An insightful morning message to understand the true meaning of life: Happiness is not about having someone but remembering someone

1. Life has its ups and downs. Learn to wave your sleeves calmly and smile warmly without worry. Don't wait until you are hurt to beg for forgiveness, and don't wait until you are lost to recover. There is no retreat in life. Although sometimes you will inevitably take some detours, it is ultimately to move forward. The people and things we experience on the road of life, whether good or bad, are the experience and wealth of our life. 2. Play with life and don’t take it too seriously. No one can leave this game alive in the end. Some losses are doomed, and some fates will never have results. You don’t have to own someone to love someone, but you must cherish someone if you have someone. Sometimes, I feel inexplicably in a bad mood and don’t want to talk to anyone. I just want to A person is in a daze quietly. Sometimes, I want to hide and be vulnerable alone, not wanting others to see my wounds. 3. Life is a process. Sadly, it cannot be repeated. Fortunately, it does not need to be repeated. When we are in adversity, we must always encourage ourselves: When heaven is about to entrust a person with a great responsibility, he must first strain his mind, work his muscles and bones, starve his skin, deplete his body, and mess up his actions, so he is tempted. Endurance can help you gain what you can't. ?Always believe that your destiny is in your own hands. 4. The road of life is forced to be walked out. The trajectory of life does not necessarily run the way you like. There are some things you may not like, but you have to do; there are some people you may not like, but you have to associate with them. When we encounter things we don’t like but can’t change, the only thing we can do is to be patient. 5. Care less, argue less, the cycle of cause and effect, life is inherently plain, like boiled water, no matter how you drink it, you can't taste the taste of wine. However, ordinary people also have the advantages of ordinary people. Life is not so dynamic. What always surrounds you are the trivial things. You can face it calmly from front to back, inside and outside, in all aspects, and every second. . 6. Many people always focus on the distant scenery, but often ignore the wonderful things around them. Life is permanent, but destiny is determined by God. Life is impermanent, but luck depends on man-made things! If you can let go of yourself, what can be more heavy than light? Life is light, because everyone only has seven taels. Life is important, because everyone is obsessed with growing a pile of barbecued meats! The highest realm of life: becoming an immortal with wine, and becoming a Buddha with tea! Enjoying yourself is the supreme happiness! 7. Sit quietly in the passing years, twist a touch of fragrance in your heart, and carry a touch of fragrance with you. Sunshine, look at all the worldly past. As long as you have a grateful heart, be grateful for life, be grateful for life, and be grateful for everyone who cares about you, happiness will be everywhere and all the time. Remember: What we pursue is our own happiness, not being happier than others?! 8. The past is like smoke, just smile and be at ease. Slowly I understand that a person's life will go through too many ups and downs. It can't always be smooth sailing, nor will it always be turbulent. No sky will always be clear, and no one's heart will always be spotless. In good times, you have more thoughts; in adversity, you have more courage; in times of success, you have more indifference; in times of hesitation, you have more faith. 9. The happiest moment for a woman is when she marries the right husband. He indulges your habits and loves everything about you. The happiest moment for a woman is when her friends are sincere, happy to enlighten, and sincerely help. When you are most helpless, When you reach out, stretch out a warm hand; the happiest moment for a woman is when no matter how old she is, she is still a child with her parents, intoxicated by everything they have prepared for her, and enjoying their nagging with peace of mind! 10. In real life, what is life without experiencing some setbacks, difficulties and ups and downs? Everything is stable and calm. What is the meaning of such a life without any waves? Such a life is boring and boring. 11. I didn’t meet you at the best time, but with you here, I had the best time. When sadness goes deep into the bone marrow, people either talk too much or are silent. This is how people are. It hurts more than crying, and everything has to start all over again. The greatest sorrow in life is not that you can't get or lose it, but that you don't know what you want.

12. Happy things and sad things will eventually become things of the past. Neither sad nor happy, neither salty nor light. Life is full of ups and downs. Busy and busy. If you forget something, you can’t forget your true feelings and conscience. No matter how poor or frustrated you are, you must always have true feelings and treat others sincerely. No matter how rich or proud you are, never destroy your conscience and treat others with true love. Not all your love can lead to a perfect ending; not all encounters can turn into beautiful scenery. 13. The road to the future can be reached with peace of mind. Dare to decide, and the change in your life will be determined by the moment you really make the decision. A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step; without accumulation of steps, one cannot reach a thousand miles; without accumulation of small streams, one cannot reach a river or sea. If you want to make something big, you have to start small, from the most basic things in front of you. If you have lofty ideals in your heart but are unwilling to work hard step by step, your dreams will not come true one day. 14. When you feel tired, maybe you are on the uphill slope of life. Keep going and you will find that you have reached another level in life. From today on, smile. Except for life and death, everything in this world is trivial. Please don't say that I have changed, because I have not changed, I just understand that I should treat others how others treat me. 15. We have experienced many storms in the past, but now we are no match for the calm waters. You yearn for wind and rain, but wind and rain are always in your memory. You hold on to the past, but the past has long been scattered in the wind and rain. We are all ordinary people and do not belong to those unpredictable loves. Imagination is wonderful, but it can only make people suffocate. Reality is dull, but it can make us fall in love. Your love is the harbor where my soul rests. Without the warmth of holding hands, I can only flow in loneliness

