How to make a person who betrayed you really regret it?

First of all, if you don't end your marriage, it's hard for the other party to really regret it. Because, ta didn't pay enough price, nor did it lose anything substantial. Of course, ta can hardly have any regrets.

Whether you accept it or not, people who finally regret betrayal are often divorced because of betrayal. They were just looking for some excitement, but they ruined their marriage and family. The loss outweighs the gain. At this time, they will regret it.

"completely losing you is the best punishment for ta", which makes sense. Of course, there is also a premise, whether you are really valuable to ta. If you are confident that you are excellent, losing you must be a loss for ta, so there is no doubt that if you leave ta, ta will regret it.

Therefore, it is not to persuade you to divorce, but to say that if you don't divorce, there is actually no need to entangle the problem of "no regrets in the future", because you are still husband and wife, and if ta suffers some kind of loss, it is actually not good for you. This is the ambivalence of many people who are afraid of betrayal.

It is well known that some people make a scene to make each other regret. This method is actually not desirable. Even if the other party's reputation is ruined and his career is destroyed, ta will not regret it, but will resent you and think that you have "harmed" ta. The point is that you are still husband and wife, you are one. Ta's "loss" is actually your loss.

Even if you can get a divorce, if the life after divorce is not good, or even worse, the other party will not regret it. Even if you have a bad life in the future, the other party will think that it was probably right to betray you at the beginning.

Therefore, in the face of betrayal, no matter what choice you make, you must work hard. This is the fundamental reason why we have always stressed to make ourselves better!

The better you become, the more you add a capital that the other party regrets.

The above is just my personal opinion.