Is what you can't get always the best?

I think so, too. What ordinary people can't get is the best.

Humans will never be satisfied. When you get what you want, you will want something better. What does not belong to you is always the best. I believe many people have seen two pictures. A person surrounded by children is thinking about money, and a person full of money is homesick. It is normal for humans to eat what is in the bowl and look at what is in the pot. The more they can't get something, the more they want it, but once they get it, they will want something better. Human beings are all creatures full of desires, so they like to pursue better things. Just like the lost first love, many people miss it because they can't get it. Therefore, the ignorance of first love will make people memorable.

This view is sometimes beneficial to us and sometimes harmful to us. It is beneficial because the less you can get, the more you want to get it through hard work. You will try to be what you want to be, and you will want a better life, so you will work harder. It is this unsatisfied mentality that leads to the progress of modern science and society. Humans have been keen to explore the unknown, thus further promoting the progress of science and technology.

Sometimes this view is harmful. The more you can't get something, the more you want it, the easier it is to get something, and the less you know how to cherish it. Just like family. We struggle away from home without scruple, do whatever we have to do for our friends and prepare surprises for our lovers, but never think about doing anything for our parents. Because in our hearts, no matter what we do, our parents will never abandon us, so we never look back at them. And when we really think back, we find that they will be old, too.

It is good to pursue new things, but we should also cherish what we have now.