16. Live a happy life with a willing attitude. Growing old together actually has nothing to do with love, it's just patience. But patience is a kind of love. Therefore, the person who truly loves you is actually the person who is willing to tolerate you all the time. Life is like a dandelion, seemingly free, but unable to control itself. 17. As a woman, you can look weak and helpless, but you must not be really weak on the inside. Because the appearance of weakness can make others feel sympathetic. But the weakness in your heart can only make you unable to do everything and become a dependency of others. The worst outcome for a woman is to become dependent on others. Without independence, she loses everything. Therefore, to be the best woman, you must have a heart like a rock and a face like a peach blossom. 18. Do you suddenly think of someone or something, and then smile silly? Happiness is not only a feeling, but also the most perfect state in life. The biggest confusion in life is that you feel you need to determine a direction, but you can't find it. 19. Don’t be too arrogant when you walk on time. Even if you climb to the top of the slope, you will still have to go downhill after all. Don’t be too proud when you walk fast. Your foot strength is always limited. It is better to slow down and walk the short road. Be more exciting; when you are tired from walking, don’t lament too much. Take a break and endure the hard work before you know how to be strong and cherish it; when walking is hard, don’t be too sad. There is no dead end in life, and suffering is the key to life. the ladder. 20. Many times, in order to seek true happiness, we need to be patient. Because true happiness doesn't come quickly or easily, but it's worth the wait. You can't wait for others to arrange your life, you have to fight and fight for it yourself; no matter whether the result is happy or sad, what can be comforted is that you have lived a life in this world in vain. 21. Happiness is not a hard work, but it will definitely meet the hard work. The ups and downs in life can be understood as a realization. If you understand destiny as a kind of thinking and discovery, then you should understand yourself objectively and break through yourself. To live up to your youth and live out your own creativity, happiness is a healthy form of life. 22. In life, some people come and go, some people go and come back, some people are close at hand, some people are far away, some people pass by, and some people go with us all the way. Maybe they met at the end of a certain road, walked together for a while, and then said goodbye at the next fork in the road. Learn to settle. When the body is rolling in the world of mortals, how can one's heart not be ups and downs?

An unfulfilled wish, a stranded relationship, a long-lost voice? 23. Men will say "I will never leave you." But they are often the first to turn around. Women always say "I will never love you forever!" But often they are dedicated to love for a lifetime. In fact, men rarely say harsh words to women, but he will tell you his attitude through actions. Women are used to saying harsh words to men, but she is the one with the harsh words and the soft heart. In relationships, it is easy to conquer a woman's heart, but it is difficult to conquer a woman's mouth. 24. What really hurts a person is when the reality is very certain, escaping from reality, escaping from choices, being unable to advance or retreat, and enduring silently - the only thing left is self-struggle. Often in escaping, we lose love and our own mind. Attitude determines choice, and choice determines happiness. 25. I left him because of love. I like this sentence. Some feelings are so direct and cruel. There is no room for any roundabout warmth. Leaving with a warm mood is better than the pale truth. Pure things die too quickly? It’s rare to indulge yourself once in life, so let me indulge my feelings. Don’t care about the results. After you have truly loved, Will face many setbacks in life calmly. 26. We once held hands, but we didn’t reach the end. Think about how distressing this is. It turns out that many people in life will appear suddenly, teach you the true meaning of life, and then disappear again. The reason why love is short is to teach us to "cherish" it. 27. You and I inevitably have our own interpretations and reactions to other people's love. Some people are always friendly and blessing; others often curse and ridicule. Even if you are not optimistic about them, you and I can choose not to bless them. If we insult or curse them, it may not necessarily reflect their happiness potential, but it will definitely reflect our own inner nature. Reading other people's love is actually reading your own heart. 28. Cut a fleeting time and hold the warmth that will accompany you all the way. Transform the dullest days into poetic scenery. Who in life has never been hurt, pained, or obsessed with feelings. Time is understood because of experience, and life is wonderful because of understanding. After passing through, I realized that the past is for memories, happiness is for feeling, and pain is for growth. Let your heart remain as warm as ever after all the prosperity. Wear your most beautiful smile and cherish it. 29. If I am in your heart, it doesn’t matter if I have three thousand rivals. Life is full of ups and downs. The key is to enjoy yourself at the top and not lose courage at the bottom. It is not a mountain, but it is life that needs to be climbed; it is not an abyss, but it is oneself that needs to be crossed. Happiness is holding a pair of hands that you want to hold and walking through prosperity together. 30. There are some things that you must learn to deal with but not mess up; there are some emotions that you must know how to let go without getting hurt; there are some situations that you must keep and keep them untainted; there are some choices that must follow the supremacy of morality! The essence of life is to appreciate the journey along the way. The second is to reach the distant end; the secret of life is to find a speed that suits you best. Don't be overwhelmed by speed, and don't waste your life by being slow.