How to keep yourself alive?

Even if every day is busy, as long as you can keep your true colors and don't go against your wishes,

your heart is down-to-earth, this day is happy and life is real.

Valtin Gregorian, former president of Brown University and now president of Carnegie Foundation, had a very unhappy childhood. When he was 6 years old, his mother died of illness. It was his grandmother who brought him up in the mountains of Iran.

Gregorian's grandmother is also an unfortunate woman. She lost all her children because of war and disease. Although fate is very unfair to her, she has not lost confidence in life.

In order to get Gregorian out of the shadow of losing his loved ones and grow up healthily and happily, his grandmother often taught him, "Son, there are two things that must be remembered. The first is fate, which is beyond your control; The second is your character, which is under your control. You can lose your beauty, your health and your wealth, but you must never lose your character, because it is in your own hands. " Grandmother's words played a key role in Gregorian's growth.

Hu Xueyan is undoubtedly an example for modern people in this respect. He doesn't care about winning or losing, success or failure, worldly vision, how to be happy and live his true self. This is the man with indomitable spirit.

Hu Xueyan said heroically after the failure: "I got up empty-handed, and I still have a pair of empty-handed, and I don't lose anything! Not only do you not lose, but eating, using and being rich are all profitable. As long as I don't die, I will turn it over empty-handed. " Because Hu Xueyan has always maintained this kind of character and verve, he can make a quick comeback even though he has experienced ups and downs in business.

People should have their own personality and paint colorful sky with their own brushes. Even if there are several failures, it is their true self after all. If a person does not have his own character, it is like a person without vigor. A person who has lost himself is actually very sad.

There is a girl who comes from an ordinary family, has an ordinary job and married an ordinary husband. In short, she is very ordinary.

One day, the newspaper wanted a special actor to play the queen. A good friend of hers sent her a photo to apply for the job. Unexpectedly, she was accepted.

From then on, she began her "queen career". Now, this woman can play the "queen" very skillfully, smiling and acting like a "queen". Unfortunately, she can't find her usual self. Every morning, she must remind herself "who am I" to prevent bossing others around; When you are with your family, you must force yourself to tell yourself "who am I" to prevent inexplicable emotions.

when she complains to others, she often says that it is too difficult to reply to normal. When she said this, she still looked like a "queen". Her words and deeds, tone of voice and temperament are very much like the "queen", but nothing like herself.

It's even more exaggerated: A 46-year-old woman in Cambridgeshire, England, has undergone 26 plastic surgery in the past 2 years, which cost more than 18, pounds. At present, all parts of her body except her feet have undergone plastic surgery, and her appearance and figure are very similar to "Barbie doll".

isn't it sad to be such a man? Why don't you do what you want and be yourself?

A website conducted a survey, and among the four Tang Priests, Zhu Bajie was the most popular among female netizens, because Zhu Bajie lived truly.

No matter in the four-person Buddhist scriptures or in heaven, only Pig Bajie truly showed himself. He does not shy away from his dark side: gluttony, lust, fear of death and laziness in doing things.

But compared with the pedantic Tang Priest, the perfect the Monkey King and the honest Sand Monk, only Pig Bajie really releases himself, which makes people feel authentic, not to mention that he has many advantages: he can do rough work, hard work and dirty work; Broad-minded, never care about the cynicism of Monkey Brother; Happy and philosophical, with affinity ...

Although Pig's image is not good, he is the happiest and most popular. Therefore, we might as well live like Pig Bajie: hungry to eat, thirsty to drink, sleepy to sleep, always listen to your heart and keep your character; I don't deliberately pursue anything, as long as I can do what I like every day, let nature take its course and be calm; You can find a quiet beach to fish leisurely alone; You can also call friends and friends to drive to the suburbs to travel and play; You can also stay at home and watch movies all day; You can do nothing, find a place to stay for a day ... Or, even if you are busy every day, as long as you can keep your true colors and don't go against your wishes, your heart is down-to-earth, this day is happy and life is real.