Children are not bad, afterthoughts

The content of "Children Are Not Bad" is very real, as if it is a mirror that reflects our own lives. As a parent and a teacher, it touched me a lot. Afterthoughts on "Little Children Are Not Bad" Part 1

Over the weekend, the Sunshine Psychology Association screened the film "Little Children Are Not Bad". We hope that students can reflect on the various influences on the three protagonists in the story during their growth. Form your own values, outlook on life, personality, etc., and hope to gain more profound things.

The story revolves around three students with average grades, Weijie and his younger brother, and Weijie's best friend Jianren. These three despised teenagers all have their own problems. Po is young and naive, and his parents' praise means everything to him in the world, no matter whether what he does is right or wrong; while Weijie, who is studying in a technical school, likes to use his talent in inventing machinery to tease teachers and classmates. ; Jianren, who went astray because of his mother's neglect, fell into huge debts. In order to repay the debts, he did not seek help from his mother, but instead ran errands for the group. For this reason, Weijie and Jianren came up with the idea of ????inventing a "debt collection machine" and let the debt collection machine spray paint to collect debts on their behalf. I have seen the power of the "debt collection machine", but I don't know that Boss Ma, the leader of the bad group, actually plans to use the upgraded machine. Seeing his students going astray, teacher CK decided to step forward and help his students.

"People are born with good nature." I believe that no child is born with a bad moral character. They are all pure and kind when they land in the world. But what is it that causes our pure children to gradually become filthy and degenerate into bad children? Through movie stories, we can know a series of things, and the movie also tells us some metaphors:

1. The reason why children lie is taught by adults.

2. In the past, children would learn bad things if they did not go home, but now children can learn bad things just as much as they hide at home.

3. The teacher is willing to accept defeat and fulfill his promise even if the cost is to run naked.

4. Mother is always the protector of her children.

5. Getting caught up in gambling will destroy your family’s happiness.

6. Campus violence is very scary.

7. Teachers’ love for students is selfless.

8. Look on the positive side, crisis is a turning point. Thoughts after watching "Children Are Not Bad" Chapter 2

Today, during the training activities of the key class, the instructor arranged a movie viewing activity for us. The name of the film is "Children Are Not Bad". The content of the film is very real, as if it is a mirror that reflects our own lives. As a parent and a teacher, it touched me a lot.

The film mainly introduces the growth process of the three children, and reflects the impact of the practices of parents, teachers and schools on the growth of children. The tyranny of parents and their incomprehension of their children; the paranoid approach of teachers; the disrespect of children by schools hurt their self-esteem and kindness and push them down a path they should not take.

The words of the children in the video made us feel deeply every word: I still remember when we were young, we often stood up again after falling down with encouragement and praise. How happy we were at that time. We don’t even know, nor do we know when words of praise and encouragement slowly change and become so strange as we grow up. So far away. Is it really that difficult to encourage others more, praise them more, and see their merits more?

In fact, both adults and children need praise and encouragement from others, but why are we always so stingy when praising or encouraging others?

In every child, there is a good child and a bad child. As long as their good children are awakened, they will bring out the best. There is a saying that goes well: resources, if placed in the wrong place, are garbage; and garbage, if placed in the right place, are resources. Many miracles that happen in life make us realize that appreciation is also a powerful driving force. And this driving force happens because of a few simple words, a few sentences, or an action or an expression of yours. This has changed a lot of things, maybe even you don't know it.

Comparing every plot in it feels like it really has our shadow, and savoring every sentence not only touches our hearts. As a parent, we should put down our airs, establish an equal relationship with our children, become their children's friends, truly enter the children's hearts, understand them, understand them, and guide them in a targeted manner. This is our responsibility, and Not through endless, self-righteous preaching. As an educator, I am even more saddened by some of the extreme and inappropriate educational methods used by schools and teachers in the film. Respecting children is the foundation of every educator. Appropriate and effective educational methods are skills that educators must constantly research and explore. Encouragement and appreciation are the most classic and effective methods in education. As a parent or educator, you really should not be stingy in praising your children. Remember, good children are praised, so let us encourage them together. Thoughts on "Little Children Are Not Bad" Part 3

"Little Children Are Not Bad" is a Singaporean movie. The kids in the movie are a group of middle school students. They come from different families. They are all descendants of Chinese immigrants.

The movie mainly talks about two families and schools. One of the male protagonists, Weijie's family, has a father, mother, younger brother, and younger sister. His father and mother are white-collar workers and are always busy at work. Weijie and his sister go to middle school, and his younger brother goes to elementary school. If they do something wrong, their parents always beat and scold them. Weijie's father became addicted to gambling and owed a lot of money to others. He also beat his mother unconscious and was admitted to the hospital.

In order to help his father pay off his debts, Weijie joined Jianren from another family. In order to prevent them from joining, their teacher Liu gave them all his savings to pay off their debts, and said to them: "If you make another wrong step, you can't look back. You are talents, and you can make direct films with your own abilities." Get off the plane." Weijie turned around and left without accepting the teacher's request.

