The little thing of changing careers: doing what you like is the best way out.

I have to admit, many things happen for a reason.

Nursing major is chosen not because it is noble, nor because it is easy to find a job. I just went through the purgatory of the college entrance examination at that time and just wanted to find a relaxed major. I don't have to devote myself to specialized courses and take so many exams. I go to the library to read extracurricular books in my spare time.

I read a survey about the most promising careers in Britain in Youth Digest, and nursing was one of them, which made me feel better. I went to ask the class teacher, and he said that the major was good, and my affection doubled.

I have no idea about its greatness and high employment rate, because I have never cared about what its counterpart work is from beginning to end. I rarely went to the hospital since I was a child, and I was not the protagonist. My impression can be described as "thin". I thought it was like a skin care consultant or SPA in the cosmetics counter.

I didn't know what my future destination was until I got the admission notice in the space and received the complaints and regrets from my classmates studying in the health school, but I didn't feel strongly. I thought it was prejudice.

And I thought at that time: I don't have to do this to learn this business, but I really don't like doing anything else.

Later someone asked him why he didn't choose a doctor since he studied medicine. I never wanted to be a doctor when I filled in my volunteer. I think of those people on TV who open people's stomachs with scalpels, and I don't think I can do it.

When I can calmly plunge a needle into someone else's blood vessel and hear the pleasure and sense of accomplishment at the moment when I puncture a blood vessel, I begin to feel that when a subject becomes your technology, there is nothing to be afraid of, because you are a professional.

After really understanding, I feel that doctors are too tired and have a long learning cycle. Not interested in Chinese medicine, but also an old man with a white beard who only wants to take medicine. These ignorant ideas have changed a lot since I entered the College of Traditional Chinese Medicine, which is also a kind of gain for me.

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Four years' study in college refreshed my understanding of this major.

I have always felt that a relaxed nursing major actually needs to learn a lot of theories and skills, do scientific research and write papers, and the head nurse is not the one with the highest development prospect. As long as you are good enough, you can become a dean, university president and even a nursing expert at home and abroad.

Nurses in some places even set up specialized clinics, and foreign nurses with avant-garde development also have the right to prescribe. We also need to understand and analyze the diseases that doctors need to know, but the emphasis is different, so the requirements for professional level are different.

This is a promising major, which has value unknown to outsiders.

So don't underestimate it.

The selection requirements in this line of work are very strict. Height, fat and thin, and face value are all ahead of the results. It's amazing to hear that someone was brushed because of the scar on his neck.

Everyone likes beautiful things, which is understandable, but for life discipline, I think this practice deviates from Nightingale's original intention, and it is easier for the public to mistakenly think that this is a youth meal.

When recruiting interns, people like us are like problems left over from history. At that time, I thought it would be your loss to a person who volunteered to nurse in all medical schools. Although my operation is not elegant and I can't get high marks, I am confident to be an understanding, patient, caring and responsible clinical nurse.

However, this pot of cold water did not quench my enthusiasm. I believe that everything God has given us is matched, just as it has given me an unusual family and an opportunity to learn, so that I can look at it in another way. It gave me a little man and an optimistic attitude, so that this kind of thing would not make me despair and pessimistic.

It may have arranged another way for me.

I think all the difficulties God has arranged for life are within our tolerance.

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My mother asked me, "Since you don't like this job, why did you choose this major in the first place?" ? After the internship, I found that my major is different from my job.

I feel that major is the ideal state for the future development of my job, so I slowly begin to feel that this road is not suitable for me.

I'm the kind of person who feels sorry for the boss's salary when I'm one second late for a part-time job. Although the internship is unpaid, it is really trivial and boring. Whenever I have nothing to do, I feel that lying by the window watching the scenery is a waste of my life.

Every time I look at the traffic outside, I feel so bound, and I always play a small drum in my heart: Why don't you take the tour guide card? I even looked for the recruitment information in Xishuangbanna for some time.

I don't like this kind of life, so I read and write in my spare time, and then I opened an official WeChat account. At that time, it even took me an afternoon and a night to write an article, and I forgot to eat. But at the moment when it was sent out, my sense of accomplishment exploded, so I began to explore new media.

When I was looking for a job, I only voted for Huaxi Hospital and Huaxi Second Hospital. Huaxi Hospital was very sad because the information was stamped (possibly for other reasons) and because of high expectations, there was a concern at that time.

Huaxi Second Hospital has just tested the water. That's a children's and women's hospital. I don't like going there in my heart I don't feel anything, because I have decided to change careers. I didn't invest in all hospitals in Wuhan.

I don't want to give myself a backward path and affect my determination.

My only worry is that no matter what I do, I won't let my parents pay the bill again. Therefore, I plan to find a job first, then learn to write when I have income, and move closer to book editors or new media.

So every day, I look for companies that require nursing majors on the job search website of fresh graduates. In fact, there are many companies, not others who say they can only do clinical work. Later, I interviewed a pharmaceutical and health care product sales company. It can be said that as long as it is not clinical, I fart about nursing-related work.

