I have liked a girl for a long time.

It's such a short time. I suggest you ask her out directly and tell her my name XXX in person. I have liked you for a long time (or I have observed you for a long time and found that I have fallen in love with you deeply). What should I do? The following is a reference:

I am disgusted to see that some boys want to chase the girl they like, but they are afraid to chase her, and they want others to chase her backwards.

From a girl's point of view, I know the girl's psychology better. Most girls don't take the initiative to pursue the boy they like, except that they really like it too much or that kind of brave girl with personality. So, if you like a girl very much and think that she is a little interested in you, then take the initiative, don't engage in a tug-of-war with her, and you will feel uncomfortable. Maybe the person you like will also suffer.

When a girl is being chased, her psychology is very complicated. She may be very happy, but she is a little scared. She has ambivalence about the boy who broke into her quiet life. She didn't mean to. Don't think she's testing you, but she's actually fighting herself. She's afraid of getting hurt.

don't be afraid that your initiative will bring her disgust. If you don't take the initiative, she won't take the initiative, and it will gradually fade away. It's normal if your initial confession is rejected by her. Don't be discouraged, who knows what this girl is thinking?

Maybe if you confess twice, she will be moved by you. A good girl with a kind heart is easily moved.

If you suffer a setback, leave immediately, never talk to the girl again, protect yourself tightly and lick the wound silently. While you are in pain, I don't know that the child may be regretful and regretful! Maybe she will secretly cry and regret rejecting you, and then she will be very sad to see your indifferent eyes, but she won't tell you, and she will never ask you to come back and chase her. Your excessive self-esteem may hurt a girl's sensitive heart.

she will think that you don't really like him, otherwise, how could you just give her up?

Some people say that it is really difficult for boys and it is not easy to chase girls. But my feeling is that this phenomenon is inseparable from the social role orientation of men and women. From the physiological and social point of view, women are always passive. If, on the other hand, men are ashamed and women are brave, the world will be out of order! Women's shyness is always beautiful and touching ~ I always hear that a brave man overcame many difficulties and finally won the heart of a beautiful woman. There are few examples to the contrary.

Some boys are afraid that others will tell them what they are, and they will get a bad reputation. However, I think that boys pursue the girl they like and continue to be kind to this girl after some setbacks, which shows that people really like it and are sincere. If it doesn't succeed, it's no pity. It's nothing. Who makes people like it? I hate that others follow me blindly, and I hate that boys who have no idea and care too much about what others think of them. They deserve that they can't find a girlfriend.

Be brave if you are a man. Girls are emotional and easily immersed in love. Although you have worked hard, once your heart touches her, you will get more and more love. Such examples are everywhere around us. Girls are very gentle and considerate to their boyfriends. What is the hard work at the beginning in exchange for this sweetness? And most good girls are devoted and single-minded.

Therefore, it is suggested that some boys be brave and pursue the girl they like, and don't be so timid. First, it makes people feel that you are unmanly, and second, it makes you feel uncomfortable. However, the most important thing is that you will get nothing in the end. Happiness is always earned by yourself, don't expect others to give it to you!

By the way, I think it's good to take the initiative, because your goal is what you really like. Girls are often passive, and they can only choose to accept and reject, so I'd rather take the initiative and love what I love without regrets!

-Life is beautiful. Enjoy it and learn to find it!

first, what kind of first impression should I leave on MM (time: when I first came into contact with MM)? I think the most important thing is to let MM see your self-motivated.

A man's greatest charm lies in his successful career. Young people can't be "successful" if they don't work long hours. At this time, you should make MM feel that you are a self-motivated person.

Other things can be nonsense, but this question can't be vague. You must tell MM that you are full of confidence in the future, that you are not satisfied with the status quo, and that you have made a long-term plan. In short, your future is not a dream. Be confident and responsible

Don't be like a child. Girls are lazy and want to find someone to lean on. You should show your confidence and responsibility.

a wrong choice is better than no choice at all. Don't be too serious, but don't be too casual

Be serious where it is, and ridicule when it is time.

