Four kinds of love in the love letter of "Jing Yu Xia"

Although the film Love Letter from Beijing to Seattle is fresh and artistic, it also contains various lifestyles.

Some people say that illiterate people read love and literate people read life.

Maybe it's because I don't have enough life experience, or maybe no one has discussed and analyzed it with me in detail, so I only saw four views on love.

The enthusiasm of rolling sheets will turn into the scream of rolling nail boards.

This is undoubtedly a description of modern fast food love, and also a realistic description of Tang Wei's love in the film. She accompanied Wang to spend New Year's Eve in Las Vegas, but Wang bought her off with money and linked their relationship with money naked. At this time, she suddenly felt that no relationship was strong.

Tang Wei's search for love is like "seagulls preying". I saw the fish underwater, closed my wings and plunged into it. In that case, it's like dying, falling into the water like a free fall, regardless. As a result, I was scarred, but I tried bravely again and again. Finally, I found that no relationship in the world is strong.

She agrees with Wu Xiubo that the reality is bloody, so all so-called relationships are self-deception. These illusions are drugs that paralyze the nerves and sunglasses that make you unable to see the smog in Beijing. Love is just a hormonal imbalance, just like a cold, so it's normal to be lovelorn, so don't care at all.

But isn't this the result of fast food love? Just like eating fast food in the morning, you may not even know how the meal you ordered is cooked in a short time. Do you know if eating this in the morning will not be good for the digestion and absorption of the stomach? But you just ordered the meal in a hurry and soon turned it into a digestive product of your stomach.

You are eagerly looking forward to a love and looking for someone to accompany you. So, your love comes and goes quickly, like a tornado. Brave as you are, you are on the rampage. Although you have been working hard, you have lost the process of waiting patiently.

Not all relationships are unstable, but you are as impatient as a seagull and have no patience to wait.

Wu Xiubo is like a hedgehog. He wrapped himself in thorns and thought he could protect himself. But the result is not only hurting others, but also stabbing yourself.

He used escape to block his heart, rarely expressing his emotions and feelings, giving people a feeling of indifference. So his girlfriend chose someone else to get married, and he personally experienced the reality that "his girlfriend wants to get married and the groom is not me". My heart is filled with the feeling of "hating people's hearts is not as good as water, and making waves casually".

What Qin Pei said to grandma at the wedding symbolizes their love-hand in hand, growing old with the children.

"Old woman, you don't love to move in my life, nothing to sit in a chair knitting a sweater. My health is not as good as mine. Don't blame me for not speaking well. It is likely that you will leave before me. That's not bad either. You are timid and stupid. If I go first, what will you do with everything at home? You love to cry again, and I don't trust you to cry there alone. "

"Old woman, before people die, they are all sick and painful, which is really annoying. But don't worry, I won't hate you if you bother me again. I have a bad temper. If you get there, just wait for me if you want. If you don't want to, you can find someone with a better temper than me, I promise. Then let's make a deal. I will leave a piece next to the tombstone and carve my name next to you. Is that all right? "

Grandma may be silly and timid, but this is how she led her grandfather through youth, middle age and old age.

Some people say that companionship is the longest confession.

After more than a year of correspondence, Tang Wei and Wu Xiubo have developed feelings for each other.

Tang Wei said that a letter is an eye thousands of miles away, which can see through people's hearts. Whether it's dirty desires or dangerous ideas. So, after more than a year of correspondence with Wu Xiubo, she has been able to see clearly what kind of person Wu Xiubo is and believe that Wu Xiubo is the one she really wants. After experiencing a lot of things, they finally found that letters, a slow way of communication, can only take the time to write elegant and romantic words and wait for someone to send them in the cloud.

Yes, it's really nice to wait for someone to send a brocade book in the cloud, but you have to endure a long wait, but what's wrong with slowing down? Slow down, you can write elegant and romantic words, slow down, you can carefully find the love you want.

Summary:

No matter what state you are in love, you may be as brave as a seagull and as cautious as a hedgehog, you may be pursuing a long stream of water, or you may be waiting for someone to send a brocade book in the clouds, but please remember to slow down and wait for the love you are looking forward to.