Ask Leslie Cheung and Tang Hede for a long article.

The two families belonged to a noble family of Shang Dynasty in Hong Kong, and met in the upper class. The children of the two families know each other a little, but my brother and Tang Sheng are both younger children in their respective families, so they may just know each other and have no connection, especially since my brother went to England at the age of 65,438+06,5438+0, and they have no friendship.

It dates back to February 9, 1982. It was at Leslie Cheung's mother's party. Is the adopted son of Mrs. Zhang's mother. At that time, her brother was 26 and Tang Sheng was 24. It was not the first time they met, and a little childhood friendship was not enough to make them friends at once, but it is certain that both of them left a good impression on each other at that time, so they had a party on June 2, 1983+65438, to formally introduce each other. At this point, we officially became friends.

Tang Hede is handsome, but not humble. His personality is somewhat introverted, even a little shy. His inner beauty and gentle eyes show his kindness. He is silent most of the time, and seems to be accumulating enthusiasm and erupting for friends and confidants.

For more than 700 days from 1983 to 1984, similar family background, westernized lifestyle and basically the same world outlook made them good friends who talked about everything. It was during this period that an iou storm happened that my brother will never forget: it is said that my brother was not satisfied when he first entered the business, his development was not smooth, his career was low and he was in financial difficulties. Coupled with the incomprehension and support of his family, he was not embarrassed at that time. As a newcomer, Tang Sheng's income is not impressive, but he resolutely gave all his savings to his younger brother, but he ate instant noodles for several months ... My brother was embarrassed every time he mentioned this, and his mouth was full of Tang Sheng.

During this period, both of them have girlfriends, and they often communicate with each other and talk about the experience of making girlfriends. There are two rumors about my brother's feelings, namely Teresa Mo and Ni Shibei. They are the opposite sex that my brother admitted to pursuing. According to him, "When I met Mao, I actually wanted to pursue her sister. It was only because her sister had a boyfriend that I turned to Maomao. " Unfortunately, at that time, Mao Mao seemed too young, not confident enough about this relationship, and finally didn't get together. In his early years, my brother and Teresa Mo, who now lives in Canada and has become a mother, were still good friends and card friends. Later, I also cooperated with movies such as "Happy Family", and the tacit understanding was incredible.

As for Ni, it was my brother who had more contact with her when he filmed the TV series "Tiger" and had feelings. My brother had an affair with Ni Shibei, a model. They were also regarded as a golden couple, and took photos in front of the news media, but in the end, their relationship ended.

At the beginning of his popularity, he went to the bar to drink every night and had an intimate relationship with a woman he didn't know. According to my brother himself, when he really fell in love with each other, he discovered that it was a scam that only wanted to plot his money. It hurt him a lot. He confessed in his autobiography: "After this incident, I almost lost interest in women." This may be an important reason why he has never been married. In this long period of success, it can be said that my brother's true love life is still floating.

1985 One day, the love that two people have been unwilling to admit and dare not admit was exposed by an uncontrollable hug ... Since then, their feelings have developed rapidly and are basically certain.

After 1985, my brother's stage style became more and more mature, and his superstar temperament was faintly visible between his gestures. It is believed that in addition to seven years of painstaking accumulation, the perfect entrance of love has also become the starting point and harbor for his growth and transformation again. His rich and solid emotions are the backing for him to put down his blog.

My brother inadvertently used the word "refusal" many times (which can be "he" or "she" in Cantonese), and it was also clearly conveyed in various interviews. Knowing that he has a partner who has been with him 10 for many years, his fans are a little relieved. But at that time, Tang Hede had not resigned, so he was naturally happy to see this visit. Two people quietly love each other and watch each other underwater, but they still have their own careers.

For 86 years, the two even attended some activities together, which attracted the attention and reports of journalists. In September that year, on my brother's 30th birthday, someone put up a banner that read "Leslie Cheung died of AIDS"-thanks to these reports. At this time, it is an important period for my brother to become popular. The two men immediately completely lost any public contact and went underground.

