Cheng Qian, the first brother of CCTV: My biological father never knew about it on 14. He only called his father for the first time after his death.

"He had a massive myocardial infarction and then died on the stage. After he passed away, I squatted in his ear, said I was sorry, and then called Dad. "

/kloc-When he was 0/4 years old, Cheng Qian learned the truth of his life by accident.

My biological father was in front of me 14 years, but I never knew it.

He doesn't know why there are parents in this world who will give their children to others.

The complicated family relationship between biological father and adoptive father,

It also led to his sensitive and inferior personality since childhood.

This also caused a huge gap between him and his biological father.

It was not until his biological father died that he called his father regretfully.

Behind the enviable scenery of the former CCTV brother,

But there are unspeakable tears and pains.

Why is there such a bizarre life experience on Cheng Qian?

Now, what was life like before Cheng?

0 1.

1963 In an art family named Cheng in Beijing,

A little boy was born.

His parents named him Cheng Qian, hoping that his future would be bright.

However, human emotions are different.

Looking at my brother Cheng Zhi's happy smile,

My brother said a blessing, but his heart was bitter.

In those days, it seemed very important to carry on the family line.

My brother already has a girlfriend,

But I have never been pregnant with a second child for so many years.

For my son, my brother has always longed for it.

And all this is also seen by the mothers of two people.

In the evening, my mother called Cheng Zhi aside.

"You give your eldest brother adoption. Your eldest brother has been very kind to you since childhood. Can you bear to see him die? "

On the one hand, I am my own flesh and blood, on the other hand, I have taken care of my eldest brother since I was a child.

Cheng Zhi was in trouble, so he consulted his daughter-in-law.

As an actor, Cheng Zhijia still supports eating with one mouth open.

But for big brother, Cheng Zhi's heart is always full of guilt.

So he gritted his teeth and adopted Cheng Qian to his eldest brother's name.

Looking at sister-in-law crying red eyes, eldest brother said:

"I will definitely regard Cheng Qian as my son and will raise him well."

In this way, Cheng Qian's life experience was reversed.

Uncle became his father, and his biological father became his uncle.

The eldest brother promised Cheng that he would not hide the child's life story and would tell him the truth when he was 20 years old.

/kloc-Cheng Qian, who was just born 0/5 days ago, was taken home by her uncle.

But there is no windtight wall in the world,

Neighbors are also talking about this sudden child, the eldest brother of the Cheng family.

Although Cheng Qian grew up with the love of his adoptive parents,

But he has always had strange eyes and voices around him.

On one occasion, he had a conflict with his classmates.

The classmate suddenly said, "You are a wild child. I don't know where you come from. What are you dragging? "

Hearing this sentence, Cheng Qian froze.

When I was a small neighbor, I saw my own embarrassing picture.

Pictures of my sister and I calling my uncle by different names came to his mind one after another.

It turns out that all this is because you are not born to your parents.

He ran home in tears and locked himself in his room as soon as he entered the room.

No matter how their parents shouted, they never stepped out of the house.

He couldn't figure out why his parents gave birth to themselves but didn't raise them.

Why do you want to adopt yourself to others?

Until the neighbors came with their children to apologize,

Foster parents only know what happened, but they can't be angry with the children in the neighborhood.

I can only accept this reality silently.

Now, the first thing to be solved is the problem before the process.

The adoptive father walked to Cheng Qian's door: "Cheng Qian, it's not your fault. No matter what happens, you are my son. I respect all your decisions. "

Listening to his father's words, Cheng Can's tears kept flowing downwards.

He knows how good his adoptive parents are to him and how much they have suffered for themselves.

This kind of nurturing grace will never be forgotten.

He opened the door and hugged his father: "You will always be my father."

However, with such a complicated family background, Cheng Qian has developed a sensitive personality of inferiority.

Although he accepted the fact on the surface,

But his heart has been unable to get through this hurdle.

After knowing the truth, he often doesn't know how to face his father.

When the two families were eating, he was also embarrassed and at a loss.

Such a complicated family environment also helped him develop a sensitive personality of inferiority.

Fortunately, the biological father and adoptive father also know that the child may not be able to adapt for a while.

The child is not in a hurry to admit it, and this matter has been dragged on.

02.

After graduating from high school, Cheng Qian didn't go to college.

He had to enter a shipyard and become a unloading worker.

At a young age, I have to carry goods several times heavier than myself every day.

Back and forth, up and down.

I got up the next day, my whole body ached and my shoulders were swollen badly.

After a month's hard work, I finally have 62 yuan in my hand.

After getting his first salary, he kept part of it himself and gave all the rest to his parents.

Looking at the children's efforts and filial piety,

Parents are also very distressed when they are happy.

Later, with excellent performance, the factory director threw Cheng Qian into the workshop.

In this way, he became a locksmith.

But he is not the only apprentice who teaches him to work.

