Resettlement work of Qingxi reservoir in Ninghai

I climbed the Great Wall the other day. I took a photo of Zhang Changcheng and sent it to my circle of friends when there was a sea of people.

A minute later, Qi Qi's comment came out, "It's better at home, it's lively! ! You don't know, I think the only problem with 10 for many years is immigration to Canada. "

Although I often see her complaining about the boredom and boredom of life in Toronto in my circle of friends, I never thought that life in Canada brought her great pain and regret.

I replied to her: "In Beijing these days, there are long queues everywhere, and it is foggy every day. The blue sky and white clouds in Toronto are good mountains and waters, not as bad as you said. "

"sparsely populated, inaccessible, and daily life is the same. Half a year is winter, so I can only stay at home and watch TV. " Qiqi sighed.

"A few days ago, you went to Prince Edward Island. Those photos are so beautiful, just like postcards. I have seen many people leave messages in your circle of friends with all kinds of envy. "

"Envy a ghost. They will know that life here is boring when they come ... "

In these years in Canada, I often hear such complaints. At first, I didn't understand. Since I don't like it here and life elsewhere is better, why not live in another place?

Later, I found that in Canada, there are many China people who live a lively life.

Skiing and skating in winter, hiking in the park in spring, camping and barbecue in summer, and enjoying the maple by train in autumn. Some people pack their backpacks and take a trip as soon as they get off work on weekends.

The most important thing is that wherever they go, they always have a cheerful and calm smile on their faces.

The leisurely and slow-paced rural life in Canada actually makes many people yearn for it; Just like the lively fireworks life full of human feelings in China, countless people can't stop.

We have always been here, our hearts are elsewhere, and we live elsewhere, as if only in this way can we dispel the disappointment and loss of plain life.

This "other place" is like a red rose and a white rose in a man's heart. Zhu Shazhi is also a rice grain, and the difference is only between "getting" and "not getting".

However, if you don't get it, you have lost it, which is the most desirable and lingering.

They always want to escape from their own lives, because life in other places looks better than they thought.

What he doesn't know is that when his heart is not calm, he can't keep a calm mind wherever he goes, and he will always envy life elsewhere.

The world is so big, it is the same everywhere.

I am beautiful. If I go on, I will step on the lotus and make it fragrant step by step. I am very sad. Everywhere I go, there are mountains and mountains. I hate water when I see it.

As Milan Kundera said, living elsewhere is a dream, an art and a poem. When other places become here, the sense of sublimity immediately becomes the other side of life: cruelty.

It was foggy in Beijing in those two days, and the value of PM2.5 broke the chart. Xiaoxi sent a group of landscape photos, "Is it beautiful? The PM2.5 here is less than 2.5. "

Xiaoxi, Beijing girl, Scorpio, the same age as me, now lives in Lijiang. Three years ago, she quit her job in Beijing with a monthly salary of 30,000 yuan and went to Lijiang alone to open a coffee shop in Xinyi Street.

On the opening day, she sent a circle of friends. I told her something that she should have heard countless times. "I really envy you for opening a coffee shop in such a beautiful place and doing what you like leisurely." ?

She said with a smile, in fact, it is not as good as everyone thinks. Sometimes I'm stressed, sometimes I'm a little confused. I'm afraid this shop is not doing well. After all, the income in Beijing is much higher.

I blocked many people's circle of friends, but I always deliberately opened the circle of friends in Xiaoxi.

In the morning, she carried a small bamboo basket made by herself to catch the early gathering. In the evening, she arranged flowers with her friends. In her spare time, she runs along Qingxi Reservoir, goes camping, goes rafting, learns calligraphy, practices yoga, and learns to make all kinds of novel and lovely snacks.

In those days, I smoked smog in the imperial city, and my throat was inflamed and uncomfortable. And she has always been leisurely "picking chrysanthemums under the hedge", and every part of her life is enviable.

Three years later, Xiaoxi still runs this coffee shop, but with two more assistants, business is getting better and better. She no longer said that she was stressed, but her eyes became more and more firm and calm.

"In the beginning, my heart was bottomless. But after years of hard work and trying, I think I can do it. Moreover, in the process of running a coffee shop, I personally have made great growth and my mentality has become more and more relaxed. "

She gets up after 9 o'clock every day, goes to the busy morning market to eat something, and then goes to the store. When there are no guests, I read books and watch videos to study, study coffee beans and study the making methods of new desserts.

Everything that the stream has experienced makes me feel beautiful.

When people laugh at those who try to realize their dreams, and when Keyboard Man criticizes those who flee from "Northern Shanghai" for no reason, Xiaoxi's heart becomes more and more complete and life becomes more and more abundant.

She firmly knew what she wanted and realized it through her own efforts.

Xiaoxi said, "In fact, many people say that a good life needs a good material foundation as a prerequisite. In my opinion, the attitude towards life is often more important than material conditions.

These years of experience have made me discover that life is actually the same everywhere. The difference is your choice, and the key lies in how you look at life. "

The essence of life is dull, not boring. It's just that some people's attitude towards life is too simple and absolute.

If you choose to live in Beishangguang, as long as you have a dream, persevere and don't go with the flow, you can adopt a high attitude.

If you choose to live in seclusion in Shan Ye, you can make your life a poem as long as you are calm, self-disciplined and love nature.

British writer Rachel Joyce wrote a passage in "A Man's Pilgrimage":

"The land between the ridges is wavy and divided into squares, surrounded by high and low hedges.

He couldn't help but stop and look forward and feel ashamed; There can be so many changes in shades of green, some as deep as black velvet and some as light as yellow.

The sunshine must have accidentally caught a passing car or a window in the distance, because a bright spot came into view through the cascading mountains, like twinkling stars. Why didn't you notice this before? "

Yes, why didn't you notice this before? I believe that many people will feel this way when they look back on their life path as they grow older.

The beauty of life has always been there, but most of the time we choose a mediocre life, never slowing down, stopping, watching and listening attentively.

Everyone has two worlds, one is the external world seen by the eyes, and the other is the internal world developed by the mind.

People who are interested in life usually have an aesthetic eye. They can live a colorful life and find new life ideas even in a boring life.

People who lack wisdom always envy life elsewhere, complain all day, are full of rage, wander around and live elsewhere forever.

You stand on the bridge and watch the scenery, and the people watching the scenery look at you under the bridge.

When we gradually understand that the so-called "different places" and "here" have never been fundamentally different. It's the same day, the same life, the same love and hate.

No matter how dazzling the changes in other places are, they are always external. What really touches people is what they see inside.

Freedom, dreams, life, not necessarily elsewhere. With a wise heart and a pair of discerning eyes, there are still scenery nearby.

We always love to pick roses from a distance, but we don't know that the most gorgeous roses are in the dim light not far behind us.