From 1987 to 1988, my brother became more and more popular every day. The demands of career and image and the attitude of society towards homosexuality at that time brought great pressure on their feelings. They broke up for rational reasons. However, the yearning pain and emotional suffering brought by the breakup made them reunite soon. Through this breakup, they finally realized that they could not be separated again. In fact, they really never separated again. h

1989, my brother chose to bid farewell to the music scene at the peak of his career. Of course, there are many reasons, including the struggle between fans, but one of the important reasons is that my brother and Tang Sheng intend to leave China society and seek living space in a more open western society. In order to avoid publicity, they applied to immigrate to Canada and bought a real estate only a few minutes away. My brother enrolled in a film course, hoping to go out to work for a short time and live in Canada for a long time. No one applied to work in Canada, and * * * started a better life here. During this period, their feelings have developed to the stage where they can be disclosed to their close relatives and friends. In the Canadian brother's home, my brother introduced Tang Sheng to his first lover, Mao Mao, and at the same time openly interacted with some good friends. Besides, my brother and his sister live in Canada, and his contact with Tang Sheng does not avoid his relatives.

The coffee in Vancouver is full of fragrance. When I wake up in the morning, I can see the distant mountains and clouds flying on the horizon from the balcony. The grass is green, and the neighbor's giraffe runs into the garden to eat flowers. There is no interference or fetters in the sky, only the fresh breath of love. At that time, they were so free and happy, only admiring Yuanyang but not immortals, but that's all. ..

Unfortunately, their elaborate plan didn't last long, and the reason was also because of their brother. My brother soon discovered in Canada that it was too early to retire at 34 and a half. He is a person who attaches great importance to and loves his work, and the entertainment circle in Hong Kong that he has been longing for for for a long time is really attractive. So after several years of immersion, everything went back to the starting point. He finally returned to Hong Kong to film, and there were more and more jobs in Hong Kong, so he hardly had time to go back to Canada to see Tang Sheng. Tang Sheng is well aware of the position of work in his brother's mind and how important applause and flowers are to him as an artist. Although Tang Sheng's personality is more yearning for a quiet life at present, he quit his job in Canada and returned to Hong Kong on 1994 to work in Standard Chartered Bank and stay with his brother. At this time, their feelings have been tested countless times and have been very stable.

My brother, who had completely avoided talking about his love life before, couldn't help talking about his other half (in elder brother's language) on some occasions since 1995, saying "she" is good and that he is happy. Arouse great interest in the media ..

Finally, in July of 1995, the media photographed my brother and Tang Sheng sitting in the same car to inspect his new home and were followed by the media. As a result, he ran into the interview car angrily and then declared, "Someone is going to accuse me of being gay." At the same time, Tang Sheng was photographed in and out of his brother's house and made public. My brother's first reaction was to deny it.

But after the crash, my brother must be very surprised. Maybe from then on, he began to think about how to be open and defend his love.

After a year of painful thinking and struggle, my brother and Tang Sheng finally decided to open their relationship and face everything bravely. If Tang Sheng came back from Canada for his brother, then this time it was his brother for Tang Sheng. My brother thinks that Tang Sheng should have an open identity, and in order to give him this identity, my brother has suffered great pressure and risks (you know, some artists are afraid to give their girlfriends an identity for fear of losing their fans). What's more, after Tang Sheng was harassed by the media and fans and couldn't work, his brother gave him respect. My brother listed Tang Sheng's name as a shareholder in the company that manages his main source of income. The two of them * * * walked together, * * * advanced and retreated together, regardless of you and me, and * * * created a life together. And give him the company's financial problems. Don't let him feel a little wronged. Treat your other half like this, not to mention the same sex, that is, how many couples are there?

1997 65438+1On the evening of October 4th, the last solo concert of the comeback concert of the Red Chamber, Tang Sheng, the bosom friend, finally appeared. That night, my brother tied his bow tie and stood alone on a lamppost as bright as moonlight. It can be seen that everything he said to his mother was spontaneous, including that famous joke. He smiled so mercilessly, like a child. But Tang Hede's confession was carefully prepared. His eyes are much more complicated and cautious, including his gestures, so determined, as if they are fighting for, distinguishing and defending themselves. Finally, I spit out a name that has been suppressed for 15 years, and my brow suddenly stretched and my forehead relaxed. His natural fearless expression seems to say, love someone, I am here, everything is here.

That night, Tang Sheng was sitting in the fifth row of the venue, and his avatar brother's number one fan supported him in the audience. I saw Tang Sheng waving red and green glow sticks all night. My brother told the audience to stand up, but Tang Sheng said nothing and stood up first. My brother asked if the audience was very tall, and Tang Sheng said, "Yes". My brother asked if the concert was worth seeing, and Tang Sheng answered "Yes" again under the stage.

