An article written by a mother who stayed up late for her children is worth reading by all parents and students!

The writer is the mother of a student in Shijiazhuang No.2 Middle School. She wrote some of her own feelings and used this article to tell us: Why should we persist, even if it is difficult?

Please put down what you are doing and read quietly. I believe you will gain something.

The following is the full text of this letter: Actually, my son, there are many words written for you in my blog. That night, after a long talk with you, I just wanted to tell you-

You should be clear about why you want to study.

I just want to tell you that it is to get into a "good university".

Your goal can't be said to be far away. You told me the other day that you didn't want to do specific work, but what you wanted to do was to make great contributions to mankind. I admire you very much. How high the goal is, how high the achievement is. I don't need to say it again.

But don't be so empty. To put this goal into practice, you must study hard and get into a "good university" first! !

The best "good university" is Tsinghua Peking University, followed by People's Congress, Zhejiang University and Nanda University, and the lowest should be 985, 2 1 1 and the like. Otherwise all your dreams can only be dreams!

A good university determines your future social level.

Just like what you said to us the other day, you said, "I finally know why you earn so little money, because you entered a stupid school."

Son, you are absolutely right. Because I was admitted to a broken school, I can only be assigned to the grassroots to be a small civil servant and do the most basic work. Even if I work hard all my life, I am unlikely to be a director.

The circle we know belongs to that small county. The school we graduated from decided that the road of our life has almost been finalized.

Now we have been working for 20 years, and in less than 20 years, we will all retire. This is the trajectory of our lives.

Can only struggle in the middle and lower classes of society. Spending a lifetime may not be as good as an executive's salary for a year. Executives' salaries are all calculated in millions, and we have worked hard to earn about 40 thousand a year.

I have never felt so deeply. 20 13 may 1 day, our high school classmates got together for 20 years, and I realized: the slack in the third year of high school caused the gap in my life! !

Even if you keep sneering at us, I really didn't feel how good I was when I was admitted to Peking University in Tsinghua, because I was as good as I was when I was admitted to Liu Yiping in Tsinghua, but she insisted, and I was very confused.

But now, it's as easy for her to go in and out of America as it is for me to drive in and out of Shijiazhuang now. She gave birth to a son in the United States, so her son can go to primary school, middle school and university directly in the United States without spending so much money, and I, you have to prepare millions for studying abroad in the future!

Her son is an American citizen and can enjoy everything brought by the American welfare system. Just like in our country, Beijingers enjoy many benefits in Beijing. This is the difference between me and her!

I don't want you to wait 20 years before you regret it. I want you to seize every minute of your life. I hope the detour I have taken can give you some inspiration. I hope we can spend the most important stage of your life together.

A good university determines the starting point of your future success.

The environment is very important. As you said that night, good middle schools have Orsay classes at 28 and 40. Only key junior high schools can be admitted to key high schools, and key high schools can be admitted to those top universities.

As you said, the biggest advantage of No.2 Middle School is that there are many ways to get into a good university. Orsay, self-enrollment, and then the college entrance examination, but other schools only have the college entrance examination.

You didn't do well in these two exams. You must be under great pressure, fearing that you won't be admitted. Children, don't be discouraged. No one can give up until the last moment!

Second, it gives you external conditions for success, but it is you who plays a decisive role. These people are your most valuable resources when you enter the society in the future.

In the future, only when you step into a famous university can you know what ideas the professors there have instilled in you, and you can know what kind of network resources you will have.

If a person wants to succeed, he must rely on the mutual support of others, and the circle of outstanding people can produce creativity, wealth and success!

Because of Peking University resources and alumni resources, it has created the glory of New Oriental. It is an elite in the era of e-commerce such as Ma Yun, Ma, etc. If they all sell vegetables and shine shoes, can they succeed?

