Mother's image is more than simple and forbearing to pay.

When I heard the word "mother", I immediately thought of a simple-dressed, gentle, loving and dedicated female image. I think there are quite a few people who have the same reaction with me. We all have the same stereotype about the role of mother, which fully shows that we didn't learn dialectics thoroughly in high school. Universality lies in particularity and is manifested through particularity. Similarly, mothers have their own advantages, and their images are not only gentle and forbearing.

In the American drama Ugly Betty, Betty's elder sister Hilda is a sexy woman who has only a high school education and is pregnant before marriage. Due to the educational level and economic conditions, her aesthetic level is worrying and can be said to be vulgar, which is fully reflected in her dress. Throughout the play, her appearance always gives a sexy impression and nothing else. Shiny earrings, sleeveless tights and tight jeans with bright colors make her hot figure more conspicuous, and her fire-breathing big breasts and buttocks make people dream.

Once her son had a fight with a classmate, the classmate's parents came to her home to argue with her, changed their tactics when they had no words, looked at Hilda with contempt and said, Do you look like a mother? That is to say, as a mother, we should pay attention to the image and be as simple as her. My son's classmates also fixed their eyes on Hilda, but they stopped after wandering to her chest. The parents of the classmates were even more angry when they saw this, and left with their son's ear in a huff.

The next day, Hilda changed into clothes with a very different style. The plump brown coat and loose jeans looked very simple, but they completely buried her good figure. She looked like a complete housewife and lost her former beauty. After being teased, she thought that her sexy dress was not the image that a mother should have, so she decided to change her face, but her son didn't accept her change very much. He said that mom is a beautiful woman, so she should dress beautifully, and she can't be herself just because she is being talked about. He still likes the sexy mom. After her son said this, Hilda suddenly burst into joy. Forget his gentleness, modesty and simplicity. She is a beautiful woman who can't stand her sloppy self, so she put on her old clothes again.

In this drama, Hilda's boyfriend, the father of her child, proposed to her. She really wanted to marry her boyfriend. On the one hand, she loved her boyfriend very much, on the other hand, it was too hard to take care of the children by herself. Moreover, her family education was not very successful because of her boyfriend's absence. She wanted to accept her boyfriend's proposal for the sake of her children. But also for the sake of her children, she carefully asked her children for advice. She was psychologically prepared. If the children did not accept her marriage, she would refuse her boyfriend at any time. However, her child is very sensible. He said that marriage means she wants to get married, not him, so she is willing to get married, without thinking too much about his feelings. Because in a few years, he will be 18 years old and will move out, so he can't spend much time with her. I hope she will consider whether she loves her boyfriend or not when making a decision, and choose to get married for her future love, not for him.

Seeing this, I really admire the little boy's respect and understanding for his parents. He is mature beyond his peers, and he truly respects his mother and wishes her happiness.

Mom is really a role that makes great sacrifices for the family. Many mothers have been tortured by unhappy marriages for a long time, but they choose to continue to wronged themselves and never divorce in order to give their children a complete family. Or consider that children can't accept a new family and prefer to be single after divorce. They are too considerate for their children, afraid that their children will be upset and that their study and life will be affected, but they don't consider themselves. They prefer to wronged themselves for a long time, so they live too wronged.

Mothers are not born defined by an image, nor do they have unlimited responsibilities for their families. Husband and children are not the whole of their lives. Family is not their only career. They have their own lives. For their own happiness, they should live for themselves beautifully and confidently, as Hilda's children hope.