly that I wanted to find Yue Yue. Both mothers gave me some details about Yue Yue. The two moons speak highly. They are capable and not afraid of hardship. They really think about the baby. After leaving, the baby still can't bear to part with her. After listening to the introduction of the third party, I have a bottom in my heart. I looked through other resumes, and there was indeed a Yue Yue who happened to have worked in my community. I immediately called the householder and talked about their views on this Yue Yue. Disappointingly, the other party's evaluation of that new moon is not high. So, I decided to invite those two moons for an interview.

Two: observe the details and evaluate the experience of the new moon. I have an appointment in the morning and an appointment in the afternoon. The new moon that came this morning is called A. When she came, she brought a shopping bag. I am curious. She told me that it was clothes worn by some children before. Newborn babies have delicate skin and generally don't wear new clothes, so some new mothers will look for these old clothes everywhere. She didn't know if I needed it, so she brought it here to have a look. I felt satisfied inside, so I began to ask her about her previous experience. All new mothers should pay attention. Be sure to ask about your work experience before Yue Yue, not what you will do in the future. Experienced Yueyue will often tell you what precautions a newborn should take from breastfeeding to bathing, and what posture a new mommy should take from breastfeeding to changing a baby's diaper. If you ask, "How can you take care of the baby when you come?" Such a problem, then some moons with good water blowing ability will drive you crazy, and you simply can't understand the true ability and level of moons, and slowly emerge. On the contrary, the new moon B that came in the afternoon was exaggerated a lot. She asked her "how to help the baby bathe", and her answer was "Although I am four thick and five big, it is no problem to bathe the baby". I don't understand at all. My focus is whether she is professional or not.

Three: for example, let her solve practical problems. Finally, I chose Yue Yue. When she came to our home, she not only took good care of the baby, but also gave me a lot of guidance. Later, my mother-in-law came to my house and visited for a week that month. Even her mother-in-law praised her professionalism. Now that I see that several sisters around me are still worried about the monthly interview, I will post my own experience for your reference. In the interview process, the following questions are the key to examine Yue Yue's professional ability! There are many reasons why babies can't sleep well at night. Professional lunar calendar can list several baskets and put forward countermeasures. If the answer to this question is "Never mind, I have you", don't be moved by her efforts! This only shows that she is an inexperienced fake moon. Professional Yue Yue will tell you that baby shower gel made of natural oil should be chosen for baby shower. However, babies under 3 months should use less shower gel. In order to keep warm more fully, you can choose a towel with a hat, because the head is the easiest part to dissipate heat. Choose a small towel made of pure cotton, which has good hygroscopicity and is small and lovely. You can buy different colors to wipe your face, feet and ass. Of course, this question is not to answer "touch" in the second month, because even if it is answered, it may not be reliable. In fact, in addition to physical exercise, newborns will also develop intellectual listening exercises and picture-watching exercises, which are carried out in the process of playing with their babies, and will be known by specially trained new moons. After professional training, Yue Yue knows that babies need to be taken care of very much. Once they cry, they should go to see it at once. Therefore, the emotional needs of babies should be met unconditionally. Babies who are often held and accompanied have better intelligence and physical development than those who are neglected. Although many new moons know the benefits of spending more time with their children, in order to save trouble, they will still urge their parents to "stop crying when their children are tired of crying." Of course, this new moon can't please go home! Of course, many questions will still be asked during the interview, such as "What brand of bath series do you think is better for the baby", "Diapers or diapers" and "When is the best time to bathe the baby", but whatever you ask, it is to ensure the professionalism of Yue Yue.

Special reminder

Yue Yue will assist the parturient in scientific nursing in the next month, help the puerperal recover, and feed the baby in the next month. The baby is really tired in the second month. Yue Yue already has a hard time dealing with mothers and babies, so it's best not to use Yue Yue as a nanny and let her do housework, which is bad for Yue Yue, babies and mothers. In addition, mothers should never give their babies to Yueyue because of hard work and trouble, let alone touch them. Whether a child is good or bad (including physical health, mental health, IQ and EQ) and whether he grows up is inseparable from his mother's prenatal education and daily education and influence after birth. Motherly love has always been the most important factor in children's growth since their birth. The reduction of children's enjoyment of maternal love will cause many obstacles to their future development and growth.

As a mother, giving birth to a child is only the first step of the long March, and then you need to feed your child with your own milk. The most important thing for mothers during confinement is to recover their physical strength and take good care of their babies. When the child needs to eat, breastfeed as needed; When the child sleeps, the mother also sleeps with the child and rests together. Tell the truth to your child, sing to your child, make eye contact with your child, and communicate with your child emotionally. The children trained in this way are reasonable, humane and caring.

Lunar New Year is by no means a substitute for mothers who help their mothers recover and take care of their babies. Do the daily cleaning of the room at ordinary times, help with breast care, soup making, nutrition catering and bathing. Change the baby's diaper, take a bath and wash baby products. Just play a supporting role in the whole work, don't pretend to be the master. A good Yue Yue can only actively help the parturient to enter the role of mother, and use her own experience to help the parturient to get familiar with the methods of taking care of children more quickly. I hope that every family who uses Yue Yue will not enter this misunderstanding.