Girls like men who are a little cynical, so don't seem to care about everything, it's too rigid. Look a little mature

A calm and leisurely man has fatal attraction to MM..

second, how to make further contact with MM (time: the stage of starting chasing) The most important thing at this stage is not to worry, not to make things so clear that people can see at a glance that you are chasing others.

Think about it. Most people don't like you at first sight, but they don't hate you at first sight. They are all children of ordinary people (unless you look like Chow Yun Fat Andy Lau or Kevin costner). Good feelings need to be realized with increasing understanding, so the key to the problem is the opportunity for further development you want.

put yourself in the girl's shoes: girls must be under psychological pressure if you rush in so directly to have sex with someone. If I find that I don't like you after a while, won't it be a trick? So if you come out with a determined attitude from the beginning, you will basically be bored back immediately. To start with a low profile

First of all, we should position the relationship as a "friend", which is originally a "common friend". You want to be a "good friend". Those with taste can also ask the other person to be a "confidante" or something. In short, never say "chasing you".

think about it, if you don't mention "chasing" at all, then girls will have less chance to "refuse" you-how can you refuse if you don't chase her? !

This will relieve the psychological pressure of girls and enable you to have a smooth relationship. Don't fantasize about agreeing to marry you after three days of knowing each other. You should fully communicate and understand that feelings don't come out of thin air. Don't be too impatient in the process of communication

Be relaxed and don't pester others all day. Anyone who does this to you will get tired of it. A good friend of mine told me that the key to chasing girls is eight words-"hot and cold, playing hard to get" (this is the crystallization of my classmates' hard work for many years).

naturally, you don't think you are good if you pester others all day. If you stay cold for a day or two, girls will remember the benefits of your presence.

also, don't show the ambition of "don't marry unless you want". It's not good to be too fall in price. Sometimes you can play tricks. Create opportunities appropriately

As I said before, don't make things become "you are chasing others" immediately, and you need to get a chance to get close to girls. At this time, it depends on your creativity.

You can collect information and try to turn waiting for a rabbit into an encounter. You can also pretend to be casual and find out the best reason to invite someone to do something with you.

In short, this is the most technical place. If it's really no good, you can ask your predecessors for advice. Avoid anything: it is impolite to give gifts to others casually

Some people are eager to chase girls and like to buy things for others often, but they don't know that chasing girls is the most taboo.

As the saying goes, "You get nothing for nothing". You are putting pressure on others by giving them something like this. People will feel indebted to you, so they will try to pay you back. If they can't, they will try to keep away from you, so as not to always owe you a favor.

If you want to show your sincerity, you might as well invite girls to spend money together, such as eating in a good restaurant or playing in an expensive place. Girls can naturally see that you spend a lot of money, but after all, the money is spent by two people instead of taking it home.

third, what is a "girlfriend"? "Girlfriend" is a fact, not a promise.

You started to associate with a girl, from "ordinary friend" to "good friend" and then to "very, very good friend who talks about everything". One sunny afternoon, you "accidentally" held her hand. "The willow shoots on the moon", you suddenly attacked and kissed her. At this time, she is already your girlfriend. Whether she admits it or not, she already thinks you are his boyfriend.

I know best. I never asked "Would you like to be my girlfriend" until I went to bed. Finally, the girl was anxious: "Why don't you ask me to be your girlfriend!"

So, don't rush to break the window paper. The more hazy the situation, the better for you. What is "confession"?

As I said before, confession is actually just a form. The correct order should be: You can confess to others only after you have actually become your girlfriend. Many people don't understand this problem. They always think that people promise to be their girlfriends first, and then what happens? I can only say that they are very, very "simple" and very, very "stupid". Is there a time when you have to confess?

yes, for example, there is a third party, or your relationship with a girl is not mature, but two people may be separated for a while.

At this time, the confession is an immature confession, which is very risky. It is similar to the grim situation when playing Go. The backward side is forced to release the "winning hand". If it wins, it will win, and if it loses, it can only be said that "bad luck is born". Don't export the word "love" easily

I often see "bold confession" in forums. To be honest, I really think this is a very immature performance. "Love" is a sacred word, which means pursuit, commitment and even a kind of responsibility.

