Family blind date, more than 8000 welders, system 5000. How do you choose?

Looking for a boyfriend, the first thing is personality, or it is right. In fact, some people only look at wages. If so, I tell you, there is an old man, hundreds of billions, who suits you best!

In terms of vision and personality, culture is the ninth choice and salary is the tenth. Before you choose the front, you start to choose the back, just like shopping. You don't look at the quality of things first, look at what the gift is first, the order is reversed.

Look again, if more than 10,000 blind dates are appropriate, what suits you is the best.

Welders can set up their own stalls or be the draftsman of the boss.

At home, there are more than 8 thousand welders and 5 thousand draftsmen. What do you choose?

Hello! I'm from the bottom of my heart, and I'm glad to answer the question of the subject. There are more than 8,000 welders and 5,000 draftsmen at home. What do you choose? Tell you what: First of all, you are going in the wrong direction. Love is not measured by money. In real life, although love and marriage need a material foundation to maintain, of course, money is essential, but it is not the most important. The reason for this is the following：

First, money cannot dominate the stability and longevity of love and marriage.

1, let's not talk about those stars, rich people, rich second generation! But their marriage still went wrong, and finally they came to the end of their marriage and broke up and left. Let's say a few classmates around me, one of whom runs a company and has a rich family, and has always been at odds. They have different life values, pursue different ideal goals, have no common language, have no common interests and hobbies, and have no feeling of love with each other. Two years ago, the marriage finally came to an end and divorced.

2. There is also a female classmate whose family is a relocated household, who has compensated millions and several houses. It's also an "outbreak household"! But the relationship between husband and wife has never been harmonious. Because of personality differences, one is strong and the other is weak. Her husband has a bad personality and often quarrels. Although his family is rich, his life is very unhappy. Her husband is also a playboy. After having a woman outside, his classmates knew about it, and they resolutely filed for divorce, and their marriage came to an end.

Second, the above two examples are only representative. There are many such examples in reality, which further shows that love and marriage are not determined by each other's salary and education.

1, according to the description of the topic: welders earn more than 8,000 yuan a month, have a house and a car, but they have low academic qualifications and feel ashamed to go out. College students' drawing salary is 5 thousand yuan per month, and they have a house but no car. How do you choose? From your account, first of all, you belittle the type of welder. In today's fast-developing national construction, all kinds of talents are needed, and welders are one of them. Senior welders have been applied to the aerospace industry, which is a high-end talent! Why do you feel embarrassed to go out?

Although the college student has a low salary, a house and no car, he has just entered the society and his career has just started. Cartography is also a high-precision design major, and the construction of all walks of life needs precise design and cartography to complete. There is a lot of room for improvement and it is also a hot industry. At some point, his career has a bright future, and a salary of only 5,000 is nothing. How many times will it be doubled in the future?

Third, love is not a question of salary and immediate interests, not a question of work level, but whether you can spark love with each other.

1. If you choose a welder as your boyfriend, you can get to know each other's personality, personality and common interests in the process of acquaintance and love, and then the rest. With the feeling of love, you can go on. If you don't feel it, your character is not very good, and no matter how high your salary is, it's not your dish.

2. If you choose a college student as your boyfriend, you should also find each other's feelings through acquaintance and love, and understand each other's personality, personality and common interests, and then other things. If you don't feel in love, the other person's character is not very good, and no matter how high your education is, it is doomed to be unhappy!

3, love is not a unilateral choice of spouse, you choose others, first of all, you have to be excellent, if others see your character, bad character, others are worse, doomed to break up.

Love is not a child's play, your choice determines the happiness of each other's future marriage! As for choosing welders or college students, you can't see through each other's inner world at a glance, let alone fall in love at first sight! Only when we meet and fall in love, it is most important to know each other's character and character. With common interests and life goals, we have established deep feelings! This is the conclusion. Decide that the other person is the only one in your life!

So, as for choosing a welder or a college student as a boyfriend? Not the only person you choose a mate with. Only those who really love each other can go to the end. If you are destined to find the feeling of true love with one of them, then it is certainly good to hold hands with each other. It doesn't matter if you have a lower education. A rich and loving marriage is destined to be happy! It doesn't matter if the salary is low. With a degree, you have a future, and your salary will naturally rise. True love is doomed to a happy marriage! The key to choosing a spouse depends on personality.

Therefore, love is not about salary and education, love and marriage without emotional foundation. No matter how high the salary is, no matter how high the education is, it's not your thing. Twisted together, will eventually break up. The concept of mate selection should be changed, instead of coveting immediate interests, blindly pursuing material enjoyment and finding your true love! The wealth we worked hard together can be used with peace of mind, love! Only when the marriage is strong can we go further! Otherwise it will be endless harm and regret!

