Girl from "Gone with the Wind", you should get to know Scarlett Hao while you are still married.

I think I will always remember this book, the name of the heroine Scarlett Hao, and some stories about her.

——Quiet Freedom

01

When I was pregnant, in order to celebrate the successful pregnancy, my husband gave me a set of books that I had always wanted, The World Among the top ten masterpieces, it is a pity that I only read "Anna Karenina" during the year of pregnancy, and apart from the title of the book named after the heroine, at this moment, I can't remember the content of the book at all.

Among the goals set at the beginning of 2019, it was to read the remaining eight unread sets. I chose "Gone with the Wind" first. In my impression, I seemed to have seen this book somewhere. The name must have been read by someone around me, but I really can’t remember it.

Moreover, the title page of the book is about a sweet man and woman. I really want to know about their story. I am also curious about why it is named with only one word. There is that kind of "weak water has three things". Thousand, just take a scoop and drink" means.

All in all, this book attracted me and really suited my taste.

02

Let me tell you two interesting things first:

First

In order to finish reading it on time, I carry this book with me For books

There was a period of time when I wanted to read novels while watching my children at night. As soon as I read a book, my children came over and said, "Mom, the red flag is flying."

" This is not a red flag flying, just one word, "Flowing."

The child closed the book and said, "Mom, don't watch flying anymore."

I pointed it to him and said, "It's just one word, "Flowing."

The five-star red flag fluttered in the wind, just like a balloon floating in the air, neither reaching the sky nor touching the ground."

The child actually said, "bird"

I was very happy and happy Surprised, she gave him a big kiss,

"A bird is flying, which is not the same as floating. Floating is a state in which one cannot decide where to go, and can only rely on external forces to decide, as mom said. No, how to explain it, it just floats in the wind, which is a bit bad.”

I can’t explain it myself.

Second

I am passionate about "Gone with the Wind" every day, and I will take a look at "Gone with the Wind" when I have time

The teacher asked, tell me about this book What did it say?

"A young lady from a rich family whose family fortunes declined due to the war, for what she wanted and was forced to survive, did many things that were intolerable to those around her and were inconsistent with that period. She She has been married three times, and she is a bit unscrupulous in order to achieve her own goals."

Sir, it is particularly incomprehensible that "with this kind of content, it can be rated as one of the top ten famous books in the world"

"Maybe I didn't explain it well and didn't explain the positive energy clearly, but you can always find your own shadow in it, or your own human nature may be like that. Maybe in daily life, we have achieved good control. Scarlett Hao knows what she wants very well, and she takes the most direct approach. She is also very helpless, but she is very real."

There is no point in discussing novels with people who don't read, and , Books are something that depends on each person's own conditions, and the care they draw from them is different. Books are something that you can just read by yourself, and you don't have to worry about how much you absorb.

My mother-in-law can read magazines, but she can’t read novels. She feels sleepy and gets a headache after reading long novels.

If you ask me how I read on, I forced myself to read fifty or one hundred pages first. The key characters appeared, which attracted me to finish reading.

This is the same as watching TV. I want to read dozens of pages every day and want to know what happens next and whether the problem is solved.

After reading the book "Gone with the Wind", for a long time, when I got home at night, I was still thinking, have Scarlett Hao and Rhett Butler reconciled? Now that everything has been explained clearly, they should not talk to each other. It's tight. Let's reconcile quickly. Rhett likes children so much. You two should have another baby. Stop messing around in the future and live a good life. You must cherish each other enough.

But the author didn’t write it, so I thought that in a distant place, with Scarlett Hao, she would live a very happy life, and she would get whatever she wanted.

03

I don’t want to tell too much about the background of the story. That would be equivalent to giving a brief summary of the novel. I will only say that twenty days after reading it, my mind Things I still remember. If anything is wrong, it is all my personal opinion. As mentioned above, this is what I have absorbed from this book. I will not accept criticism or criticism from anyone, nor do I want to discuss it with anyone who has read this book. .

Everyone enjoys reading.

Let’s first introduce Scarlett Hao’s three marriages

The first marriage: Knowing that her sweetheart Ashley announced that she was not engaged to him at the ball, Scarlett Hao persuaded them to elope together, but Hope Li rejected her. She angrily agreed to the proposal of Charlie, the brother of Ashley's wife, Melanie. Then the war started and the men rushed to the battlefield. In order to ease her mood, Scarlett asked to get married as soon as possible, and in front of Ashley.

