What does it mean to have confidence and achieve success?

Only when a person believes in himself can he feel the joy of life and continuously tap his potential. Confidence will bring us unexpected results. In many cases, we fail because we lack self-confidence. So let’s not let “lack of self-confidence” stand in the way of our success.

You are eloquent, so you can be a lawyer; you can write beautifully, so you can be a calligrapher; you can draw vividly, so you can be a painter... Since you have A sound body and a brain that is good at thinking prove that "I am born to be useful."

Some people will frown all day long because they are not beautiful, some people will complain to God because they are short in stature, and some people will feel "unable to see their parents and fellow villagers" because they have accomplished nothing. In fact, these all show your weakness and incompetence. People who lack self-confidence will never succeed. If you can calm down and look at the things around you optimistically, you will understand that people are not confident because of their beauty, but they are more beautiful because of their confidence. Hold your chest high, face life with a smile, and you will be the most beautiful person in the world. If you can move forward confidently and successfully, you will never feel tired.

Everyone should be familiar with Jin Yong's martial arts novel "The Deer and the Cauldron". If you look at Wei Xiaobao's life, no matter what difficulties he encounters, he is confident that "God will never destroy me" and uses his own wisdom and heroism to conquer the world. Cai Wulu has overcome many difficulties. One of his mantras is: "The cool breeze is blowing, the autumn moon is boundless, and my coquettish mood is like living like a year. Although I am not a beautiful tree facing the wind, cool and suave, I have a broad mind and strong arms."

The attitude of "confidence in life" is commendable, but too much self-confidence is arrogance and arrogance. The well-known Cao Cao and Zhou Yu in "The Romance of the Three Kingdoms" are good examples. Take Zhou Yu as an example. Who can say that he is not a hero of a generation? "I think back to that time, when Xiao Qiao was first married, wearing a feather fan and silk scarf, and he was in his prime." Such a great person, such a confident hero of the generation. But unfortunately, because Zhou Yu was overconfident and narrow-minded, he could not tolerate others being better than him, so he went to the other extreme - conceited. In the end, he vomited blood and died amidst the grief and anger of "Since Yu is born, how can Liang be born?" From this point of view, self-confidence is not just about being able to speak big words. To speak big words, you must also have real ability. Confidence and arrogance cannot be confused.

Perhaps, in our journey of life, there will be thorns and swamps; perhaps, on the road of our life, the scenery we pursue is always full of mountains and rivers, and no bright flowers can be seen; perhaps, as we move forward, We are always faltering and struggling; perhaps, we need to grope in the darkness for a long time to find the light; perhaps, our devout beliefs will be entangled in the dust and mist of the world and cannot fly freely, so why can't we What about the courage of a brave person who firmly and confidently says to himself, "Let's try again! I can do it"? A young man applied for a job in a certain company, but the company did not publish any advertisements for recruitment. Seeing that the general manager was puzzled, the young man explained in poor English that he happened to be passing by, so he came in rashly. The general manager felt it was very novel, so he planned to make an exception and let him give it a try. The results of the interview were unexpected, and the young man performed very poorly. He came to apply for the job without any mental preparation. The general manager thought that he was just making an excuse for himself, so he casually said: "Then try again when you are ready."

< p>A week later, the young man really walked into the door of this company again, but this time he still failed. However, his performance was much better than the first time. The general manager still gave him the same reply: "Try again when you are ready." In this way, this young man stepped into the door of this company six times. Perhaps he was moved by his sincerity, and finally he He was accepted by the company and became a key training target of the company. Therefore, we should not underestimate ourselves, do not care about other people's opinions, give yourself a little confidence, and you will create miracles. No matter what your status is, as long as you have confidence, you will be favored by success.

An orphan went to ask an eminent monk how to make himself happy. The eminent monk pointed to a rough stone and said to him: "You take this humble stone to the market, but no matter who wants to buy this stone, you don't sell it." So the orphan did as the eminent monk said.

On the first day, no one came to visit. The next day, no one asked. On the third day, someone finally came to ask.

By the fourth day, the stone could be sold at a high price, but he followed the monk's advice and did not sell it.

Next he went to the eminent monk and asked him what to do. The eminent monk told him: "You take the stone to the stone tool trading market and sell it. Likewise, no matter how high the price is, don't sell it." ”

On the first and second days, there was still no one interested. On the third day, someone came around to ask about the price. In the following days, the price of the stone was raised far higher than that of the stone tools. price. The orphan is still not for sale.

Later the eminent monk said: "Take the stone to the jewelry market and sell it and see what the price will be..."

As you can imagine based on the previous two situations, This time the price of the stone is already higher than the price of jewelry.

In fact, this is true for people and things in the world. If you believe that you are an inconspicuous stone, then you may always be just an ordinary stone. If you firmly believe that you are a valuable gem, then You are a priceless gem. The final outcome is victory or failure all depends on whether you have confidence in yourself.

