At work, what should you do when faced with a status quo that you cannot change?

The three girls L, C, and D were all graduate students from prestigious universities. That year they applied to the same public school together and were assigned to the same grade. Although they were all graduate students, But he was still sent to teach junior high school, and he was somewhat unappreciated.

Because they were young and inexperienced, the leaders gave them the worst class to lead. The once proud sons of heaven, who were once full of enthusiasm and prepared to make great achievements in their careers, now look like a fist. Hitting cotton, there is no sound.

They have no choice but to deal with those naughty children and battle with unreasonable parents. They are often so angry that they hide in the corner and cry. Hugh's job completely disrupts their lives.

Soon, all three of them began to suffer from professional burnout. They complained about all the shortcomings of the school every time they met. Their complexions changed from rosy to haggard, and their lives were miserable. All three of them thought of it in unison. Job hopping.

L is planning to go to a relatively relaxed college where she can have two weekends off. She actively pays attention to the recruitment information of various schools; C is tired of this unfree life and is preparing to take the civil service exam; D wants to become As a writer and anchor, they not only bought a Mandarin proficiency test book to practice pronunciation, but also insisted on practicing writing and publishing it online every day. The three of them were full of energy and enthusiastically chasing new goals.

But the reality is much crueler than imagined.

L has participated in interviews at several vocational colleges, but was defeated for various reasons, either because he disliked the other school’s low salary, or because the other school did not recruit related majors, or even The school politely rejected L because she was an older, unmarried girl and would miss work due to maternity leave. After many encounters with the wall, L's face became worse and worse, and her mood became more and more depressed. She started complaining again, and she couldn't stand it. Everything around you is like a walking ghost. Wherever you go, negative energy spreads.

C had been preparing for the civil service examination for half a year. She went to the exam with full confidence and waited with full expectations. However, reality defeated her like a bolt from the blue. She was depressed for two weeks and then came back to life with full blood and actively prepared. The next round of exams, half a year later, she took the exam again, but the reality was still the same as before, extinguishing the hope in her heart, and she failed again. From then on, she began to doubt herself, and even felt that she was not qualified to take the civil service exam at all. Gradually, C became negative, resentful, and full of hostility.

D wrote several articles with confidence and posted them online, but the response was mediocre. She submitted articles to several journals and was rejected. She also submitted her resume to several radio stations, but because she was not a broadcasting and hosting major , and was rejected due to lack of hosting experience. It was the first time that D felt the unkindness of life, and it was also the first time that he lowered his head as an "honest student" and felt that he was incompetent, confused, and helpless.

After a year of struggling, the three friends were pricked black and blue by the thorns of life, but still failed to change the status quo. When the three of them came together again, except for the once clear eyes that had become stagnant, the energetic faces had become full of sadness. They were sinking deeper and deeper into the quagmire of life. Faced with the status quo that they were unable to change, they could only Being able to accept it passively and helplessly, and vent this dissatisfaction on relatives and friends, making everyone feel like they are living in hell.

After a year of confusion, L attributed all the unsatisfactory results to the difficulties of fate. She adopted a negative attitude towards life and muddle along at work, neither spending time improving teaching skills nor spending energy. She learned class management. After one semester, the class she taught was terrible. The leader changed the class teacher and continued to let her teach the worst class. While she continued to complain about the unfairness of the school, she could only passively accept it.

After C was depressed for a period of time, he realized that there was no point in complaining. He could only change what he could change and accept what he could not change. One day, when the strength accumulated to a certain level, he would be able to achieve phoenix nirvana. Reborn from the ashes. As a teacher, students are your bargaining chips, and the classroom is your battlefield. So, she spent her time complaining to improve her teaching management level. Soon, she received the attention of her leaders and was placed in a better class. She also won the championship in competitions. Other schools offered her olive branches and she changed jobs. After going to a school with better management, she has more freedom and her life is more comfortable.

Although D’s works were not favored, and although she had been decadent for a while, she felt: Complaining is the weakest compromise in life, and seeking change is the most powerful response to difficulties, so she did not After giving up, she believed that persistence would lead to results. After persisting for a year, she finally had an article that was appreciated and published in a journal. Although the fee was not much, she was very happy, and her writing official account was also started by a previous fan. It turned into tens of thousands of clicks. She believed that one day she would be able to realize her dream of being a writer. At the same time, she also signed up for a language training class to train her language pronunciation and language expression skills. Slowly, she began to broadcast for some public accounts. , attracted a group of fans.

Three young people with similar destinies also suffered from work crises. However, in the face of pressure, some chose to complain and others chose to change, but the endings were completely different. Sometimes life is like a powerful boss. The weaker you are, the more he will look down upon you. The stronger you are, the more he respects you. Sometimes life is like a fair referee. How much effort you put in will be how much he will reward you.

I hope that all young people in the world who are stuck in work can use their own strength to resolve crises at work and become the masters of their destiny.