Is it so difficult to find someone to marry?

Six years ago, I went through a lot of hardships to get rid of this unfeeling marriage. Now that we are married, the concept of rural people is that they are afraid that divorced people will lose money and lose money. He kept the salary he earned. If he wants a divorce, I need to go out and make money.

A year before my divorce, I started my old job as a tailor again. Having no money, I sold my gold jewelry, bought some old equipment and hired some workers. As a woman, without academic qualifications and professional knowledge, I want to go out and see the outside world. I think I should learn something. I get up at six o'clock in the morning, get off work at eleven o'clock in the evening and go home to practice computer typing for an hour. I want to take care of the workers and work together every day. After half a year, I was finally exhausted. It is no exaggeration to say that I have no strength to walk. I can only hear my own voice. I went to the hospital for three days without dropping amino acids. I said to the doctor, "Nothing, as long as I can't die." Soon after, I was admitted to the hospital with a cough and pneumonia, but I said to myself, "I must learn to be strong."

In this way, after a year, I went to court to sue for divorce. On the day of the court session, my mother and I went. There were a dozen or twenty people in his family. I gave up everything before I left.

After the divorce, I found a job of computer invoicing in the urban area and rented a garage with simple facilities. I can't see the sunshine, but my heart is full of sunshine, and I am no longer shrouded in shadows. In this way, I took care of all the equipment and came to this city. I started my new life.

As soon as the marriage call comes out, the phone is like a hotline, meeting men from different places. At that time, I was so proud that I dismissed it at first sight. Without the feeling of heartbeat, I will not give others a second chance to see me. This is the unique me. A year has passed, and I feel how hopeless this hope is. Tidy up my thoughts and think that maybe fate is hard to meet. This year, disasters happened again and again, and pyramid schemes made me almost penniless.

I don't think I can live like this. With a salary of 850 a month, how can I support myself in the future? Resignation came to the talent market, but all the people recruited above were talents. Hehe, I'm not a fool, but I'm not a talent. Some of them have driver's licenses written on them. On second thought, do you have a driver's license to find a job? Fortunately, it was such an idea that really helped me in my future work and proved that my choice was right. I got my driver's license at the end of 2005.

My story is still a bit dramatic. I initially applied for a job as a salesman in a branch office. At home, what is the difference between the salary of 1000 and the original job? Li Biao refused. The next day, I received a phone call from the company director and said, "Miss, how about you come to our company to do sales?" Come and follow the salesman out before making a decision. "Oh, I think I have nothing to do at home. Have fun by yourself Go and have a look. On the same day, I followed the Cantonese sent by that company to the unit. As soon as he spoke, the doorman kept him out. As soon as I came out, I stood up and smiled and let us meet the boss. Yo, it still takes up the light of the local people. My luck must have come, right? In the afternoon, I ran back to the company and said to the supervisor, "I'll do it." "But I'm still a little reluctant, because I hate sales. In order to make a living, we have to bite the bullet and do it. Salary, basic salary 1000 plus commission, three-month probation period, and finally 300 meals. As a woman, I want to be a little feminine. I wear high heels every day to go out to run for clients, and it hurts when I get home. A month later, I called the boss of Guangdong head office, hee hee. . . . We haven't met. I said, "Boss, look at my performance now. Can I pass the probation period? "Or I'll leave." The boss quickly said, "Pass, pass." Alas! Think about it, man, the company made an exception for the 300 yuan meal supplement. Three months have passed, and I wonder if something is missing. . . . I wrote two express letters to my boss, asking for a car. The reason is: first of all, I have a driver's license, and I don't want you to pay extra money. Speed can produce benefits. Walking with your feet will always lag behind the same industry, let alone open up markets here. Without a car and inadequate after-sales service, customers will not choose our products. With a car, I will also take care of after-sales service. I didn't expect the boss to accept my suggestion. In the second half of the year, I drove to dozens of offices across the country, and I was the second one here.

I thought I could get married with someone I love after divorce, but everything is not what I want. Considering his good income, he became a house slave in order to have a place to live in the future. Only 40,000 yuan, I took a fancy to a small apartment transformed from an office building,190,000. The kitchen and bedroom are integrated. My mother gave me 70 thousand and a bank loan of 80 thousand. 150,000 foreign debt is an astronomical figure for me. My loan term is fifteen years. I'm afraid that one day I can't pay it back. Others are rich people buying houses, and I-I saved them. Yes, I can wear old clothes given by others and eat. I can't eat meat for ten or eight days. When my son comes, I'll buy him something delicious. He is very sensible and never asks me to buy anything. Every time cook the meat, he always says, "Mom, you eat, too.". A nine-year-old son is so sensible. Whenever this time, I want to cry, and there is at least one person who loves me. This kind of life is still happy. But everything is still unsatisfactory. Due to the financial crisis, the branch asked for a contract, and I lost my job.

In the past three years, many people have given me matchmaking. As long as I hear that I am in sales, that person always shakes his head. What the hell is going on? Is it not serious that all salespeople are women? I have always believed that a straight foot is not afraid of a crooked shadow. In retrospect, a client invited me to tea to discuss business. Maybe this is an excuse. I tried to touch my thigh as soon as I got on the bus, so I dodged. I made a sign to stop the car, and he quickly said, "What's the matter, what's the matter, where are you going?" I said rudely, "Where do I get on the bus and where do you take me?" When I got off the bus, I gave him a sentence: "There are many customers like you, and I still live well without knowing you." This is me. People live to breathe.

