Life Algorithm —— Meeting in a New Book

At 7 o'clock in the evening, I arrived at Yintai by the lake on time to attend the meeting of the new book "Life Algorithm". It's a little late, and Lao Yu has already begun to answer readers' questions. I thought that not many readers would come, and the plastic stools at the door were still full, and even many people stood behind to listen.

When I first met Lao Yu, I probably went to several cities recently to open a book meeting. He is wearing an ordinary T-shirt and looks a little tired. He answered the reader's questions unhurriedly, standing or sitting.

During the one-and-a-half-hour activity, readers asked questions enthusiastically and never stopped. However, these problems embody two words: anxiety. Anxiety about children's education, anxiety about work and anxiety about life happiness. There is a mother of a 16 year old child at the scene. She said that she would soon enter the college entrance examination for her children, how to choose a school and how to choose a major. Lao Yu replied that children should be given the ability to cope with the uncertain world in the future. 16-year-old children already have the right to choose, so it is more meaningful to let children participate in the selection process. The father of a child aged/kloc-0 is even more anxious about his children's education. Lao Yu recommended the book Gardeners and Carpenters to his parents. For children, it is most important for parents to provide a safe and loving environment for their growth.

When it comes to work, there are the most problems. Some want to change careers, some want to transfer from technical positions to management positions, some want to be promoted and so on. One of the girls said that she was a salesman, and now she has transferred to a management position and docked with the supply room. However, the headhunter said that this job needs extroversion, strength and ability, and the girl hesitated to say that her personality characteristics are not suitable for this job. Lao Yu replied that he had no work experience. He started his own business in his junior year and immigrated to Canada after gaining financial freedom in real estate. But he felt that he didn't look like a developer, but made money in real estate. Therefore, ignore fixed thinking and give play to your own advantages.

About happiness in life, it mainly means happiness in marriage. Lao Yu said that managing marriage is the most difficult thing. You can only keep your eyes open before marriage, and turn a blind eye after marriage, so that marriage can last.

I actually listened to it with questions myself, from which I gained a lot of courage. I have been in my current position for 8 years, during which I have completed promotion, graduate school and having a second child. Next, I will either find a place to live in peace of mind, or I will have to change jobs to learn new skills to get better growth, otherwise it will be a waste of effort to finish my existing work step by step every day. I was hesitant about the possible new position, but after listening to Lao Yu's words, I suddenly became cheerful. Bet on a high probability event, work hard and accept it even if the result is not good.

Life algorithm, algorithm life, I hope we all have a good time.