Everyone has unique value hidden in his nature. This eminent monk is actually tapping into the orphan's own confidence. Confidence is a powerful force that can create magical results. Confidence is the most precious gem in life. It saves you from disappointment and confusion, and gives you the courage to face the difficult life. By the same token, it would be a very sad thing if you lose your confidence. Your future will be like a barrier in front of you, and you will never see the dawn of the future.

Confidence can be said to be a human instinct, and there is no power in the world that can compare with it. In ancient times, it was Foolish Old Man's perseverance that made it possible to successfully move mountains. Today, only with Liu Xiang's self-confidence and self-motivation, it is possible to embark on the road to brilliant achievements. The reason why they are successful is that they do not underestimate themselves and are full of confidence in themselves. Maybe they will encounter setbacks on the road to success, but they will not be discouraged. If a person has no self-confidence and no courage to try, then he will never have a chance to succeed. Only with confidence can you feel that your own abilities are irreplaceable by anything else, because this power comes from yourself and supports your own ideas.

People are born for a belief, just like the orphan in the story. If you have self-confidence, you have laid a solid foundation for your life. On the contrary, once a person loses confidence, he goes against his own nature. Life has no meaning anymore.

So. Confidence can do wonders for us and is a priceless treasure in our lives.

When we get up early every morning to start a new day, we have to look in the mirror and see ourselves in the mirror, and then rush to our jobs. So, have you ever taken a serious look at yourself in the mirror? When you look in the mirror, will you say to yourself, "A new day has begun again, and I will take this day seriously with an optimistic and confident heart" and then go on the road with a smile. What? There is a virtual version of myself in the mirror, and the real self is cheering for the self in the mirror. When you succeed, you can look in the mirror and say: "You are awesome." When you fail and feel frustrated, you can look in the mirror and say: "It doesn't matter, I will definitely succeed." If you want to be an excellent person, you You must have full confidence and believe that you are the best, and the rainbow in your life will be more dazzling. There are many examples of success in our lives due to self-confidence.

In recent years, Manager Wu’s company has been operating poorly and lifelessly, and eventually went bankrupt due to losses of hundreds of millions of yuan. As a result, he became a pauper and had to beg and wander around in the streets. Faced with such a cruel reality, Manager Wu was extremely depressed and even wanted to die to relieve all his pain and troubles.

One day, he was walking down the street in despair. A priest saw him and asked him the reason. With tears streaming down his face, he told the priest his tragic experience and said sincerely: "Pastor. , can you help me? What should I do to make a comeback? Please point me out a way out."

The pastor looked at the depressed Manager Wu and felt very uncomfortable in his heart. Love arises spontaneously. The pastor sympathized with his situation and remained silent for a long time before saying to him: "Although I can't help you with anything, I know there is someone who can help you..."

"Who? Who is he? He is here Where?" Manager Wu asked excitedly and excitedly.

“Follow me!” The pastor led him to a large mirror, then pointed at the mirror and said, “That’s him. You should get to know this person well now!”

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He looked at himself in the mirror, as lost as a beggar. His decadent expression made it impossible to see hope, and his helpless eyes were dim. He involuntarily covered his face. At this time, he He walked away quietly as if he understood something.

A few years later, he met the pastor again. He was very different from the last time. His steps were brisk and powerful, and his eyes were full of confidence and determination. He said to the pastor: "Thank you, you taught me. I realized that I could only find a way out by relying on myself and believing in myself. From then on, I first found a job, and then I used the money I saved to open a company. Now my career is even better than it was initially. "The pastor nodded happily after hearing this, because he used a mirror to inspire self-confidence. Saved a man who was about to go into the abyss.

Confidence is such a wonderful thing. When a person loses his self-confidence, it is equivalent to giving himself a death sentence and banishing himself to a desolate situation. Confidence is the spiritual pillar of people's work and life. Belief in yourself is the driving force behind all great scientific discoveries. Belief in yourself is a basic and necessary success factor for those who have succeeded. Really believing in yourself will give you the ability to succeed. However, life will inevitably encounter fear, doubt and hesitation, and the most powerful way to deal with these things is self-confidence. Confidence brings the reshaping of life, but fear brings the end of life; if you have doubts, you will definitely fail, and if you believe in victory, you will succeed; confidence means advancement and determination, and hesitation means retreat and wavering.

Only when a person believes in himself can he inspire boundless courage and feel the joy of life. Only in this way can you maximize your own potential. However, faith does not matter "encountering" or "seeking", because it is in your body. All you have to do is rely on yourself, constantly discover it, and make good use of it.

Failed people often adopt the attitude of giving it a try. If they have this kind of disapproval or doubt about their abilities, they will inevitably give various reasons to support their lack of confidence. These doubts, lack of confidence, and subconscious tendencies to fail will become the main reasons for your failure.

Rely on yourself, believe in yourself, and take a closer look at yourself in the mirror. People who have no confidence, muddle through, or rely on others may be able to achieve their goals, but what they gain at best is fleeting surprises and fluke joy. Those who are weak, hesitant, and look to others when encountering difficulties and problems will never feel the joy of victory. As Shakespeare said: "They cannot understand and will never understand the vitality and enthusiasm that radiates from the self-reliant man."