Choose college students. There is at least one room. Now the car really doesn't matter. Besides, college students are promising. Once a man reaches 30. Almost stable. Welding is always welding. College students don't have to do this forever. At least he got promoted quickly. Young, dry welding is basically not self-motivated. I've been welding all my life. Don't look at the salary at that time. Look at the future. Eight thousand is eight thousand. College students are different, and they will all be 8 thousand in the future. You have to see it later. As long as two people have rooms. The car is really not important. The key is the room.

Choose 5000 drawing, his circle has many more than 10 thousand colleagues, tens of thousands of bosses, and ........................................................................................................................................., the leader who can eat! ! ! ! 8000 welder, no expansibility, nothing on it, rough man! .................................................................................................................................................................................., look at you. What? ! ? Have a dream? Is the gap between cars a gap? Having said so much, I wonder what your conditions are. Anyone who can reach 1234 will not go on a blind date. 5000.8000 is not important. Only by attaching importance to each other can we really live. It is suggested not to set goals, but to talk about them. Giving others a chance is also giving yourself a chance. ...............

It can be understood as dating two boys:

First of all, the welder

The salary is more than 8 thousand, and I have a car and a house without education.

Second, painting.

Salary 5000, college student, with a house but no car.

Literally speaking, welders have high wages, houses and cars. However, college students have a house and no car, and their wages are low, which gives people the feeling that welders are better than college students.

By the way, what's your culture? College students?

Looking for someone, you should all be rushing to get married. Besides, I plan to spend my whole life, although the divorce rate is so high now. But I think divorce is hard, right?

So, if you want to live together, the first thing is:

(1), the other person's personality

This is particularly important.

② The three views are consistent.

When two people get along, they must have the same view and common language.

(3) Temper

A man must have a good temper.

(4) No bad habits.

Gambling, drugs ... never.

Also, take a long-term view. Just because college students' salaries are low now doesn't mean they will be low in the future.

Therefore, I will definitely choose college students, but I can't be ugly. I am a face value controller. (covering his face)

If you are looking for a boyfriend, it doesn't matter whether the salary is more than 8000 or 5000. You are looking for a boyfriend, not a change. You are looking for a better person. It's not a question of more money or less. What's the use of being a boyfriend if this kind of person has more money and worse personality, eating, drinking, whoring and gambling all day? Crying all day is enough, although maybe you have money to use and show off in front of others. But no one can help you when you cry behind your back. If a person with less money has a good character, then he is a kind person. If two people get along well and love each other deeply, they will have a good life after marriage. Only those who have a sense of responsibility, conscience and conscience can finally get married. Therefore, you don't have to choose a boyfriend with more money, you have to choose a good character. At the very least, he won thousands of dollars, left most of it to his girlfriend, and left a little change, which was very rare. Men don't leave money, they just don't want to leave money to pick up girls in nightclubs or other places. My personal view is this. If you find a boyfriend who is rich and has a bad personality, he is a very bad person, that is to say, sleeping with a wolf may be murdered by her at any time. A gambler will betray you for gambling, which will only hurt him. This is not good, so it doesn't matter how much money is. The important thing is that you have a good personality and few good men.

This question is very realistic. As an experienced person, as well as my experiences and lessons in most of my life, I would like to talk about my views here for your reference.

Blind date at home, welder 8000 yuan/month; A drawing 5000 yuan/month. How should I choose?

After all, no matter which one you choose, it will be your partner for life. So know more, be familiar with it, be cautious, don't act rashly, and regret it for life.

As for which one to choose? It stands to reason that work and occupation are impeccable, regardless of rank, they should be the same, but in real life, they are more or less different. As the saying goes, "Birds of a feather flock together, and people are divided into groups". There is also the "right match" on the issue of marriage. There must be some truth in these statements. It is a classic summed up by our ancestors for thousands of years, and we should also consider learning from it.

With the development of society, it is becoming more and more unconventional to follow the "old adage". Be sure to combine your family's financial situation, your income and the wealth you have now, and then weigh the pros and cons, which one do you prefer. You can also invite several girlfriends to have dinner with these two people for your reference, listen to your girlfriends' opinions, listen to your parents' opinions, and then make a final decision.

I think, if your family economy is average, not particularly rich, and your income is average, and you can't get other additional financial subsidies and assistance in the future, then choose high-income earners from the perspective of ensuring a comfortable life. In addition, we should also understand the promotion space, possibility and speed of welders and draftsmen. I know that some undergraduates have just joined the work, just spent more than 3000 yuan, and 1 year has increased by 1 10,000 or 2000, and in a few years it will reach tens of thousands. Welders must use the research grade to get a raise. Whether each enterprise can get a salary increase on time and regularly must be clearly understood. Only in this way can you make the right choice!

In short, it is better to be realistic. There are many people who are tired of "face" all their lives, and it is always themselves who suffer, suffer and be wronged! ! !

Comprehensive aspects, grasp the relevant information from different angles, including, of course, one's own personality, personality, dealing with people, etc., rather than simply paying attention to economic income and family status. Then carefully choose your favorite life partner!

I wish you all the best and all the best! ! !