When my brother sang "I Really Love You", he looked at Tang Sheng blankly and expressed his feelings with his songs. My brother also sang "Only for Your Heart", which he has never sung before. This is a recognized song dedicated to Tang Sheng. My brother revealed his emotional world at the concert. He said, "As long as I am happy and have no right to ask outside, I will only go back to Leslie Cheung." When my brother sang "Spend with * * * *", he cried even more emotionally. Finally, he expressed his feelings to tens of thousands of fans with an enduring love song "The Moon Represents My Heart": "Teacher Tang is the love of my life except my mother!"

Melodious melody sounded, "You asked me how much I love you and how much I love you. Think about it and have a look. The moon represents my heart. " Tang is somewhere, quietly listening, a graceful face, a shallow smile, and a sweet tacit understanding gently rippling. The so-called empathy should mean having the same thoughts and feelings at the same time, and you can see each other's hearts at a glance.

At this point, the relationship between the two was really clear, which also confirmed the speculation about his sexual orientation. Instead of affecting his position in the eyes of fans, my brother's actions won more applause and blessings. His marriage with Mr. Tang was also voted as the strongest couple in the entertainment circle by Radio Television Hong Kong. However, he also admitted that the love he talked about was "not the kind that ordinary people take for granted", from which we can also see the public pressure he suffered for this kind of love.

In all the concerts, only this time, his eyes were full of elegance, and all the beauty and warmth in the world wrapped him up. Everything seems to be eternal, so eternal that people are not afraid of temporary parting.

Mr Tang Hede was at that famous concert. ..

Mr Tang Hede was at that famous concert. ..

Mr Tang Hede was at that famous concert. ..

After the public affair, the two had many sweet times. After his brother came back, Tang Hede, who used to work at the top of the bank, gave up his well-paid and generous position because he couldn't stand the pursuit of gossip media, and concentrated on handling private finance for his brother. At that time, Tang was the manager of the banking department, responsible for a large investment of more than 500,000 yuan. He was famous in the industry and had a bright future. At such a bright moment, I resolutely chose to take myself back and hide behind my lover. Accompany my brother to work all over the world, manage daily life, arrange schedules, solve problems, take care of assets, and integrate more life and time into my brother. No matter how much you pay or sacrifice, as long as the parties have no regrets, it is worthwhile, and it is difficult for others to measure their gains and losses. My brother knows everything that no one has done. My brother has been in the entertainment circle for 26 years. In the past, he made records, held concerts, made TV and made movies, and his income was conservatively estimated to exceed HK$ 300 million. After all the financial investment was given to Tang Sheng, because of his good financial management, even if his brother reduced his performance in front of the stage, his income increased, so he didn't have to worry about money at all.

It is reported that my brother made a will before his attempted suicide on June 5438+065438+ 10, 2002, and left most of his property to Tang Hede who made money for his investment. However, after he was rescued at that time, the will was never deliberately mentioned again. After that, my brother bought many funds in the name of Tang Hede. In fact, almost all the assets under my brother's name belong to Tang Hede * * *, and they started four companies together. My brother once said, "Tang Sheng is the most important person in my life, and I listen to him in many important decisions."

From 65438 to 0998, Leslie Cheung experienced another turning point in his life-losing his relatives. My brother once said that he has no parents, but even though he is seldom taken care of, he is still a very filial child. In the mourning hall, his eyes filled with tears, and the world of affection will eventually collapse again.

The viewer is surprised; Tang Hede appeared in public with him; Take him; Ranked in the position of friendship man among children, managed everything as a master, exchanged gold and silver with him, and sent his mother away together. If 1997 is my brother's personal confession, this time, it seems that the whole family openly accepted Tang Hede and affirmed a birthright.

People who think this kind of love atmosphere is absolutely impossible are dumbfounded, and those who are most qualified to object agree: media and commentators, why do you talk nonsense! ?

Two "beloved" lost one, and my brother is still strong. I remember an article: My husband has been silent since his mother died. But suddenly in the morning, he gently hugged his wife and let her know that this is the only person he loves and can rely on. Perhaps in the years, things we are willing to love are always less and less, but more and more precious.

I left in June of 5438+ 10, and my brother returned to work in June of 165438+ 10, and devoted himself to shooting the meteor language. Wu Jiali, who worked with him at that time, said that his brother was in a relaxed mood. As an adult, he naturally knows how to deal with emotions. And people know that this kind of "processing" needs more than just life skills.

From 65438 to 0998, Tang Hede also experienced its own turning point.