A person's strength is actually very small. To be a hero depends on the overall environment. Son, you have realized this, and we have been trying to provide you with the best environment. Moving from the county seat to the provincial capital, although it makes you feel a little tight, we have provided everything you can, and the rest is your unremitting efforts.

More importantly, because a good university can have a good job. You can achieve "shine on you is better than blue"!

For a family like ours, you can only "survive first, then develop". You have to be admitted to a good university before you can say anything like studying for the rise of China and seeking happiness for mankind.

Your father and I, we are small civil servants at the grass-roots level. You are not an official second generation, let alone a rich second generation. Only by studying in a good university can we have a good job, further develop and realize greater ambitions.

Son, every time I talk about this, you seem to despise my point of view because you have great goals. However, you have to understand that when you enter the society, "the struggle for survival may crush all young dreams."

Look how many college students there are, Adventure Island. The temporary workers recruited by our unit, many of whom are college students, have a monthly salary of 1300, and they also find their way in through relationships. This is life, a cruel reality of life.

A person's working environment, your identity determines your quality of life. I hope you are "shine on you is better than blue".

Mom doesn't ask you to be the richest man in the world, but only asks you to have a good and stable job in the future, to support your family, to travel abroad and to buy things, without being so stiff as we are now!

But all this can only be achieved by being admitted to a good university!

Second, how can we get into a good university?

In addition to hard work, or hard work! !

Having said all this, I just want to sort out the confusion in your heart and tell you that we have no other way to go except to get into a good university.

Here's what I want to tell you. Only by working hard, working hard and working hard, can we have a chance to get into a good university.

When you first started school, you didn't do well in the exam. You said it was because you didn't finish your homework. In fact, there is a reason for high scores. No pains, no gains, especially in study.

Don't look down on any small problem, don't take it for granted that I can do it, but really do it. If you do well in every topic, practice makes perfect, and you will be ahead of others.

Three years in Hengshui is equivalent to four years in your school, because every minute of it is spent on study.

Son, when I calculate how many days are left now, I am in a panic. We haven't made many mistakes, so we can make further corrections.

Son, you may know everything I say. I just come back once in a while to relax. There is no internet in Hengshui, so children can't have time to watch TV for a while. Son, this process is really bitter, but if we don't suffer now, we will suffer twice as much in the future.

Also, be sure to have dinner in the morning. This is the most important meal of the day. You can completely save the time of brushing shoes and combing your hair.

Son, we have worked hard this year, and even if we still can't reach our goal in the future, we won't regret it.

In my mother's mind, Tsinghua is not out of reach! If you knew your mother's situation, you would understand. Son, you can't!

From now on, you can't relax for a moment, son. I know you are tired. But people who have experienced senior three are not tired. Who hasn't had painful reflection and confusion in senior three? !

Victory belongs only to those who persist and persist. You have a goal around you, so go after it.

Children, today's slack is tomorrow's bitterness. How high the heart is, how hard it should be. There is no difference between a clever student and a diligent student.

Children, learning is the bounden duty of students. At this moment, there is really no choice but to study hard. The road to a famous university is paved with papers as high as yours!

Finally, I want to say something about love.

You know, mom never restrained your feelings.

I once told you that if someone accompanied you through the hardships of study at this stage, you might not be so tired. If not, then we must work harder!

The real strength is not your appearance, your family background, but your own ability. "If You Are the One" is a blind date program, which is essentially a portrayal of social reality. The so-called love is just that you can only choose such a person at a certain time!

Just like me and your dad. If I am admitted to a better university, if it is not Tsinghua Peking University, it is Zhejiang University or something. The person you meet is another person, and the environment you meet is another environment. I can't marry a small civil servant in a county.

In fact, everyone has been evaluated by society, including your job, your education, your family background, and so on. How can we be good enough to match better people?

This society is very realistic. Only by hard work and Excellence can we integrate into the circle of more outstanding people.

In this society, class exists deeply, regardless of your wishes.

Son, there are thousands of words, I just hope you can understand! Can work hard! You can go all out!