Is it reasonable for my brother to immigrate and let me take care of my parents alone?

Reasoning and taking care of parents are what children should do.

As children, we should not only pay attention to parents' health, but also help parents to establish a young mind. Because the psychological state determines people's physiological state and living state to some extent, only with a good attitude can the elderly live young and energetic.

When parents reach a certain age, due to many changes in living conditions, their mentality becomes more and more fragile and sensitive, and there are often childlike emotional fluctuations. In a sense, old parents are also children.

There is an old saying in China that all virtues should put filial piety first. As children, when parents are old, how should we be filial? From the psychological point of view, the countermeasures for the elderly can get twice the result with half the effort, so that they can live longer and enjoy more family happiness.

In real life, it is sometimes not easy to adapt to the relationship with elderly parents, because influenced by years of experience, parents still refuse to let go of their dignified figure and hope to maintain their capable image, but in fact, the growth of age has made them feel worse than before, and it is not easy to maintain that dignity.

Therefore, as children, we should handle the change of this relationship carefully, know how to ask questions in language, observe their physical and mental changes, judge carefully and provide necessary help in time.

Some parents are stubborn. If they don't admit their aging and inconvenience, they should explain it more gently and let them accept it. Don't lose your dignity because of impatience, and certainly don't give up your concern because of resistance.