Last year, I also applied for a sales position in a top 500 company. Although I am reluctant, I still want to live. The bank loan has not been repaid, so I left some for business investment. The company has been training for two months, and the leader who has been guiding me to Kunming called the day before departure: "So-and-so, you go to Xuzhou with the manager, where there is a small tender. If you look good, please stay there. " As a result, the manager left me alone in Xuzhou the next day, and I rented a house in a strange city with my suitcase. Hehe, my story is really dramatic. The word Xuzhou flashed through my mind. Didn't a little girl from Xuzhou cheat me of 5000 yuan when she was in Zhangjiagang in 2005? I used my rest day to find his home. After many twists and turns, his parents paid off the money three times. It's really been a long time. Good people still get what they deserve and don't work. I don't think I will ever set foot on this land, let alone be cheated. During my stay in Xuzhou, I will go to several counties every day and return to Xuzhou at night. Every morning, when I put my foot into my shoe, I feel a sharp pain. No one can understand the hardships. After three months, I fell ill again, and my back ached when I went up the stairs. The doctor said that my central lumbar intervertebral disc is protruding, so I can't go out in high heels from morning till night, so I can only go home and stay in bed. Should I give up my job like this? I am asking myself. In the week when I decided to resign, I didn't sleep a wink every night and was under pressure from many sides. Finally, I decided to give up, because I needed financial resources and I still had a loan. This year, I learned that my company won the bid for that company. This is not a small list. The gift I gave out was not for nothing. Oh, I'm glad to have a sweat and finally be worthy of the company.

I slept at home for a whole month in July. I can't sleep anymore. I have to work. I'm lucky. I went to the talent market to look after my job. Management of recruitment warehouse in Shanghai Volkswagen 4 S shop. When I applied for the job, the supervisor happened to be out. It was raining outside Mao Mao, so I rode an electric car to the city. I thought I didn't go to the information company in advance to see if there was a job, so I blew it with the boss of an information company for a long time. When I left, the boss said to call me if there was any work. Just five minutes after I got home, my boss called me and said that a hotel owner was looking for a waiter. I said, "If you don't come, the hotel will recruit little girls. How can you possibly want someone at my aunt's level?" The boss said, "If you don't want it, you won't charge. People don't think you are old. " . All right, think about it. Anyway, it's okay. I'm leaving. When I went to the store, I saw a fashionable woman waiting for me there When I saw her, I asked, "How old are you? What kind of education do you have? Do you speak English?" 36, junior high school, no ",I answered one by one. When she called outside, she only heard: "There is a woman here, 36 years old, with a junior high school education. She can't speak English, but her temperament is OK. " .。 . 。" Then she came in and said, let's try. The probation period is three days. I said, "Oh, ok, I'll go now." Then she took me away. Later I learned that it was the outsourcing department of a five-star hotel, a bar. The guests we face are all foreigners. For me, it is a new industry and undoubtedly a challenge. ABG returned almost all the wine to the teacher. To me, it's an amateur. Well, bite the bullet and do it. At my age, I can only adapt myself to my work, not my work. The boss, a little girl and a college student, explained, "You will do well here and won't treat you badly. Learn the Chinese name of wine first, remember the price, then learn the English name, and then communicate with foreigners at ordinary times. " "Oh," I answered like a bewildered child. Three days passed, and the boss said, "You can stay." I was really happy that day. Because it is a great regret that I didn't finish my studies, maybe such an opportunity can make me fill such a defect in my heart. Next, the most I said to my guests was: "I'm sorry, I want to talk to you, but I just work here and can't speak English." The boss said: You must try to talk to foreigners every day, so no matter what I study, I will talk to foreigners. Those days, I lived a full life. Go to work at night and wake up to learn English during the day. In the first month, I got a salary of 3,000 yuan. With my eagerness to learn and enthusiasm, my boss and guests like me very much, and my boss left everything in the shop in my charge. There, I learned to play billiards from a man who can't hold a club. For more than half a year, my boss's English teacher was defeated by me. On my birthday, the wives of three English guests bought me birthday presents. I'm so touched, hee hee. . . They are from China.

In March this year, I finally lived in my own house, and I was very happy. At the end of this month, all the owners of that building will sell their houses. I also sold the house, thinking about the good salary. I have the ability to change to a bigger house. My son is older. He's here. I have to make room for him. I like second-hand houses with two bedrooms and one living room. My brother promised to lend me120 thousand plus the money for selling the house, and the money should be no problem. I paid a deposit of 15 thousand, and then the TV news broadcast some macro-control every day, and the house price was only. My parents and brothers called me and said they would throw away the deposit. Don't buy it in the future. I said yes. But beautiful things surround me closely. I learned from other agencies that someone just wanted to buy this type of house I ordered, and after seeing the house, they signed a contract with me. Haha, I made another 20 thousand.

The sale of the house lasted for more than two months. Later, I learned that the contract between our bar and hotel expired at the end of May, and the hotel could not renew it for other purposes. I'm unemployed again, so I have to run aground when I change rooms.

I rented another house. The only difference is that I have lived for five years and can't see the garage with the sun. Living outside the window this morning was sunny, hahaha, put the building aside. But I'm satisfied. It's not dark anymore. In six years, I've moved home n times by myself, and I'm really afraid of moving. When can I stop worrying about moving? . . . . .

How much I want to love someone. Although the time is not long, it will last for a lifetime, but I don't know where to find him. I long for a harmonious and comfortable life. Two people are attracted to each other, depend on each other and support each other. Understanding, trust and tolerance between two people. Am I so demanding? I am a woman who likes romance and pursues perfection, if you think I miss home.