Gao, 36 years old, married a female player of 17 years old, but why did she get divorced later?

Tsinghua's gifted scholar Gao's love life is extremely rich, which may be the similarity of all gifted scholars at home and abroad: romantic, romantic and affectionate.

Gao Mingli's marriage has two stages, both of which are so legendary.

His first wife was Shen Huan and high flyers, who graduated from university of international business and economics Law Department. Gao later recalled his first marriage and said that it was love at first sight. One day, Gao Zheng was driving around the gate of university of international business and economics. Suddenly he saw it, and he was shocked. The next day, Gao was introduced by a friend and pursued her enthusiastically. Only three days later, they were conquered by Gao, so they got married.

This year is 1999, 30 years old.

However, this relationship came and went quickly, and they divorced three years later.

Gao didn't talk about the reasons for divorce, but judging from the painful performance after Gao's divorce, the possibility of divorce is. After all, as a lawyer, her work pressure is also great, so it is difficult to take care of her family life, and Gao can't give her more help in this respect.

Gao's second wife is better known as Xi You Mi, which is obviously not her real name. Before she met Gao, her name was, and after she met Gao, she changed her name to. Gao split the word "charm" in his name into "dinner", so he got this unique nickname.

Gao He met in a beauty contest in Shenzhen. At that time, Xi Mi You was only 17 years old and was a contestant. The judges of the contest are 36 years old, with a difference of 19 years old.

At night, when rice appeared, it attracted high attention. 17 is in the flower season, and her appearance is quite beautiful. Every part of her meets high aesthetic standards. Gao then launched an indiscriminate love offensive, and the young fell into his gentleness.

The love of high school can be seen from one thing. At a party with friends, Gao revealed the scars on his hands, which he burned with cigarette butts. Every scar represents his infatuation with cordate telosma.

Although Xi Nianhe rice's family is good, but only with secondary school education, it is obviously impossible to be accepted by a Kochi family like Gao. In order to marry, it took a lot of thought. He sent Xi Mi You to study in the United States, packaged her as a student studying in the United States, and successfully passed the family verification.

When Gao He lived together in the United States, she got pregnant unexpectedly and they got married secretly in the United States. After that, 19-year-old Xi Mi gave birth to a daughter.

After marriage, Gao He lived a sweet and happy life, and Gao also showed his love to Mi You on various occasions. Just when people thought it was an everlasting love, 20 13, Gao suddenly announced his divorce.

This divorce should be caused by high, because she is a traditional woman in her bones, and she believes in the kind of love and family that she will be alone all her life. Moreover, after marriage, the evening meal is extremely dependent on high care. Gao also said that everything about late rice was shaped by him.

I don't know what is the specific reason for Gao and his divorce. Maybe he has lost his enthusiasm for Xi Mi You. Ordinary people's marriage still has to stand the test of seven years' itch, and it is even more difficult for a romantic like Gao to spend his life with a woman. Therefore, just as the original feelings came quickly, his two feelings also went quickly, just like the sea water at high tide, rising and falling.

Gao He's divorce is a great blow to me. It is conceivable how such a woman who has no ability to live independently came out of the great hurt of her feelings. However, it is gratifying that Xi Mi You used her talent in the fashion field to enter the design industry and achieved great success. As early as a few years ago, Xi Mi You (maybe it's time to call her Xu Canjin) was already a powerful woman worth over 100 million yuan.

Today, she lives happily with her beautiful and well-behaved daughter, while Gao, who is in her fifties, is still homeless. Everything in the world is always a blessing in disguise. If she still lives with Gao today, she may still be the useless vase in Gao's heart.

Outsiders have no right to judge others' private affairs!

Sitting still, often thinking is over. Don't say people!

You can't confuse yourself because the network environment is relaxed and the media also guides the spread of topics!

Song Xiao's family studies are profound, well-read and knowledgeable, and he has dabbled in them from ancient times to the present. If it is a coincidence, it can become a generation.

It's just that he is also very playful and accidentally made a secular cut, so he walked a long way in the dense fireworks.

Music, beauty, poetry, these beautiful things in the world, have always followed him.

However, I think he is still immortal, with understanding beyond this world and unrestrained freedom. He really belongs to a distant existence.

Therefore, we can easily understand his marriage. Just like the Seven Fairies and Yong Dong, just like the White Snake and Xu Xian, there always seems to be a jagged gap between the world and the celestial world, and Song belongs to the celestial world.

A man with a strong mind is more willing to wander freely in his own world, communicate with the sages of the past, talk with the wise men of the future, have a glass of wine with Li Bai and write a new song for The Story of Diesim.

Reality really has little to do with him. Not often, but often.

And to dinner, there is nothing wrong with the world and it is worth it. There is not much difference between the happiness of eating a French meal and the happiness of eating a spicy meal. The only difference is what others think.

"The world is moving, only the white porcelain plum soup in midsummer, broken ice hitting the wall clanging", when the water is moist, you should also have a drink and cherish each other.

In the years, respect each other as guests. In the Jianghu, everyone is fine. This is also the best explanation for love. And marriage is an accessory of love.

Gao is the high flyers of Tsinghua. He is versatile and knowledgeable. He is really a student of Wan Li Road in thousands of books. His wife, age 17, is only a secondary school student, and there is nothing wrong with her physical age. However, the huge gap in their knowledge will lead to a serious disagreement between the three views, and it is difficult to live together for a long time, so she divorced.

