2021-11-08 Cai Weizhong interprets the family education promotion law-empowering children to face future challenges.

Thanks to the lecture organized by Yulong School in Lotus Kindergarten.

1, Dr. Cai Weizhong, first introduce a Baidu entry.

Cai Weizhong, male, an American preschool education expert, has been engaged in preschool education-related research such as educational environment design, school equipment research and development, and teacher training since he graduated from the University of California 1983. Then further study, get a doctorate and play therapy.

2. The opening dance is interesting. You can learn to play Head pat, shoulder pat; Thumb and little finger; Zuo Zuo, right, right; Twist to the left, twist to the right. Music "Golden Dragon Row Grass"

3. Resolutely disagree with hitting children. When I was a child, my mother liked to serve with three vines. As a direct result, the instinctive reaction of the two brothers to solve the problem is to fight.

4. Love. Chaozhou's parents went to Hong Kong to open a garment factory and provided three doctors and two masters. Believed in Catholicism, Christianity and Buddhism for children's education, sold two villas for children's education and immigrated to the United States.

5, habits and hobbies will be passed down from generation to generation, and now you are related to your ancestors 18 generations.

6, our generation is the most difficult, from the traditional parenting of parents, through their own learning, into scientific parenting. To overcome the instinctive limitations (bad habits, wrong methods) passed down from generation to generation, our generation has done a good job, and it will be much easier to wait for the family education of our grandchildren. Why is American family education easy? Because most of them follow the tradition, they can educate their children with the methods taught by their parents. The original intention of the Family Education Promotion Law is to help our generation through the problem of undertaking transformation.

7. Unconscious learning. Important concept number 1. Your child does not hear with his ears, but sees with his eyes. Listen and teach through examples.

8. What if I don't want to pass on bad habits to my children? Don't let the children see your bad habits, and do everything well in front of them. The teacher said that crossing the road will become particularly standardized near the school; The young couple like to eat snacks, but they can actually eat them secretly without telling their children, which lasted for 15 years.

9. "Zhong Wei, it's very kind of you to eat all the dishes." A child with a strong desire for control will consider a lot every time he does something, and put a shackle on his life.

10, everyone is a talent. It is most important to live a good life and have a good position.

1 1, respect children. The second important point.

12, the Family Education Promotion Law requires that children should not be required to study hard and should not be left unattended.

13, the method of love needs to keep up with the development of the times. Education gives us a chance to turn over a new leaf. Inherit the good, destroy it.

14, never command children, never dominate. "If I were you, I would ..."

15, not letting him compare with others. Stupidity is not a child's fault, but a genetic problem; No musical talent, it is a genetic problem. No wonder children, but character can be cultivated, and perseverance can be cultivated. (The child is 30 years old and is engaged in transgenic research at the American Institute)

16, "Playing the piano is the easiest way to destroy the parent-child relationship." Haha, hide your face and cry.

17, the story of cucurbit silk, going home every day to listen to the children blowing, pretending to be intoxicated, praising and affirming. A lot of teaching and criticism can be left to teachers, and it is more important for parents to appreciate it constantly. Suddenly, they were a little confused about why they wanted to teach. )

18, natural personality, acquired personality. The most important thing about character is three views. 1) reform. Values. Help children decide their position. The people of China are on the side of the people of China. 2) Use love to influence people. The story of Grandpa Sun taking off the clothes of passers-by. 3) Appreciate everyone's ability. The story of a mouse saving a lion.

19, a little girl's eating story. Emphasize no2, understanding and respect. Understand your children as well as your partner. If you keep your word, if your partner does it for you, how will you feel? "This snake is very beautiful." Accept her thoughts and respect the child's feelings at that moment. That pistol is a child's 10 carat diamond ring. Understand her and accept her. They are waiting for us to have dinner. Let's go there.

20. Hold hands. Let the child dominate you, the child is active, don't drag the child down. "I am my own master."

2 1, play dumb, and the child will become smart. Lazy mothers bring up diligent children.

22. There are no children in China who can't get enough exercise. Exercise can cure all diseases, and you can't eat well or sleep well. Cai's son runs at 5: 30 and eats at 7: 00.

23. Good teaching. Dry dad to scold, dad support you to change. (I received this concept for the first time, and it was quite recognized. In practice, it is difficult to estimate that a godfather or uncle with similar educational ideas is needed. )

24. Talk to your child about who loves you. People only listen to the people they like. Coax, follow her characteristics and accept her emotions. Example: Ice cream is delicious. Eat together when you are sick. Toys, stop to play for a while, spiritual possession.

25. Fighting. Example: Your partner was scolded by the boss and was very wronged. She will resign tomorrow and her husband will support you. Someone understands you. Angry or wronged? First, accept the child's emotions.

26. Don't eat well. After a hungry meal, I wandered around at night. "I'm hungry, really uncomfortable. Go to bed early and get up early for breakfast tomorrow morning. "

27. summary.

1) Lide helps others. Morality is most important.

2) Natural personality.

3) "Pretend" in front of children and hide the bad side.

4) Say we, thank you.

5) change the godson.

6) Love before reason.

Finally, put the teacher's oath.