The hardest thing is not making money. What is the biggest headache for middle-aged people?

After middle age, many people enter a state of anxiety. Although they have more and more money in their pockets and don't worry about making money, the pressure has never decreased.

At this time, the contradictions and problems to be faced are much more difficult than making money. Therefore, how to solve and find the best solution is the most fundamental reason for middle-aged people's anxiety.

But in fact, there is no most suitable standard answer to these three questions, so you can only find them yourself.

0 1, children's education

When people reach middle age, their children just enter the rebellious period of youth. The collision of two ideas will lead to many quarrels. Adolescent children are slowly establishing their own personality and are eager to have an independent personality. Parents want to export all their life concepts to their children because they are afraid that their children will go astray. Children don't want to be bound by this, but still want to go their own way.

In education, children and parents pull each other, no one can convince anyone, and finally it becomes a farce that can't end. This contradiction cannot be solved by the outside world. Only when both sides fully understand each other can reconciliation be truly achieved. This problem is much more difficult than making money. This social problem has also been interpreted by many film and television works.

Xiao Huan's state of getting along with his parents and children makes many people envy him. Children want such enlightened parents, so why don't parents be such children who can open their hearts to themselves?

02. Husband and wife emotional problems

It is said that young couples are old partners, so middle-aged couples can only be said to be a pair of partners walking on thin ice.

We spend more and more time together. Without the passion of fighting together when I was young, I can't get familiar with what we are familiar with. Even sitting together, I don't know what to say. It seems that only children are left to be the fetters between each other.

It's as if there is a chemical term called "entropy increase", which roughly means that everything will become chaotic and dull.

Marriage needs management and patience, but after middle age, both of them lost patience with this management. Every day, other things fill their lives, and communication with their partners is constantly put off.

The two people seem to be very close, but psychologically they are getting farther and farther away. Repeated life day after day exposes trivial contradictions in life, even trivial things have to be quarreled. This kind of mental fatigue makes people unable to find a balance.

03, their own health problems

When people reach middle age, they begin to feel that life has gradually stabilized and calmed down, and they have the material self-confidence that they can't get when they are young, and the spirit that they can't feel when they are old, so they forget to pay attention to their health.

I often attend parties, and I feel flattered by others in the hustle and bustle, and I feel particularly enriched in the excitement. But when everything falls silent again, when my body begins to feel uncomfortable and I go to the hospital to get an unacceptable test result, I start to panic.

Adults always have their own hardships, on the one hand, their health, on the other hand, their work and entertainment. The balance between the two makes people feel unattainable.

Middle age is actually the stage when health begins to decline. Health is the capital of revolution. If we don't pay attention to it in time, it is easy to squander health capital.

A middle-aged man has taken on the heavy responsibility of a family and the support of his parents. Once there is a health problem, the consequences are unimaginable, but health is irreversible. This problem is irreversible and must be cherished.

[Conclusion]

People have thousands of faces, and everything has everything. Many things are far simpler than they seem. When people reach the age of 30, they often have to face contradictions that are more difficult to handle and solve than making money. At this time, they will find that the practice of life is not just to make money and live.

Because we have been practicing all our lives, only by constantly facing problems can we constantly discover our own shortcomings and shortcomings. Difficulties do not make you feel tired or give up, but let you find the meaning of life, find the right position and constantly correct your mistakes in this hurry.

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