She got married in a muddle like this, and besides Ashley, she had many suitors. I think she married Charlie purely out of anger and revenge. Also, when she married Charlie, she entered Ashley and Melanie's family. In this big family, Scarlett had the opportunity to get close to Ashley, but she was just a little too infatuated.

Scarlett was in chaos after agreeing to propose. After a short wedding life, both Charlie and Ashley went to the front line, but Charlie fell ill and died on the way to the front line. Scarlett became a widow without a child. Only 16 years old.

The second marriage: after the war, (Tara is the farm where Scarlett lived. After the war, Scarlett’s mother died, her father went crazy, the burden on the family, and the most basic problem of eating were all... It fell on her as the eldest daughter) In order to survive, this rich girl did farm work. She had no shoes to wear and no food to eat. Her fingers were chapped, her toes were frozen and her skin was rough. She obviously no longer looked like a eldest lady. It was in this situation. Next, Scarlett has undergone great changes. Tara is facing life and death. If she cannot pay the taxes, Tara will be auctioned. Tara is Scarlett's life and belief. Scarlett went to town at this time and originally asked Rhett Butler to be his lover as long as he would lend him three hundred pounds. But Rhett Butler was in prison at the time and had no choice but to refuse her. When she didn't know what to do, she met her sister's fiancé Frank in the city, and Frank had been trying to earn enough money to marry her sister, and also saved a sum of money to buy a saw. wood mill. Scarlett Hao seemed to see hope. Scarlett knew that even if her sister married Frank, her sister would not try her best to save Tara like she did. Her sister only cared about her own food and clothing. She lied and said that her sister already had someone else and couldn't wait for Frank to marry her. Frank was very sad. Under this situation, Scarlett kept comforting and seducing Frank. Within a few days, they got married. Scarlett Hao only wanted three hundred pounds, so she quickly sent it back to Tara to save Tara.

After marriage, Scarlett did not look like a woman of that era at all. She borrowed money from Rhett Butler after he was released from prison, and opened a sawmill by herself. She relied on her beauty and eloquence to crowd out her competitors. The only thing she has to do is never want to be unable to eat or wear clothes.

Frank died for her because on her way home from the sawmill, black people from the ghetto tried to rob her and tore her bra. Frank had always been a member of the Ku Klux Klan. member, was shot and killed while fighting for her.

In Scarlett's sawmill, Scarlett arranged a manager position for Ashley, just to have reasonable reasons to have contact with Ashley. Scarlett wanted to control Ashley all the time.

After she gave birth to a daughter for Frank, Scarlett never wanted to have children again. She felt that if a woman kept having children, it would delay a lot of things. Fortunately, she gave birth to a child for Frank.

The third marriage: Scarlett thought Rhett was just like her and just wanted to get what he wanted. A few days after Frank died, Rhett came to propose. Because Rhett Butler was going on a long trip, he was worried that she would marry someone else again, just like he was in prison, but Scarlett had married Frank after he was released from prison. After her ex-husband died for her and his body was still cold, Scarlett still agreed to Rhett Butler's proposal because Rhett had a lot of money.

Rhett Butler was 17 years older than Scarlett. When Scarlett persuaded Ashley to elope together, Rhett Butler happened to hear everything. From then on, they became enemies. From the very beginning of Ashley's engagement party, Rhett Butler saw clearly what kind of girl Scarlett was. And over the years, Rhett has also been struggling with himself. I think Rhett is typically at odds with himself. He cares about Scarlett, but he also mocks her. Rhett always uses harsh words to expose Scarlett's true nature. . Or to what extent Rhett is seducing Scarlett step by step. Rhett loves Scarlett, but he does not admit this love. He has always wanted to quietly squeeze out Ashley's position in Scarlett's heart and replace Ashley. He has done a lot, just like I keep giving you food and scolding you all the time, why can't I give it well, so that you and I are both happy.

They have a daughter who is very beautiful and Rhett is very pampered. In order to show her loyalty to Ashley, Scarlett asked Rhett not to enter her room again after having this child.

Scarlett was accidentally pushed down the stairs by Rhett and miscarried a child. Rhett actually blamed himself very much. The two of them kept fighting, kept silent, and missed each other again and again.

When his youngest daughter was practicing horseback riding when she was four years old, she fell to her death. Rhett was deeply shocked. He loved this child so much.

