How to find opportunities in a difficult situation?

Difficulties are schools that train talents, and hardships on the road of life can make a brilliant life. It takes courage to fly against the wind. We should always adjust our mentality and actively get out of the predicament.

Difficulties make you strong.

Hafid, who owns "parchment", has not had a smooth life. In his career, no matter how much he pays, how much effort he makes, how to persevere and have passion, failures and setbacks will come to him. This seems to be a deliberate arrangement from heaven, but he has succeeded in his career. Haifei people are middle-aged and experienced. He already knows how to fight against adversity and find ways to reverse the situation and get out of the predicament.

Because, he always looks for the bud of success in every predicament.

This is how he views the so-called "adversity":

Adversity is the best school in life. Every failure, every setback, every hardship, is pregnant with the seeds of success. All this taught him to perform better in the next performance. He will not be bitter about failure, will not escape from reality, and will not refuse to learn from past mistakes. Lessons come from the nature of suffering. The most terrible thing in life is to repeat the same mistakes over and over again. Everyone should avoid such a thing. Adversity is often an important way to truth. In order to change this situation, he is always ready to learn all the knowledge he needs.

Whenever he is knocked down by a terrible failure, after every pain, he will try to turn the failure into a good thing. The opportunity of life flashes at this moment ... this bitter root vein will surely usher in a garden full of flowers.

Difficulties are a test for each of us. In the face of adversity, different people will have different performances. Face it bravely and try to solve it. Difficulties make you stronger.

Suffering makes a brilliant life.

There are two stones in the deep mountain. The first stone said to the second stone:

"After the hardships and bumps of the road and the bumps of the world, you can try your luck and come to this world."

"No, why bother?" The second stone scoffed. "Sitting in the high sky, other mountains are short. Who would be stupid enough to choose the latter between pleasure and pain? Besides, the hardships on the road will make me collapse! "

As a result, the first stone rolled down with the mountain stream, experienced the hardships of wind and rain and nature, and it still stubbornly ran on its own road. The second stone smiled sarcastically. It enjoys ease and happiness on the high mountain, and enjoys free expression surrounded by flowers and plants.

Many years later, the weather-beaten first stone and its family have become the treasures of the world and the miracle of stone art, and have been praised by millions of people. The second stone regretted it after knowing it. Now it wants to throw people into the baptism of the world's dust, and then get as successful and noble as the first stone, but it flinches at the thought of going through so many bumps and hardships, even being devastated and in danger of being smashed into pieces.

One day, in order to better preserve the wonderful stone art, people plan to build a beautiful, unique and magnificent museum, all of which are made of stone. So they came to the high mountain, ground the second stone into powder, broke the bones and built a house for the first stone.

Meng Ziyun: "Born in sorrow, died in happiness." Trouble and ease are also a way of life, but one can cultivate faith and the other can only sow mediocrity.

Experiments by zoologists show that the existence of wolves makes the antelope strong. Without the threat of wolves, the antelope becomes weak in a comfortable environment. Once it meets wolves, it will only be eaten. This phenomenon also applies to human beings, and real life needs suffering. People who are blindly depressed in the face of adversity are superficial; People who live in constant fear are vulnerable when things go wrong. A person who doesn't understand the hardships of life is prone to arrogance. People who have not experienced the hardships of life are often difficult to shoulder heavy responsibilities.

Poe is a romantic and mysterious genius poet and novelist. He left many immortal poems to later generations, among which the most popular poem is The Crow:

"That crow never flies, always perches, always perches; On the pale bust of pallas above my door. The expression in its eyes looks like a demon in a dream. The light pouring on its head casts its shadow on the floor. "

Poe wrote this poem again and again, changed it again and again, and wrote it intermittently for 10 years. However, under the circumstances at that time, he was forced to sell it cheaply, and only got 10 US dollars, which was equivalent to only one yuan a year for his works.

History is just. At that time, it only needed $65,438+00, but its manuscript has recently sold for tens of thousands of dollars.

Such a talented poet spent his whole life in poverty. He can't afford the rent most of the time, even though his house is very humble. His wife suffers from tuberculosis, and because she has no money to seek medical treatment, she has to wander in the hospital bed all day. They have no money to buy food. Sometimes, they have nothing to eat for days on end. When the plantains bloomed in the yard, they picked them and boiled them for dinner, almost every day for a while.

When Tibetan mastiff puppies grow teeth and bite, their owners put them in a closed environment without food and water, so that these puppies can bite each other and kill each other, leaving a live dog. This dog is called mastiff. It is said that it takes ten dogs to raise a mastiff.

