Why do many companies require married people with children when recruiting?

We often say, protect women and children!

Women and men are equal now, everyone is equal, don’t discriminate against women!

So is this society really fair to us women?

Today we will tell the story of a friend. This girl lives in Guangzhou. She is 32 years old. She has been working in Internet operations before. After leaving her job, she has been unemployed for almost a year and has submitted nearly a thousand resumes. , either I have finished my studies and cannot return, or I am not suitable. I finally got a few interviews, and I was told that I am a bit old, but the position requires about 10 years of experience. Is it discrimination against me because I am a woman? The headhunting was not easy either. Finally, a HC came forward to introduce me. As soon as I saw that I was unmarried and had no children, I just...

To be honest, I didn’t directly say that I discriminated against age, childbirth, gender, etc., but women were hard to find. The job was passed away at the resume stage without even being given a chance!

This friend’s story is a real and very common thing in our real society. It is difficult for women to find a job after the age of 30. Regardless of whether you are married or unmarried, those without children are afraid that you will have children, and those with children are afraid that you will have too many things to do.

Women need to balance family and work, and also make their bosses happy! So the question is, how do we balance family and work? What if you can take good care of your children and work seriously?

A friend said that women should know that the reason why others don’t want you is because you don’t have enough skills and abilities. If you are capable, others will still rush to get you.

There is nothing wrong with this. Dong Mingzhu is also a woman. How did she achieve success step by step?

Nowadays, the successful lady is not only Dong Mingzhu, but also thousands of female compatriots who are struggling at work! So we can only ask ourselves, why were you passed?

Some people say that this society’s requirements for women are too harsh. On the one hand, we are required to take on social construction and become independent women, and on the other hand, we are required to set up various invisible barriers in the workplace!

But in fact, it is not easy for men and women. They all have what they need to do.

Some friends said: Me too, I am 34 years old, married and have no children. But when I went for the interview, I said that I have a child of a few years old, no pressure in life, and no plans to have a second child. Tire, he joined the job directly, who cares. I can't find a job, who's going to take care of my living expenses, right? So there is no need to think too much about those people, just say that you are single now. If it doesn't work anymore, just make up an excuse. You say you are single.

But believing lies is temporary, only the truth can be permanent.

We still need to be independent and capable women.

“Honestly speaking, being a stay-at-home mother is the job with the highest threshold in the world. First, you must have a husband with high economic output. Second, you must have the skills and wisdom to take care of your children independently. Third, there is no The vicious parents-in-law who make trouble and ridicule her for free. Fourth, there is a pair of independent parents who have enough savings to take risks for their daughter's future. Fifth, the husband and wife are loyal to each other and have the same goal. Sixth, keep learning. Ability, children have the opportunity and ability to return to the workplace when they grow up. You see, those mothers with official accounts are all full-time mothers, and they all regard motherhood as a career, a career, and an industry. Extraordinary people. Being a full-time mother is the highest level of profession. If someone looks down on full-time mothers, they are really ignorant and ill-informed.”

Fortunately, we have it. With this person's company, we each only need to do one thing well, without having to encourage both hands to do it. The so-called balance means that two people adjust their strategies and gaits to achieve the ultimate win. There is no need for one person to encourage to balance. When I need to take care of At that time, he resigned regardless of his own safety. When his children needed me, I could do the same.

Everything can be subtracted, adjusted, balanced, and given up, but family and love absolutely cannot.