What should I do if my children don’t want to suffer from low academic qualifications, but they don’t want to study?

As parents, we are afraid that our children will one day say, I don’t want to study anymore. When children say this, parents often panic, hate their children, and are disappointed and angry. If it is a kindergarten child, I believe parents have many methods, but if it is an adolescent child, it will be much more difficult. A child of fourteen or fifteen years old may be taller than his parents. Even if the parents want to force their children, they are unable to do so. So many parents adopted a strategy of persuasion with sincerity: If you don’t go to school, you can only move bricks. You can’t even marry a wife. I’m exhausted and I just ask you to go to school well and get into a good university in the future. But you You are so unsatisfactory, and you came here specifically to make me angry.

Every word from parents is a lesson learned from decades of life. Although every word is a true quote, I hope that children will avoid detours, but children will never be able to understand their parents without personal experience. The sincere words. One parent gave a textbook answer. His 14-year-old son was tired of studying and was unwilling to go to school. Instead of beating or scolding the child, he reflected that he had been busy with work and neglected to accompany his child over the years, so that he could not get into the child's heart at all. After learning from the pain, he decided to resign and take his children to see the world. He believes that instead of forcing children to continue reading, it is better to let them take advantage of this time to think about the value of life during the journey.

Failing to study hard and get admitted to a good university is something that most people will regret throughout their lives. Some netizens voted for the top ten regrets in life, which listed some of the most common things that people easily regret. What is shocking is that "I failed to cherish my youth and get admitted to a good university, so I have done nothing in my life" actually received more than 8 million votes and was elected first place, defeating "Choose the wrong marriage partner", "Enter the wrong career" and "Marriage with children who want to raise them" Not waiting” and so on.

Many people have been ups and downs for half their lives, suffering from the hardships of life. When they look back on the first half of their lives, what step did they make that went wrong? Did you get to this situation? Many people have come to the conclusion that what they regret most is not studying hard when they were young and getting into a good university. It is often said that an ordinary person has three opportunities to change his destiny in his life. The first is reincarnation, the second is further education, and the third is marriage. Reincarnation depends on luck, not everyone can be born into a happy family; marriage depends on fate, and there is always so much helplessness; and only entering a higher education can truly change one's own destiny by one's own ability.

When you graduate, many large companies hold job fairs at prestigious schools, and you are faced with many opportunities before you even leave school. This does not mean that those without academic qualifications will definitely have no future. A person who has graduated from junior high school but works hard can still make a career and reach a certain height after working hard in the society for several years. But with a high degree of education, you can avoid many detours. It can also give you a bigger picture, a better platform, and a farther horizon. Let you make a group of equally outstanding friends and have more high-quality connections. When the people around you are excellent, there is a high probability that you won’t be able to find out.

Reading well will help you face your destiny better. Therefore, if we read more, we may not be able to change our destiny, but we can live a better life and face our own destiny better.

Summary: For me, I definitely hope that my children will go to school and receive more years of education as much as possible. A child's life has just begun, and the future is still full of infinite possibilities. He should stand on a higher platform and have a more splendid life. You should not limit your life to a small stage.