What is different about people who have returned from studying abroad?

Studying abroad, in addition to studying, experiencing different cultures and societies is also the reason why many friends choose to go abroad. There is a question on the Internet: What are the differences among people who have returned from studying abroad? Let’s discuss it with everyone.

What are the differences in the thinking of people who have returned from studying abroad compared with those who have stayed in China? Especially for those who are more affected, what are the differences in life, work, study, love and doing things? different.

Many overseas parties have quite a lot of similar feelings, which also proves the great impact of the environment on people. Experts from 100% Abroad systematically summarized their comprehensive feelings.

1. Increased awareness of privacy. I don’t like to take the initiative to inquire into other people’s privacy, and I don’t like others to inquire into my own privacy.

Every time I return to my country, I am asked personal questions, such as salary and benefits, and what kind of car I drive. Which house to live in, when to have a child, and I started to feel uncomfortable reflexively. But since I care about my uncle and aunt's face, I will try my best to answer even if I feel uncomfortable. They don't mean any harm, sometimes they are just curious. I don’t like to answer these questions. It has nothing to do with which class I am in, how much I earn, or whether my job is glamorous.

Don’t do to others what you don’t want others to do to you. Now that I have returned to my country, I will naturally not ask others such questions. Maybe others don’t mind me asking, but this must be a social habit. When communicating with Westerners, people are generally knowledgeable and can usually ask about the other person’s occupation, but sometimes they are quite cautious. For example, they find out through other channels that the other person’s wife immigrated not long ago and that her English is not good and she currently has no stable job. , will actively avoid asking her any questions about her career. This is out of goodwill and avoids embarrassment to the other party. 2. Women’s awareness of independence has increased and the concept of gender discrimination has become clearer

Before going abroad, I just felt that I wanted to be independent in my heart, but many times I was brainwashed by the domestic social environment and felt that men should be responsible for some things. .

After living abroad for a long time, when I completed my studies independently and gradually stabilized my career, I felt that life should be in my own hands, and it didn’t matter whether I had a partner or whether I was married, even after I got married. As a team, two partners share family responsibilities, and the respect they gain is profound and worthwhile.

3. Increased awareness of equal communication and being encouraged to speak out one’s own independent views and opinions

When I was still studying for a master’s degree, I occasionally expressed my different opinions when discussing a thesis with a professor. I was very impressed by being praised by the professor, because the professor obviously strongly encouraged students to behave like this and even accepted students to challenge his views.

In other social activities, there is no generation gap when chatting with people in their 60s. Sometimes they completely forget the other person’s age. However, this has something to do with the other person’s personality. Some people who are not good at chatting even if they are of the same age. People can also talk without speculation. For some people with good social skills, age is not a barrier at all. There are two reasons for this. First, the gap between British society a few decades ago and now is far smaller than that of Chinese society at the same time. The gap brought about by changes, so the ideological gap between the previous generation and this generation is naturally not too big. Secondly, Western society advocates equality and does not have the influence of Confucian culture like in East Asian countries. Each other is an independent individual, and there is no elder or younger generation. concept. For example, the president of our major department would come to our seats from time to time and chat with us without any airs or authority.

4. A new understanding of the concept of poor people in the West