Weijie and Jianren used the remote control plane they made to help transport. Teacher Liu knew about this and followed him. In order to save them, Teacher Liu led Weijie and others away by himself, allowing Weijie and others to escape to the car and take his wife to the hospital to give birth to the baby. Before I could go to the hospital, my wife was about to give birth. They successfully delivered the baby to my wife. During the delivery process, they realized the greatness of their mother.

Finally, they participated in the remote control aircraft competition, but they lost, but they were not discouraged. They also said: "No matter how bad things are, there is a good side, and no matter how good things are, there are also bad sides." On the one hand. Everything is your own choice, and resenting your parents is your own punishment." Later, the police thought their remote control plane was very creative and gave them a scholarship. Their parents said: "All children are diamonds and gems. They must be polished with care." I think this sentence is very reasonable. I hope all parents will stop beating and scolding their children for trivial matters! Afterthoughts on Children Are Not Bad Part 4

After eating downstairs at noon, I came back to tidy up my desk. I took out all the newspapers in the drawer and glanced at them one by one. I saw a section about education, including a movie called "Children Are Not Bad". The plot tells the story of family relationships, the education system and communication between parents and children in the context of Singaporean education, and shows some issues in family education. After reading the plot introduction, I searched online and found it in pps, and I watched it right away. There are many plots in it that are very real and touching.

In the play, Jerry is a great kid. He is the leading actor in the drama rehearsed at school, but Jerry’s parents are both busy with work. His mother is the editor-in-chief of a magazine, and his father is a technician in a company. Director. They are all busy people. I remember a scene in it: On father’s day, Jerry and his brother Xueqian bought a gift for their father. Jerry drew a portrait of his father in the dark. His mother asked him: What kind of painting is this? J asked his father to stand in the room and turned off the light and said this was the impression his father gave me. Then Xueqian used his own money to buy a razor for his father. When his mother opened her mouth, she said: We already have a razor at home, you are wasting money. In fact, no matter what gift a child gives to his or her parents, it is all from the child's heart. Parents do not cherish it properly, which makes their children very disappointed. The children will naturally feel that there is nothing to communicate with their parents, and there will be no common language. There is an even more striking episode. While Jerry's family was having dinner, Xueqian's cell phone rang. His father said he couldn't answer the phone during mealtimes. Xueqian didn't answer, but in the next minute, Xueqian's parents' cell phones rang one after another. Dad said to the two brothers: Dad is different, a phone call from dad may cost millions. As he spoke, he took the phone and left the table. So does mom. I don't understand why parents always ask for this and that for their children, but then forget about it once some of their own behaviors conflict with these requirements. I feel like I have special rights as a parent. I believe that as a parent, if you want to educate your children well, you must lead by example. The same goes for teachers!

There is also the last scene, the departure of Chengcai’s father, the reason why Chengcai is reduced to hanging out with social gangsters. It was because his innate love for martial arts was not appreciated or recognized by his father, which led to this. Finally, when he was in the hospital, Chengcai's father said: He has been beaten and scolded by his parents since he was a child. He doesn't know how to love the people around him, because he has never been loved since he was a child. How do people who have not been loved know? How to love others. I think that even though he loves his child very much, he doesn't know how to love. The way he loves is definitely wrong and the way he loves is definitely not acceptable. From here, I am thinking that many of our parents, including teachers, now educate their children in the same way that their parents educated us. Because we have been this way since childhood, we have never thought about changing anything. We really want to teach our children well, and we also hope that our children will have a very happy life when they grow up. But we love in the wrong way. Unfortunately, we don't know where we went wrong now.

Many monologues in the play mentioned why people are so stingy about saying a word of praise to others? In fact, it’s not just children who need praise, we adults also need praise.

We need to see the child's strengths. Even if he makes a little progress, it proves that he has worked hard. Since he has worked hard, he will be rewarded. Don't be stingy with your words of praise. Zhou Hong's appreciation education proves that praise can really change a person's life. Seeing this, I thought of Carl Witt. He is a world-famous educator. He only gave birth to a son, Karl, when he was 52 years old. Little Karl was born frail, and his intelligence was weaker than that of ordinary children. However, under Karl's education, he became a genius with a global reputation. I remember clearly what Karl said: Many parents don’t know why they give birth to children, and they don’t know how to raise and educate their children after they are born, so the children are born. But I am different. Before I gave birth to a child, I had already planned how I would raise my child and how I would raise him, so that after the child was born, Carl followed his own plan. And I insist on keeping a diary every day to record the child's growth every day. Children are the most precious gift given to us by God. Since we have them, we must be responsible for raising them well. Otherwise, you are really wasting your life and it is really shameful!

Today is a special day for me. I think if I have a child in the future, I will never allow myself to raise him in this way. I will never allow myself to educate my students in this way.