For Ma Bao, is the child important or the career important?

It is more difficult to decide whether the child is important or the career is important than the daughter-in-law and mother-in-law falling into the water at the same time.

First of all, the importance of occupation to women.

Especially for women, it is more difficult to choose some. Many times, women give up their careers passively. If nothing else, you have to milk your own children. I can't let it go after a long time. There are too many people who quit after giving birth. Don't they really know the importance of career?

First of all, the most realistic problem is that there is no income without work. How can you raise a child without milk powder money? Not everyone has food and clothes. If everyone is given a chance, who doesn't want to lie at home and count money?

However, staying at home for a long time is not good. Even without financial burden, it will be out of touch with society for a long time. It is not afraid of being out of touch with society. After all, many mothers only have children in their eyes. However, what if you are out of touch with your partner?

What's more, without a job, you lose your independence. If you ask for money every day, you will always be rejected. At that time, no one will consider how much money you saved for your family, but when you started. Not only did you not generate any income, but you also spent a lot of money.

Not everyone understands the pain of a stay-at-home mother.

Second, why do you dedicate yourself to your children?

However, even if this choice is difficult, many mothers know the side effects of giving up their careers, but most of them still choose their children resolutely and even stay at home for a long time.

I remember Peggy piggy, whose mother works part-time at home. It seems that this is still a worldwide problem.

This is what I still don't understand. I'm not saying that being a mother is a wrong choice, but I still think that parents, especially mothers, are too hard on their children.

Think for yourself, don't you?

Did you give up your job for the education of your children?

Does children's investment in education account for a considerable proportion, or even become a great burden?

Did you pin all your hopes on your children and give up the way forward?

It is true that all parents don't want to succeed, but why do all parents stop chasing and build and polish their children from scratch?

Is there a contradiction between the two?

Third, you can have your cake and eat it.

There is a very extreme example. A mother gave up her job and sold her house for her children to study abroad. She even persuaded the father to give up his job and emigrate.

However, in a strange city, coupled with the language barrier, it is difficult for both of them to survive, not to mention a small child around them. Even if children succeed in their studies in the future, won't parents become a burden?

When you are a child's stepping stone, you may also block the child's way.

Horribly, such examples abound and are logical. Generation cycle.

Why can't everyone find a balance and have to make a choice?

This is really a problem. What do you think of this? Please leave your wonderful comments.

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