After Melanie's death, Scarlett understood everything at once, and finally cleared away the clouds in her dreams and found her direction. But when he returned home and wanted to have a good talk with Rhett, Rhett Butler, who really loved Scarlett, finally decided to leave Scarlett because of disappointment. At this moment, Scarlett just realized that the person she really loved was not Ashley, but It's Rhett, he just doesn't know it.

04

"Gone with the Wind" is written by the American author Margaret Mitchell. After ten years of sharpening her sword, she only wrote this novel in her life, which will go down in history forever. After decades of reading, it has been selected by readers as one of the top ten famous books in the world, which naturally has its charm.

Under the pen of different translators, the heroine has been translated into different names, but I hope you can remember the name Scarlett Hao.

As a translator, when Li Meihua wrote the preface, the title was "Tomorrow is another day", which comes from the last sentence of this novel.

When Scarlett knew Rhett was leaving, all she thought about was that I must keep him, but she didn’t know how to do it yet. She said something like this: “I’ll think about it tomorrow. Okay, go to Tara and think about it. I can bear it then. Tomorrow, I have to find a way to get him again."

The whole book is over.

"Tomorrow is another day", this is Scarlett's motto.

From a young and beautiful girl at the age of sixteen to a mature woman at the age of twenty-eight, Scarlett has experienced too much.

Failed in love

Cruel war

Hard life

Scarlett’s character is a tangled body of contradictions. Her mother came from The famous family always wanted to cultivate her into a lady with a ladylike style;

But his father was just an Irish immigrant, bold, rough, informal, and bad-tempered.

Scarlett's veins are filled with blood full of contradictions, which creates her character of daring to love and hate, and to move forward bravely and unscrupulously when determined to achieve her goals.

Through novels, I will particularly admire the author. Every novel is a great work of art, full of the author's life-long efforts.

05

Some people see valuable advantages in Scarlett, but there are also many people who criticize Scarlett as useless.

The American poet Bishop once said: "Under any circumstances, Scarlett Hao is worthless. She is stingy, superstitious, and selfish, and is simply unmatched. She obviously belongs to her class. She is a member of this class, but she only had some superficial mannerisms of this class in her girlhood; as for their emotions, she has never enjoyed them. People must be spiritual, which is incomprehensible to her. As for thoughts, she knows best the despicable cunning tricks of small peasant consciousness. Based on this, she values ??nothing except her precious skin, land and money, and these are what make her cunning. Something that could last forever. With this thing in her hand, she coveted another one. For this reason, she killed a northern soldier who came to steal, looted his body, got married several times, and bought saws. The wood factory exploited the labor of prisoners, used deception, and ruthlessly sent several people to the West."

Scarlett was criticized for being useless in his eyes, and his words seemed to be not enough to be cut into pieces. Relieve hatred.

I feel unfair for Scarlett.

When people survive in society, they cannot have a single personality. There are no absolutely good people and no completely bad people.

I read something like this in a book: Human being is a polyhedron. No matter which angle you look at it, you cannot see it all. So don't judge anyone easily.

Translator Li Meihua also said: A person can only be a polyhedron, and a person's personality can only be the sum of multiple personality characteristics.

From the author and from Scarlett, I see more of the quality that I envy.

06

If Scarlett Scarlett doesn't make you like it, then the author arranged another woman, Scarlett's love rival and Ashley's wife, Melanie.

The second female lead and the second male lead in this book, the love between Ashley and Melanie.

Melanie is Ashley's cousin. When they were very young, they always got married within the family. Ashley was very graceful and graceful. If there was no war, she would have been able to keep her graceful life by guarding her generous farm. However, after experiencing the war, it became clear that a scholar was not suitable to survive in the war years, so after the war, Scarlett tried every means to save their family.

Melanie was the most outstanding woman of that period, but she was too small. In Scarlett's eyes, she felt that Melanie could not have children at all. After Melanie gave birth to a son, the doctor said that if she could never have another child, it would kill her.

Melanie is considerate and considerate. After returning to the city, Melanie was chosen as the leader of each group by virtue of everyone's love. Everyone was willing to chat with her and all the women were willing to surround her. She turned around, and even Rhett thought Melanie was the only lady that should look like. Even Scarlett wearing the most beautiful clothes was not enough to compete with her. Everyone admired Melanie.

Scarlett hates Melanie. From the beginning when Ashley rejected her and insisted on marrying Melanie, Scarlett wished Melanie to die.

When Melanie gave birth, the enemy was attacking the city. There was no one but the two of them. Scarlett accompanied Melanie through life and death, and brought mother and child to Tara.

What Melanie was thinking was: Scarlett is my sister-in-law, and Scarlett saved our mother and son’s name.

