Mother asked me to help my cousin find a job. How can I refuse her?

Just because you died first, they trained you first and then your sister. Maybe you don't think you should give money, but have you thought about it? Your parents should train you? They used the money to train your sister, and you can still go to college? If your parents have 200,000 yuan, should you and your sister each have100,000 yuan? In order to get you into college first.

I gave you the money that should have been given to your sister first. Do you owe money to your sister? Even if you step into a large group of social people in the future and decide that you have no ideal future, can short-sighted people make great achievements? How do "rare" people who are not recognized by their blood relatives know how to survive and get along in the workplace? What are brothers and sisters and what is sisterhood? She is your sister, not your daughter. Your parents should do what they can. When they want your sister, they should consider whether they can support an adult. It seems irresponsible to me to throw it at the boss.

Affection is very important to me, and I think I can bear it. However, everyone's family situation and growth environment are different. The specific mistake still depends on your feelings for your family.

Parents are not easy, if there is no big contradiction, try to help parents reduce their burden! Such an uncle's poor family conditions are unbearable and he can only give spiritual support, so he will be assigned a job until he graduates from college. Because of the long-term separation between the north and the south, there are many children, and his aunt is in the countryside, and her life is not rich, but her heart is still full of gratitude. Now he is 80 years old, but you should try your best to help them. Because you spent a lot of money on college. You didn't do anything for this family either. But your brother's sister. They will also help adults share a lot. It’s your turn. I don't know. Just graduated from college and stepped into the society. Maybe everything is in a confused period, but everything at home is discussed by everyone, and parents will not force you. More or less income can help parents share some burdens and communicate with their parents more. Family harmony is true.