Help persuade my family to let me study abroad!

Son, first of all, you should trust your mother. No mother in the world will put aside her money and tell her children that she didn't give it to him to study.

Your mother earns money to support her family alone. Of course, economic factors are the primary reason. Although you are young, I hope you can understand the difficulties of adults. Money didn't fall from the sky. How can anyone pay tribute if he is not an official at home? Every penny is hard-earned money. . .

As for foreign education methods, I can only say that before undergraduate education, few countries' basic education can compare with that of China. Children of the same age, regardless of study habits or knowledge, are in the forefront of the world. The reason why international students are ignorant is not because they are just unimportant, but because they think that cheap manual labor is also a good choice, and their parents will not tell them that people who earn money by selling manual labor will find it difficult to make a living when they are old.

It is basically affordable for children with rich families to go abroad to study in universities now. Because you are a foreigner, it is impossible to find a job after graduation. At least you have to be a graduate student, so your expenses will be more than four years as an undergraduate, including two years as a graduate student and even five years as a doctoral student. I can tell you that undergraduates generally think that they should prepare about 100W, and graduate students should get 50 W. In case of any accident when you are studying, all kinds of expenses will be higher. Don't trust the advertisement of the intermediary. You go out alone. What should you do if you have no money? Students are not allowed to work outside school, and they don't have to think about making money to support themselves. That's illegal. If you are caught, you will be repatriated. Besides, there are not only you at home, but also old people. If it doesn't take a year, it's all your mother's problems to consider.

In fact, I am curious why you want to go abroad so much, because after you really come out, you will find that you have learned almost everything. Listening to lectures in class, doing homework at home, taking quizzes for a while, and taking big exams every semester are nothing more than changing the language used in class into English. The real difference is nothing but the future employment and living environment. You haven't been abroad, so you won't have the idea of flying out to study.

Asian countries are really cheap, but the choice is narrow. Japan, Korea, etc. all require you to know the local language. Even if you teach in English, you should live in the local area after class. In English-speaking countries, India has nothing to go. The more developed options than China are actually Hongkong and Singapore. Hong Kong has seen your college entrance examination results, and the competition is quite fierce. In Singapore, apart from those two schools, it is better to stay at home and spend such a sum of money to study. I have a classmate who is an undergraduate there. Basically, it is barrier-free in all of China, which is similar to your feeling in China. . .

When you make a choice now, you can't put the economy first. It depends on your future development, what you want to do in the next few decades, and where you want to work.

In fact, you didn't see the changing trend of tuition fees abroad. . . Tuition fees are getting higher every year, students desperately want to graduate early, and various fees charged to foreigners are endless. All countries want China people to study, so they should invest their money to promote their national economy. . As long as you can afford it, it is easy to get a school visa or something.

New Zealand is cheap, but it's basically rich children, if you think you can stand the environment there. No matter how Chinese want to integrate into the local society, it is impossible without nearly ten years. What's more, New Zealand is limited by geographical conditions and its majors are very limited. Only some management majors are better. To put it bluntly, if there is no family business waiting for you to come back and inherit, it is useless to learn management. Business, now studying business abroad, just like domestic undergraduate graduates, it is basically difficult to find a job.

In Europe, language problems are similar to those in Japan and South Korea. Other English and cheap diplomas are not very hard at home, and the tuition in Britain is relatively expensive, which is really the choice of some wealthy families.

In fact, as long as you study hard now, first study in a good university in China, and then apply for graduate students abroad, you will have the opportunity to apply for a full scholarship. Once you win the full prize, you will not only be free of tuition fees, but also give living expenses every month, so that you don't have to bear any money at home, and you can usually save some money. The money you save in one year can almost buy a used car. Moreover, you will be stronger physically and psychologically after being tempered in high school in China, which is very helpful for you to go abroad alone. I have met many students who have gone abroad for undergraduate studies. They have difficulty in communication, miss home on holidays, and have no intention of messing up their academic performance. The older and more mature people are, the better they can handle these difficulties.

Finally, you have to think about what your mother will do after you go abroad. Her mother is old and unable to move. Who will take care of her? Will you go back to China or stay abroad after finishing your diploma abroad? How many years will it take you to return to China to earn back this investment? Who will take care of your mother when you are abroad? Because of the immigration law, you don't want your mother to follow you. Who will take care of your mother when you are abroad?

I talked a lot, but I remembered some of my own experiences. I hope you don't just want to convince your mother, but try to sit down and communicate with her to see what concerns her mother has, what can be dispelled and what needs to be solved together. This is the key.