Be a dog or a mastiff, it's your choice. Only through hard experience can we achieve a brilliant life.

A positive attitude helps you get out of trouble.

Robert Phillips, an American personality analyst, once received a homeless man who was heavily in debt because of the closure of his business, leaving his wife and daughter wandering around. The man came in and said, "I'm here to see the author of this book." As he spoke, he took out a book called Confidence from his pocket, which was written by Robert many years ago. The tramp continued, "It must be fate that put this book in my pocket yesterday afternoon, because I decided to jump into Lake Michigan and die. I saw through everything, thinking that everything was desperate, and all people (including God) abandoned me. Fortunately, I saw this book, which gave me a new view, brought me courage and hope, and supported me through last night. I have made up my mind that as long as I can meet the author of this book, he will definitely help me stand up again. Now that I'm here, I want to know what you can do for people like me. "

As Robert spoke, he looked at the homeless man from head to toe, and found his blank eyes, depressed wrinkles, unshaven beard for more than ten days and nervous expression, all of which indicated that he was hopeless. But Robert couldn't bear to say this to him. So ask him to sit down and tell his story completely.

Robert listened to the story of the tramp, thought about it and said, "Although I can't help you, if you like, I can introduce you to someone in this building who can help you earn back your lost money and help you make a comeback." As soon as Robert finished speaking, the tramp jumped up, grabbed his hand and said, "For God's sake, please take me to meet this man."

He will make this request "for God's sake", which shows that there is still a glimmer of hope in his heart. So Robert took him by the hand and took him to the psychological laboratory engaged in personality analysis, and stood in front of a curtain cloth with him. Robert opened the curtains to reveal a tall mirror. Robert pointed to the tramp in the mirror and said, "This is the man. There is only one person in this world who can make you make a comeback. Unless you sit down and get to know this person thoroughly-as if you didn't know him before-you can only jump into Lake Michigan, because until you get to know this person completely, it is of no value to yourself or the world. "

He took a few steps towards the mirror and touched his bearded face with his hand. I looked at the person in the mirror from head to toe for a few minutes, then stepped back, lowered my head and began to cry. After a while, Robert led him out of the elevator and sent him away.

A few days later, Robert met this man in the street. He is no longer a tramp, wearing a suit and tie, walking briskly and holding his head high. The old, uneasy and nervous gesture has disappeared. He said that he thanked Mr. Robert for finding himself and finding a job soon.

Later, that man really made a comeback and became a rich man in Chicago.

Frustration is a mirror, which can see people's filth; Frustration is also a sobering agent, a whip, which can make you awake in whipping.

Frustration will make you calmly reflect on self-blame, face up to your shortcomings and weaknesses, and strive to overcome them before you can fight; Frustration will make people savor life, chew the ups and downs of life repeatedly, cultivate their own understanding and constantly improve themselves; Setbacks are not a bunch of flowers, but a bunch of thorns. Although flowers make people happy, they often make people lose their vigilance. Although thorns make people feel palpitation, they make people clear-headed.

In the face of setbacks, don't lose heart, readjust your mentality and emotions, and straighten out the coordinates and route of your life. Find and seize the opportunity again, find your own position and shine.

A boy saw an application notice in the newspaper, and the job was just right for him. The next morning, he arrived at the application site on time and found that there were 20 boys waiting in line in the application team.

If you switch to another weak-willed and not very smart boy, you may shrink back. But this young man is completely different. He thinks he should use his mind and wisdom to find a solution to the difficulty. He doesn't think negatively, but thinks seriously with his head to see if there is a solution.

He took out a piece of paper, wrote a few lines, and then walked out of the queue and asked the boy behind him to save him a seat. He walked up to the female secretary in charge of recruitment and said politely, "Miss, please give this paper to the boss. This is very important. Thank you. "

The secretary was impressed with him. Because he looks cheerful, gentle, attractive and unforgettable. So she gave the paper to the boss.

The boss opened the note and saw this sentence written on it:

"Sir, I am a boy of 2 1. Please don't make any decision before you see me. " As you expected, the final result will be that the young man is successfully admitted.

So, you don't have to be afraid of the difficulties in life. You just need to adjust your mentality, be brave to meet challenges, use your brains, use your wisdom and actively solve problems. I believe that any difficulty will be your chance of success. At this time, you may sincerely appreciate these adversities in your life. It is because of their existence that your life is full of challenges, opportunities and greater success.