The old master often teaches another apprentice technical work behind his back.

Just because the other person is his relative.

This also makes Cheng Qian miserable and unhappy.

Have a strong heart, in order to get ahead,

He worked very hard in private, groping for fitter skills by himself,

There are many things to grind,

This effort finally made him win the first place in the exam.

It was also awarded the title of "New Long March Assaulter" by the factory.

I can gradually find that I don't like this day after day.

He didn't want to be buried like this,

By chance, he learned that a radio station in Zhejiang was looking for an announcer.

So with a try, he went to Zhejiang to take the exam.

But unfortunately, he was not admitted in the end.

In despair, he returned to work,

Seeing that he was so depressed, friends around him pointed him out another way.

The Rule of Law Publicity Department of Guangzhou Public Security Bureau is recruiting staff.

If you get in, tell me how beautiful it is to go out.

Hearing this news, Cheng Qian's heart for a better future is beating violently again.

Luck came this time, and he passed the exam.

During that time, Cheng went to the door of the mailroom every day to see if there were any letters from Guangzhou.

I will always remember the scene when I received that letter before I finished it.

The envelope says "Guangzhou Public Security Bureau, collect it before departure".

The adoptive parents were also very excited and happy when they learned the news.

What an admirable position the police are. It can be said that they have a bright future after being admitted.

The adoptive parents couldn't wait to tell the whole family the news.

But when I called Cheng Qian's biological father to let him say it himself,

Cheng went to prevaricate and made excuses to prevaricate.

He still hasn't found a way to get along with his biological father.

The night before he left, the adoptive father held Cheng Qian's hand and said:

"Son, dad knows that you have had a hard time for so many years, but Cheng Zhi is your biological father after all. Dad doesn't want this relationship between you two. I just hope you can live well. "

Cheng Qian knew what his father meant.

"Dad, I know. I will consider it. "

The adoptive father sighed lightly and hugged his son.

1986, Cheng Qian changed from a locksmith to a policeman.

When he first arrived in Guangzhou, he would pinch himself every morning when he woke up.

Because he was afraid that all this would become a dream.

He works very hard both at work and in daily training.

1 year later, Cheng Qian was selected by the TV station because of her excellent performance.

That is, from here on, Cheng Qian embarked on a road of hosting.

He first presided over the law popularization program, and later transformed into a variety show host.

Every year, Cheng Qian's name will appear in the host list at various large-scale parties held by TV stations.

1988, in the host contest held by CCTV,

With rich experience and a stable typhoon,

Won the title of "Top Ten Hosts in China".

This also made him get the attention of CCTV.

The smooth career also makes the love before the journey come quietly.

In a program, he met a girl named Betty Wong.

The two soon fell in love.

But at that time, both of them were on the rise in their careers and had no plans to get married and have children.

It was not until 1992 that they got married in Guangzhou after four years of long-distance love.

Not long after the marriage, CCTV threw an olive branch to Cheng Qian.

As the biggest and highest stage in China, every host has a yearning for CCTV.

Cheng Qian came to Beijing from Guangzhou without thinking.

The family was also very excited to learn that their son had been transferred by CCTV.

Before the project started, the whole family got together to celebrate the promotion.

03.

Before I first arrived at CCTV, I was highly valued by the leaders.

Soon, a variety show was tailored for him.

Even the theme song of this program is sung by himself.

On the stage, he is natural and graceful, relaxed and humorous.

Handsome appearance and rigorous and funny hosting style,

Let him be deeply loved by the audience, and the name Cheng Qian has also entered thousands of households.

1994, he has only been in CCTV for two years.

He is in charge of hosting the Spring Festival Gala with Ni Ping.

For such a big scene, his aura is not lost to the old-timers around him.

Since then, Cheng Qian's hosting career seems to accelerate at double speed.

Often appear in the host list of CCTV's major programs.

But his busy career made him too busy to take care of his family.

The relationship between him and Wang Yue became weaker and weaker, and finally he got a divorce certificate at 1995.

Later, Wang Yue, who was deeply hurt, chose to go abroad to heal.

I met an China person abroad and started a new life.

At this time, before the journey began, I also devoted all my energy to my career.

At that time, he seemed to be the ready-made brother of CCTV.

If he can go all the way to hosting,

Then the person who presided over the ceiling level today must have his name.

But he chose to quit his job at the peak of his career and become an actor.

His decision also made the outside world talk a lot.

Actually, Cheng Qian's biological father, Cheng Zhi, is an actor.

He has appeared in Chicken Hair Letter and The Journey to the West.

Before knowing his own life, Cheng Qian thought he was only proud of his biological father.

He often shows off his uncle as a big star to his classmates.

But all this changed after 14 years old.

He never mentioned it again, and he always avoided talking about his biological father.

After switching to being an actor, Cheng Qian's career did not achieve the expected results.

