How do foreigners evaluate China people's family outlook?

We always think that we are one of the most family-oriented and family-oriented races in the world, and we are deeply proud of it, but in the eyes of foreigners, this may not be the case.

My friend in Australia talked about the importance that China people and Australians attach to their families. Unexpectedly, those Australian friends said, "Don't be angry. In fact, we feel that China people don't love home, and they don't pay as much attention to home as you say. You love money more! "

I was shocked, so I wrote these sincere conversations: "You China people are really diligent. Whether in Australia or China, China people can save more money overseas than local people, but I don't think this is because you China people have the talent to do business, but you are more frugal and more economical than us. You have saved money by lowering your living standards. You seldom go to bars and have a holiday on weekends, even on weekends or holidays. I bought clothes from China to take with me, because it's cheaper here in Shanghai. I even saw some Shanghai students carrying many bowls with them. " You will work day and night, leaving the children to the care of the elderly. Besides caring about your children's academic performance, you are very busy and seldom play with them. You don't even rest at Christmas. "

Therefore, although your children in China are excellent academically, they always feel that they are different. Compared with local people, parents are more concerned about the family's money income and academic performance than their happiness. "

"Yes, I know what you are going to say. You China people say it's for the children and the next generation to make more money, but every generation says it's for the next generation to make money. So which generation will really use this money? "

Life is so short that you sacrificed your present family on the pretext of the future of your family. I don't know how this account is worked out, and how it can reflect your own proud family concept.