He is already the protagonist of the gossip page. Since 1997, 1 month later, his eyes and obscene words can be imagined. A person who has been living a rigorous and low-key life in the financial industry, known as the "silver gray class", needs to face such an embarrassment: as a senior manager, he has always been a leader in accepting large investments in the industry, but more and more customers have asked him to accept it by name, just out of curiosity, but what kind of people must he meet to make Leslie Cheung fall in love. In the financial world where professional reputation is paramount, what kind of chaos does Tang Hede, who is somewhat shy, face?

-"The media has been speculating about your relationship with Mr. Tang. What do you think of this problem? "

-"It is really disgusting. It doesn't matter to me. He is just an ordinary office worker, but he was chased by reporters from east to west. He also took pictures and messed up his work ... I really sympathize with him. "

That's what my brother said in the question and answer session. The sentence "I don't care" touched people's sympathy and sympathy for their lover. In life, people are also like this: the board hits me, ok; Hit my lover.-No! !

God knows I love you ... (Leslie Cheung and Tang Hede)

Tang Hede finally resigned. He has no shortage of retreat harbor, so he is willing to give up hard-won success without hesitation for a practical love.

This kind of resignation, like Leslie Cheung's public confession in 1997, is another kind of courage. From then on, he found himself and took care of Leslie Cheung's assets, making the concept of "home" more practical and stable.

In Go, this structure is called "carefree corner".

Love a person, always have to put up with and give up something. Every stable relationship needs one party to make sacrifices and contributions. The principle of love has never been so fair; Business, it's hard to give up going home without going home. If there is no pillar to rely on to take a step back, it is difficult for people to take a step back and can only continue to work hard at the forefront. ..

1September, 1999, I attended the premiere of Love Letter a few days before my brother's birthday. Journalists are covering all over Tang Hede. "Will you go to Japan with Tang Sheng for your birthday in September?" My brother is angry: "I have many friends." Why do I have to go with him? " But afterwards, the reporter waited at the airport until both of them came back from Japan.

In the face of speculation and doubt, my brother likes to ignore it, so I still go my own way-I won't go if you ask me. On many occasions, my brother is tired of hearing "Tang Sheng left Tang Sheng right". It is often when you open your mouth, or when the camera is aimed, it is already dark.

In fact, my brother cares about doing it wholeheartedly as an actor and writing the core of the blog. For example, at his concerts in 1997 and 2000, few people praised his dedication, creativity and overall perfection. All the newspapers and tabloids see are those high heels, those long hair and those skirts. To some extent, the constant pursuit of this point by the media is also a kind of depreciation of his industry achievements. How can he not be angry, sad or rebellious?

In the photo album published by 1999, he simply took out a few paragraphs to make those voices really fall on the paper. Mao Mao visited 200 1 and answered directly on the spot. Especially in the interview, the soft and proud expression on his face is unforgettable.

Not everyone cares about his love because he likes his brother. Those who love him will feel relieved and happy only when they see the image. More spectators are excited because of such an unusual love-they are out of the street again, ah, dragging their hands and walking back.

In 2000, their relationship became more and more stable. They not only attended public occasions together, but also got closer to Thailand. Tang celebrated his brother's 44th birthday with many friends. On Leslie Cheung's 44th birthday, a group of friends hosted a mysterious candlelight dinner for him in the restaurant of a five-star hotel in Wan Chai. My brother and Tang Sheng attended the dinner together. At about 7: 30 in the evening, my friend Chen Shufen arrived first. As soon as she saw the reporter, she released water to her brother through her mobile phone: "If there is a reporter, don't take the front door." Surprisingly, my brother and Tang Sheng still entered from the main entrance with dignity, which made the foreign security guards at the scene very nervous.

At the concert held by his brother in the same year, he even publicly showed his love to each other and said affectionately, "I think it's disgusting to say I love you in Chinese." I can only say' I love you'! "

After the concert, my brother came home, sat in the middle of the back row of the car, his head tilted back, and his flashing eyes stared at Tang Sheng, as if he were trying to prove and find the answer, and he was asked countless times. Tang Hede is wearing a white shirt, with her eyes looking forward and a bright smile on her face.

In the same year, my brother promised to evaluate the "Top Ten Outstanding Gay Reporting Awards" organized by Hong Kong gay organizations for free, so as to cheer up homosexuals in Hong Kong. When judging, add comments to the award-winning 10 articles, so as to collect articles and publish books.