He has appeared in many film and television works, but it has not caused any sensation.

Unfortunately, one after another,

The business here has not yet ushered in a new improvement, but suddenly there is bad news at home.

Father Cheng is dying.

After learning the news, Cheng bought a ticket and went home as soon as possible.

But unfortunately, he still didn't catch up with his biological father for the last time.

When I got home and looked at my biological father's closed eyes, I regretted what happened before.

He knelt beside his biological father and said in his ear, "I'm sorry, dad."

However, he never got any response.

Don't wait until people die to know regret.

With the guilt of her biological father in her heart, Cheng Qian is getting better and better to her biological mother.

Looking at the filial son in front of me,

Mother's tears fell down in an instant:

"Do you hate us when mom didn't stop your father from sending you out?"

Before the process carefully holding the mother said:

"I had it in the days when I knew the truth, and now I have put it down."

Watching my son finally recognize his sister in law,

A big stone in the adoptive parents' hearts finally fell to the ground.

04.

After that, Cheng Qian worked harder and harder as an actor.

This is also reflected in his perfection of the script.

He often puts forward his views on the role to the director.

It will also point out the actress's acting problems.

But the actor opposite doesn't care how big your wrist is, and besides, you are not a famous actor.

The two often quarrel on the set because of their acting skills.

This practice also made Cheng Qian unconsciously offend some people.

His reputation in the outside world is getting worse,

People constantly stand up and accuse him of being grumpy and demanding.

Some media even rated Cheng Qian as a "poor actor": poor artistic morality, poor drama morality and poor interpersonal skills.

The rumor that he left CCTV is getting more and more serious.

Some people say that CCTV found out that he had to leave because he took a private job.

Others said that he was expelled from CCTV.

Although Cheng Qian stood up and clarified: "I hope some media will not take it out of context. I resigned voluntarily, not fired. "

But these people don't take these clarifications seriously.

And his love affair with Dong Qing was revealed by netizens at this time.

The news about their breakup has also been a hot topic.

Until the old partner Ni Ping spoke for Cheng Qian in an interview,

The discussion about Cheng Qian gradually subsided.

"Cheng Qian is a very good and comprehensive host. He can host all kinds of programs well and work hard for his work. "

In the following years, he appeared in many film and television works.

He interprets both anti-war dramas and urban dramas very well.

But just as my career was getting better, there was bad news at home.

The adoptive father passed away.

Before traveling, someone once asked me, "Because of family reasons, you have two fathers's mother. Who do you think has the greatest influence on your growth? "

Cheng Qian said without hesitation, "My adoptive father".

If my biological father dies, my heart is full of regret and guilt.

Then when his adoptive father died, his heart was the collapse and darkness after the collapse of his spiritual pillar.

After taking care of his father's affairs, the young man who has supported him for half a life can't help it any longer.

Holding two mothers in pain, "mom, I don't have a father." My father is gone. "

During that time, Cheng Qian locked herself in her room all day and all night.

Until I saw the white hair on the temples of two mothers,

Only then did I know how much my actions hurt my mother's heart.

After that, he took the two mothers to take care of them and let them spend their old age safely.

05.

The biggest wish of the two mothers at this time is the personal event before the trip.

But the previous two failed relationships made Cheng Qian lose hope for marriage.

But he couldn't bear to see his mother disappointed.

So under the introduction of friends, I met an outsider.

They got married in 20 13 and gave birth to a lovely baby 1 year later.

After marriage, he loved his wife and son very much.

He is well aware of the harm of outside gossip, so he protects his wife and children well.

The change of his role at home also made him mature and steady.

Nowadays, Cheng Qian is rarely seen on the screen.

Until 202 1, after Cheng Qian's first directorial work "The Caster" was broadcast on CCTV,

Only then did everyone know that during the disappearance,

Cheng went to do such a great thing.

Although I have reached the age of running for six years, I was very young before the process.

Never stopped moving forward,

Successful career, happy family, and hardships,

Cheng Qian's life is finally complete.

Conclusion:

Looking back on the first half of his life, he was lucky and unlucky.

The choice of the older generation made him in a dilemma.

Which is more important, the grace of nurturing or the grace of bearing?

This seems to be a big answer.

Some people say that you don't exist without your biological father,

But some people say that being born without raising is not worthy of being a father.

But in any case, no one has experienced this event personally.

We can't judge whether his choice is right or wrong from the perspective of a bystander.

After all, don't persuade others to be good and don't suffer others.

Fortunately, Cheng Qian didn't go astray because of his family.

On the contrary, we have achieved a bright future step by step with our own efforts.

Real gold is not afraid of fire, and life is tortuous and entrepreneurial.

Respect for kindness and virtue will lead to a happy life in the end.

I also wish life before and after the journey a bright future.

I wish him a full house of children and grandchildren at an early date and good health.