My friend said that since I plan to be a new media or editor in the future, I can find it now. Even if I started as an intern, it is more important to step into its threshold. He's quite right. I followed this position all the way and never thought about looking back.

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In the whole process, when I mentioned my plan to change careers, the most annoying sentence that lingered in my ear was: "If you don't study your major, won't you study in college for nothing?" ! "A layman who doesn't understand the situation or anything at all always likes to comment on other people's choices from his own perspective.

Did you go to college for me?

Do you want to judge whether my college is for nothing?

Everything I have learned is mine. If I don't do this job, can it come to you?

These words are not directed at my parents. Although they think I have done something that no one in the world has done, I know that it is because they don't understand and worry about me that their reaction is so great.

I tried to explain, but it didn't work. I'm worried that they will not sleep well because of this. I lied and comforted that I would try to go to the hospital, but I still kept looking for the job I wanted to do.

Sometimes I am confused and worried, and I also spit out to my friends.

But some young people are still so backward. Even if they are backward, they still use it to express their views on me. This is unbearable. There is induction, ridicule and concern between people, and others can feel it. Don't be blind if you don't understand.

Once, junior high school students said, "How did you all go to college? Neither of them has done their job well? " ? I hope there is nothing meaningful in it.

In my opinion, universities only teach us basic professional knowledge and form a kind of professional thinking, while the real application of professional technology needs to be studied and strengthened by joining the society and working. Universities are more about teaching us how to know the world, know ourselves, form an upright outlook on life and values, find our own life orientation and work hard for what we love.

Although my university is ordinary but full, everyone's so-called "full" is different. My enrichment is not to be soft on scholarships, nor to be successful in clubs, but to do what I have always wanted to do: volunteer, part-time job, reading, etc.

I like this major, so I ask myself to be serious in every major course during my school days, and I will be a frequent visitor in the first row of the classroom with our dormitory. Every time I walk into the examination room with confidence that I can pass, I don't cheat and my grades are not good. I have also won some small prizes, whether it is a group or an individual.

For me, that's enough. I didn't mix in my college. Whenever I look back on the past, I feel very soft and happy inside, so I never feel that I wasted my study.

On the contrary, it was the university that made me brave, long-term and broad-minded, and let me find something I like to do and be willing to work hard for it.

People are contradictory. Although I don't like clinical work and have complained, I am grateful for this experience. There are too many temptations in school. Eating, drinking and studying is not easy for people to calm down and think about what they are good at or want to do, but internship can. When faced with work pressure and the choice of ideal life, it is easy to urge people to find the way they want to go.

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My favorite inspirational writer, Yang Xiwen, is an English major. After graduation, she went to New Zealand with a working holiday visa from 800 yuan. Her dream is to write. For this dream, she changed from a glamorous English teacher in China to a dish-washing girl at the bottom of a foreign country, and gradually gained millions of fans today, living a life of poetry and distance.

There are many such stories. I have nothing, so I go forward bravely. Sometimes I really feel like I'm here to play games.

I don't know what will happen in the future, maybe it will be miserable, maybe it will be very happy. I think, if one day I can't support myself, I'll wash dishes and work as a waiter. It is with this worst psychological preparation that I feel that I will not mix too badly, because I think it is not bad.

Yang Xiwen's success depends not only on her efforts, but also on her experience. So if one day, I have a hard time, I won't feel that the world has abandoned me, but I will feel that the world belongs to me. God will especially care for those who don't mix well and want to work hard, because he is fair.

Look at those inspirational heroes. I'm not talking about people who strive to reach the peak of their lives, but ordinary people who have stories in Ordinary World and Crime Book.

So do it, as long as you live healthily, there is hope for everything.

The latest guest of "Golden Star Show" is Yun-peng Yue, and I learned about his experience: because he was poor, he didn't graduate from junior high school and took several jobs. Later, he gave up his stable and ordinary job and studied with Degang Guo. I admire him very much. For a rural junior high school student, it is very rare to have the courage to be uneasy about the status quo.

Before going through a career change, I may only regard it as an inspirational story, but because I have experienced it, I can better understand his difficulties at that time, admire his courage and love him more.

Those stories that can be summed up in one sentence or one paragraph, for the protagonist, are at a loss every day and toss and turn every night.

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In the misunderstanding of laymen, I finally understand "why I can't get along after listening to so many reasons". The hardest thing in the world is not that I know, but that I believe.

It is easy to listen to reason. After all, it's all other people's stories, but it's hard to do. Especially when you need to change and give up something, you may analyze it clearly and find that others are different from you, so the reason doesn't apply, so forget it. At that time, you had given up that belief. In fact, your belief is not unconditional.

No one's experience is exactly the same, just the courage to start and the way to end.

I prefer to live my life in the way I like, rather than doing things I don't like just to pursue stability all my life.