I took 280,000 yuan for the demolition of my parents' house, and I only took 200 yuan. Is it true that married girls spill water?

There is an old saying: "people are there, and love is there; Love is scattered, and interests come first. "

If there is no friendship between friends, sooner or later they will break up for the benefit. If there is no friendship between husband and wife, divorce is only a matter of time. If there is no "love" between relatives, only the interests are left behind the pale emotions. For children, the kindness of parents is an emotion and a responsibility. For parents, children's filial piety is also an emotion and responsibility, but the premise of emotion and responsibility is mutual respect.

From the legal point of view, children who are not filial or fail to fulfill their responsibilities and obligations for raising will be punished. But in real life, parents die alone, and no children are filial everywhere. Do they really have the heart to sue their children? I believe this situation certainly exists, but it is rare, because in parents' minds, "emotion" is more precious than word management.

People are divided into good and evil, so the emotional treatment of their loved ones will be very different. Everyone has different principles and ways of doing things for others, and the feedback results are different. The world is too big to be full of sunshine.

Xiao Gan, a 29-year-old, recently made a scene because of a trivial matter about her parents. Because of the "interests" of a family, her relationship with her parents is irreparable.

Xiao Gan is not favored by her parents, and her family prefers boys to girls. No matter what he does or pays, Xiao Gan's greatest contribution in the eyes of his parents is to get a satisfactory bride price when he gets married. When God closes a door for you, he also opens a window for you. Fortunately, Xiao Gan's marriage is very happy, her husband is considerate and generous, and her in-laws are also reasonable.

To tell the truth, in today's society, my husband loves you, my in-laws understand you, and life after marriage is dull. This is the simplest happiness. Xiao Gan is a sentient and righteous woman. After taking part in the work and adding all the savings before marriage, she roughly calculated that there were more than 260 thousand, all of which built houses and bought furniture for her hometown. Now six years have passed and the house has been demolished. Xiao Gan's husband made a statement immediately after learning about it.

"Wife, your mother's house demolition must have compensation. At that time, no matter how your parents divide it, we can't be rich. Although the family is not rich, we are not short of that money. "

Xiao Gan is very satisfied with her husband's kindness, including some procedures in the process of demolition, which are all before and after her husband runs. Not long after, 280,000 yuan of demolition money arrived. On the day she got the money, Xiao Gan and her husband were at her parents' house, but her parents' decision was unfair.

"This 280,000 is in the passbook and will be handed over to the younger son today. This 200 yuan is the hard money that the son-in-law runs around. "

The meaning of parents is very clear. The so-called "married daughter, spilled water", Xiao Gan helped build a house at home before he got married, which is natural. Now that she is married and has her own family marriage, the size of the family has nothing to do with her. After all, it is not unreasonable to rely on her son's family to support the elderly in rural areas.

Xiao Gan didn't want the money, but she didn't want it back. The money should be left to her parents.

"Mom and Dad, I don't agree! I don't want any money, but don't give it to my brother's house. They have hands and feet. You will spoil them like this. Your parents are old, so keep the money for yourself. "

In this way, the contradiction between Xiao Gan and her family, especially her brother and sister-in-law, arose. My younger brother is inexperienced, so he is ambitious. He took the money and invested in a project with his friends. After all the equipment resources were in place, the project was stopped half a year later because of violating the procedures, and 280 thousand was smashed in. Xiao Gan's mother was very angry about it.

The compensation is gone, and the family lives in an old house, which is very poor. My mother is ill in hospital. Xiao Gan's younger brother and sister-in-law dare not go home to escape their responsibilities. Finally, the father sincerely came to the son-in-law's house and asked her to take care of her mother in the hospital for some time.

"Son-in-law, daughter, at the beginning, we are really sorry for you two, but now your mother is in the hospital, someone has to take care of it, right? Your brother and sister-in-law bastard didn't show up for ten and a half months. "

When Xiao Gan's husband heard the news, he quickly went to the hospital to visit his mother-in-law, but Xiao Gan resolutely disagreed and stopped her husband. He just sneered and said, "Mom and Dad, your karma has come."

What the author wants to say is that Xiao Gan's attitude represents the voice of many married women. In traditional families in China, many family members broke up because they preferred sons to daughters, even because parents preferred sons to daughters and their children had deep opinions, which eventually led to divorce. A family's values, marriage and outlook on life will have a certain impact on their children's life and marriage. Fingers vary in length, but don't forget that palms are full of meat.

Fortunately, Xiao Gan's husband has a very positive outlook on life and has been inspiring Xiao Gan. He just doesn't know how to be flexible How to resolve this family dispute and how to alleviate the contradiction between Xiao Gan and his family is the key.