In 2002, the two became more loving. At the Jigong Temple in Sheung Wan, Hong Kong, they prayed together, hung incense sticks together, and they did not shy away from shopping hand in hand, ignoring other people's eyes. In a rare interview with Time magazine, my brother publicly disclosed his bisexuality for the first time, becoming the first artist in Hong Kong to boldly disclose his special orientation.

10 reply: God knows I love you .. (Leslie Cheung and Tang Hede)

It can be said that the relationship between my brother and Tang Sheng entered a new era from 1997. They began to attend public occasions together, made more friends, and finally got an open cohabitation relationship and lived a more natural and peaceful life. 1life from 998 to 2002 can be said to be their best period.

People who like him remember the details clearly and will not repeat them.

Looking back, reading those happy words is like seeing Baodai in a Dream of Red Mansions. "He is so selfish and affectionate in front of people that he doesn't need to doubt."

Avoiding and not avoiding, talking and not talking, ups and downs are the bitterness and sweetness of Leslie Cheung and Tang Hede. And I have no regrets.

Under the same roof, two people played the right role.

It is often reported that my brother loves to cook, so he can buy a home that suits his taste. The childishness of my brother's character, his concern and caution about family details are beyond words.

As for the big investment, there is no doubt that it will be made by Tang Hede.

My brother admits that he doesn't know how to manage money. At first, I thought he was modest, but later I found out that it was really like this: his friend was in a bad situation and he wanted to help him; Friends who don't have deep friendship meet in the same restaurant, and he quietly checks out for others; On the set, all the staff are often invited to have a snack. This is his helpful side. Only with a good foundation can he be so comfortable.

He is very demanding about his family, and he will move twice in less than two years on average. In Hong Kong, where land and money are scarce, if he only relies on interest, he will soon have scruples. Tang Sheng managed his assets so successfully that even the Hong Kong media couldn't help applauding it. This gave him more free space to a great extent, and also managed a more comfortable backstage for him. He has only done one play a year for many years, and he can choose according to his own needs and aesthetics, no longer aiming at profit.

People often wonder whether Leslie Cheung has paid more for Tang Hede or Tang Hede has paid more for Leslie Cheung.

Is this worth discussing?

If you have a family, you will understand that the stability of the family is not the slightest symmetry in scale, but the balance in everyone's mind. In this sense, Leslie Cheung of 1997 and Tang Hede of 1998 are brave and respectable to outsiders; For yourself, just like every couple who needs sacrifice and dedication; You did it because you wanted to and thought it was worth it. Everything is natural, there is nothing to say.

Leslie Cheung to Tang Hede, Tang Hede to Leslie Cheung, all the same. Since it's worth it, what is there to say? What can be compared?

They just fall in love according to the normal pattern, meet for coffee, play ball, go shopping and watch movies. One rainy night, Tang went to pick up his younger brother. The car couldn't stop at the door directly, so he got off and ran to pass the umbrella to him standing under the eaves, and then ran back to the driver's seat to switch cars. For Tang Sheng's birthday, flowers, wine, gifts, parties ... My brother insisted that Tang Sheng go to the airport. Just when Tang was confused about picking up the plane aimlessly, his younger brother took out two air tickets and flew abroad for a holiday.

There will also be disputes, all kinds of running-in, and unhappiness. For example, in the furniture department of a shopping mall, a sofa became the fuse, and then, like all couples quarreling over trifles, they began to quarrel; Then, someone apologizes, and then, someone forgives each other. Together for what? Just so that we can quarrel on the sofa and make up. Enthusiastic and active brothers gather at home to play mahjong in their spare time, while quiet and shy Tang Can stays with them for seven days and seven nights in the Lunar New Year. Falling in love with someone is not an adventure. The most risky thing in this world is actually how to get along with another person forever, which requires too much consideration and understanding, including learning hobbies that you don't like at all for each other.

Even though we already know that such a couple have lived together for nearly 20 years, we can imagine the ups and downs and quarrels during them, but the unspeakable tacit understanding and warmth still surprise us.

At a private party, my brother sang until he stood up, took a few steps, fell on Tang Hede's back at the previous table, leaned his head on his shoulder, sang with Mike in one hand and hugged his lover tightly in the other. Other people present, without looking at them, looked at the TV screen casually; Tang Hede himself, is also a accustomed appearance, let him hold, focus on watching TV. "If I can give up all over the world, at least you are worth cherishing. You are here. This is the trace of life."