In the face of love, there is no age difference. Today, the difference between the two couples is 19 years old. They are Gao and his ex-wife (real name).

Although the name "Journey to the West" is strange, it is actually an ordinary girl, and her marriage with Gao has made her always known as "Linda Gao".

Whether it is the media or friends around us, the cognition of late rice is always based on the word "Gao Songxiao".

Next, let's talk about how to tear off the label of "high ex-wife".

Xi Mi You, born in 1988, has been active since childhood and is not interested in learning. Other students may go home and write papers, while she is doing what she wants to do, such as reading magazines and listening to pop music.

Xi Mi You, a maverick, suddenly went to a talent show when her classmates were preparing for the college entrance examination. Although her performance was mediocre, she attracted the attention of the judges.

In Gao's view, this girl is very special, so backstage, he took the initiative to ask for the contact information and kept in touch.

In the face of Gao's crazy pursuit, westward journey fans soon "fell". At this time, the Journey to the West was only about 17 years old, but Gao's family could not accept it.

Therefore, in order to improve the level of all aspects, Gao decided to take it to the United States for further study. At this time, both parents can probably understand Gao's sincerity, although they are 19 years old.

In 2007, Gao, who returned from studying abroad, finally tied the knot.

Why she is willing to marry Gao may be related to her life experience. Since the age of 10, Xi Mi You has been studying alone in Beijing, lacking some kind of care for a long time, so Xi Mi You feels "warm" in the face of his meticulous uncle.

At the end of the year, Xiyoumi gave birth to a baby daughter, but Xiyoumi is not high-profile at all, and usually lives in seclusion. Until many years later, even teachers and classmates did not know that grapefruit rice was Gao's wife's business.

After marriage, Gao also loves to eat supper, and often answers the phone when chatting with friends. The first sentence is always "wife, I love you".

As for why Gao Hedu 19 is still so in love?

In addition to their own love, there is another point that their ideas and values are similar. Moreover, Gao has publicly stated that many ideas are instilled by Gao because of his youth, which is equivalent to the "cultivation" model.

Gao Dui instilled and reformed his world outlook to conform to his own values, but how could things be as satisfactory as Gao imagined?

In the seventh year after their marriage, the two made a public divorce statement. Judging from the statement, it should be a peaceful divorce.

She married Gao with the concept of "only loving one person in her life", but she was not happy after her marriage. Did Gao "transform" this wife into what he thought, so there was a contradiction?

As Xi Mi You said, divorce directly disintegrated Xi Mi You's world, not only in material life, but also in her love concept of "loving only one person all her life".

Gao has a rich inner life. He once recalled that when we were young, our family had a quiet breakfast and hardly talked. Everyone reads books and newspapers while eating breakfast. After marriage, when he is at home, he will stay in the study for an afternoon, play guitar for several hours, watch many movies and enjoy his own time and space. At this time, he doesn't need anyone, including his wife.

Gao has been able to switch freely between secular noise and quiet meditation, and his wife is very young, which is the age when a cup of milk tea should be shared with her lover sweetly. Her world needs a lot of company to fill, so they are not in the same rhythm in self-control.

Gao has a strong sense of self and is emotionally selfish. He thinks that marriage can't expect others to give you happiness. Other people fill your world. He doesn't value ordinary marriage with fireworks. When he feels unhappy, he will leave firmly. Great changes have taken place since his wife divorced. She tempered her spiritual character through crying and grievances, learned to love herself more, and created a personalized fashion brand.

Life is time, experience, experience and choice. Their combination and separation make them better themselves, and those inhuman twists and turns are like constantly diluted tea.

There are two reasons why men and women break up and divorce:

1. I have got what I want;

2. Never get what you want.

It is not easy to guess other people's private lives. I believe that the combination of two people is because of love and had a happy married life. Choosing separation is also a rational choice. The divorce of the two people, the aftermath is good, there is no dog blood, no mutual tearing, and they all have a new life. That's great.

Divorce is actually normal. Most people, but not these three people, have the impulse to divorce. This is very human. Whether rich or talented, including powerful people, are doing it.

Although this is contrary to China's values.

But this should be human nature.

On the other hand, this is the essence of marriage. Most people think that marriage is mutual love. However, marriage is often peaceful. We should regard peace as the happiness of marriage, not a vigorous marriage as the best embodiment.

There is a particularly interesting sentence. Marriage needs each other. Use each other. I want your money. You want my beauty. And so on.

This should be a marriage that is sacred to love.

I think this is the difference between passion and love.

Passion comes from obvious things, her beauty, her voice, her skin, her hair, her figure, her charming smile; Passion stems from his handsomeness, his erudition, his position, his power, his wealth …

Because of these, you can suddenly have an obsession with ta, and want to own or possess it quickly to make yourself happier.

Love comes more from things that can't be discovered fiercely, such as ta's kindness, sureness, sincerity and singleness ... more is quality, which can only be discovered after getting along.

The collision between Miss Gao and the female player is more like passion. Mr. Gao was born in a noble family, well-read, bold and unrestrained, and was a celebrity with full personality. We don't know much about this female player, but we know that she is young, beautiful and energetic.

They are attracted by each other's fame or beauty.

But real life is full of all kinds of complicated things. When two people deal with problems in daily life, they will discover each other's characteristics bit by bit. Do they match?

It is said that complementary people are good together. I don't think so. Similar people will last long together. * * * There are many topics and similar views, which is very practical even if we don't talk together.

It begins with passion, grinds on daily life, and ends with reason.