A man who casually says "love" is irresponsible.

fourth, civilized love can't be forced. Not every MM can catch up.

There will always be many people chasing good girls. It is impossible to fulfill everyone's wishes, and there will always be losers. For example, even if you study hard and master the principle of chasing MM, you can't catch up with any of the TWINS.

Let's look at the problem from another angle. Even if a rural nanny who didn't graduate from primary school is kind to you, she will earn 6 yuan a month to buy you 7 yuan as a gift (overdraft) and be willing to be a cow and a horse for you, you won't fall in love with her. If she cries and pesters you every day, you must feel bored.

So love needs a material foundation, at least a balance. Chasing after MM is a serious social activity

Don't bother others, but leave yourself a way back. Why do men have no wives? Some MM are snobs (a few). If you are not convinced, you can make a determined effort to prove that "she was blind at that time" with facts. Never mistake others for yourself.

Finally, don't appear cynical in front of MM. Cynicism sometimes means "you are a failure".

Tips for Chasing Different Types of Girls

The first key to chasing girls is to be sincere. Being insincere can only bring bitter results to yourself and others. Second, don't be too reluctant. Third, be clever. Generally, you can't just say "I love you" on Lulu's first date-girls will be stunned ... The means of chasing different types of girls are different:

1 silent and arrogant girl

2 romantic and fantasy girl

3 gentle and considerate girl

4. There are many kinds of girls, and friends often meet them. At first glance, it seems quite tricky. In fact, these girls are indifferent in appearance and often fanatical in heart. They generally like wild boys. If you are the kind of gentle boy with poor looks and less possibility, you'd better choose another beautiful woman. If other people's comments on you are so cool! Then you hope to be big! If your first invitation is not rejected, then you must not miss the opportunity! They may be extremely careless about you at first. At this time, you must not be discouraged. You must persist or even be stubborn. It is a good idea to watch movies, dance and skate, and go to the study room where she often goes. Be sure to find more opportunities to express yourself, a lot (of course, I love you will save it for the last time, hehe) ... For this type of girl, Your true feelings are very attractive. This kind of girl usually takes a long time to pursue. If you are about to graduate or leave school now, it seems that it is better not to start, so as not to waste ... Hehe. But after catching up, she will generally be dead set, and you will be on cloud nine and think you are the happiest person in the world! Haha.

If you really like such a girl, I' ll remind you first-you' re going to taste the ups and downs! It seems that this kind of girl pursues spirit more than material things. In fact, it's just the opposite. Romance needs money to build. If you don't have enough financial resources, I hope you'd better think it over again. Because she likes romantic affairs, flowers and chocolates very much, it's best for you to give more gifts to touch her heartstrings. If you want to catch up with this kind of girl, don't be stingy with your little money. In addition to the moon in the sky and ... (What? I can't remember. //shy) As long as she wants it, you should try your best to get it. The usual roses and snacks are even more subtle ... In short, if you want to chase such a girl, you must cultivate the ability to read the girl's mind. Don't forget to bribe her roommates and classmates. They will tell you a lot of useful information. And you should think about your own dress. Don't be rustic all day. (After catching up with a girl, you can safely show your true colors, because you are no longer rustic in her eyes. Haha) You should also go to romantic places to play with her, such as spring outing, dancing party and watching love stories ... She will gradually be inseparable from your care, haha! Although this kind of girl costs you a lot of money, it will also bring you a lot of beautiful fun. As long as you really like it, you can still live a happy life.

3 This kind of girl is dedicated. Once she becomes your GF, she will take good care of you, be gentle and amiable, and make you feel the warmth and reliability of love. If you can catch up with this kind of girl, you will theoretically become the most comfortable man. First of all, you should pay more attention to her. Of course, if you are a romantic, it is foolproof to send flowers and gifts at festivals. At first, you can send some friendly things, and when you feel that you can express them, you can send roses! If you don't want to be so extravagant, you can reveal something in your daily chat. When the time is ripe, you will suddenly say something like "It's good to be with you". If she doesn't avoid it, you can strike while the iron is hot and say what you have long wanted to say. The best time is at night: people's defense ability is weak at night. If she starts to avoid it, don't force her.