What Scarlett was thinking was: I promised Ashley that I would take care of you. If I make any mistake, I will not be able to see Ashley.

Although Melanie is thin and small, she has valuable qualities that Scarlett does not have. Melanie is just as brave and endures hardships.

Both of them women are equally simple, but they seem to be in the wrong direction.

Melanie thinks everything is very simple. Melanie does not allow anyone to say anything wrong about Scarlett in front of her. Even if her sister-in-law reports Scarlett to her for seducing Ashley, Melanie only believes in Scarlett. Jia asked her sister-in-law never to step into her home and did not welcome her arrival.

Melanie also thinks the best of everyone. No matter how hateful a man is, Melanie can see the good in them.

Melanie died because of another pregnancy. The doctor had warned Melanie that she was not suitable for having children, but Melanie loved children so much that she even took care of Scarlett's two children. Melanie wanted to give Ashley another daughter, but she died before three months.

With the death of Melanie, the novel also untied everyone's heart knot.

Ashley discovered that although he married Melanie because of a family engagement, he found that Melanie had always been her support. Without Melanie, he felt that he would not be able to survive.

Scarlett hurried back from the tourist destination, and Melanie waited to see her for the last time. Until her death, Melanie did not feel that Ashley and Scarlett had a mutual love relationship. And just like the day she gave birth to the baby, Melanie still entrusted the baby to Scarlett to take care of her, and hoped that Scarlett would take more care of Ashley's business.

Scarlett also realized at this time that since her mother's death, she had lost her support. Melanie had always been her harbor. Melanie had a very important position in Scarlett's heart. Melanie was Scarlett's only female friend, she also found that she was not in love with Ashley, but Rhett.

"She never understood the two men she loved, so she lost them. Now, she vaguely felt that if she had known Ashley in the past, she would never have fallen in love with him; and if She knew Rhett in the past, and she would never lose him. ”

07

Why should I set a topic like this? I feel that I met Scarlett Scarlett a little late, if I hadn’t. After getting to know Scarlett Hao before getting married, I think I will have a deeper understanding of marriage.

I like Scarlett Scarlet very much. Although she has some shameful shortcomings that make people despise her, I can’t explain it, but I think I am willing to reach a consensus with her in some aspects.

You have to read this novel by yourself. A lot of what I said is only one-sided. At this time, you need to go into the original text to understand the background of the times and the causes of things.

Scarlett was brave and fearless, and dared to break the rules. She was hardworking and willing to put down her body to do the most tiring and arduous work. She had a strong sense of responsibility. She took care of Tara's family and she helped Those poor relatives.

The only thing Scarlett didn't do well was that she was too direct, a bit disconnected. She didn't think about Rhett earlier. She was also a bit too willful. She wanted everyone to surround her. Turn, but the choice is wrong.

Scarlett is such a strong woman. She is even willing to numb her thoughts and not think about it. She needs to rest first. There is no time to think about the painful things now. Tomorrow is another day. .

Regarding Scarlett’s love, I think she is worth a lot. She was married three times. No matter for what purpose, these three husbands loved her very much and regarded her as a treasure.

The reason why I suggest unmarried girls to get to know Scarlett Hao is that I hope you can have a reference in your marriage choices. Scarlett finally knew how she felt about Ashley. "I made a decision. When Ashley came up on horseback, so handsome and different, I threw that dress over him and let him put it on, whatever suited him. It's inappropriate, and I don't want to see his true face. I've always been in love with that suit - I don't love him at all. "I think every girl has admired someone, but I may have never seen it. clear.

Don't enter into marriage for money purposes, just like marrying Frank, ruining Frank's life, and Scarlett also suffered soul repentance.

When entering a marriage, you must be frank and learn to communicate. Don't be like Rhett Butler, who wants to love but the love you give also brings harm, and don't use harsh words. He loved his daughter just like he loved Scarlett when he was a child. Rhett poured all his love on his beloved daughter, and finally lost his daughter because of pampering.

08

In short, I really like this book. I have written my feelings after reading it this time. I don’t know when I will read it again. I hope that in the difficult times in the future, I can be like Scarlett Hao. , "I'll think about it tomorrow...tomorrow is another day."

At the same time, please cherish the people around you and remember to communicate if you have anything to say. Speak nicely and don't be harsh with your words.

END

For those of you who are reading this article, please take good care of yourself

Do what you like and stick to it and see what the results will be. .

--Quiet freedom

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