Four years after the college entrance examination, I entered high school again as a "parent"

On the 24th of last month, my roommate and I came to her son's high school, the vast attached middle school, at the invitation of my tutor, and took charge of the makeup work of the class to participate in the school chorus festival as parents. For class activities like this, the class teacher informs the parents to let the mothers who have time organize, buy materials and arrange time to help the students complete the day's backup activities. My tutor responded to the class teacher's call to join the mother support group, but his son didn't want his mother to appear in front of his classmates during adolescence. My tutor promised him that he wouldn't help his classmates make up, and asked two sisters to help them make up. So she found me and my roommate. Activities like this, such as parents' invigilation, my tutor found a male classmate in my class.

? At about 4 o'clock on the afternoon of the 24th, my roommate and tutor and I came to the gate of the affiliated middle schools. Since the end of the college entrance examination, I have never returned to senior high school. Before, my roommates had an appointment to go back to my alma mater to see the teacher, but I refused, because the sequelae of the college entrance examination were too great, and a loser would have no face to see the teacher again. The entrance of Guangfu is similar to my old high school. Standing on the street, I seem to see myself wearing a school uniform and carrying a backpack, with no joy on my face and blank eyes. If it weren't for the invitation of my tutor, I probably wouldn't want to go to high school all my life. I didn't know what kind of school this school was before I came. I always heard the tutor say that his child was a schoolmaster. Combined with the inscription of xdd on the teaching building, I probably understood the status of this school in Guangzhou.

? When I came to the school gate, I saw five mothers waiting at the door. The tutor went forward to greet each mother and introduced us to several mothers. Near 4: 3, we entered the school gate together, walked to the teaching building and came to the tutor's son's classroom. China's senior high schools, whether key or ordinary, always have the same teaching buildings in appearance. The same is true of teaching in this school. There are several mops hanging in the corridor, and class photos, messages from the class teacher and handmade stickers from classmates are posted at the door of the classroom. By the way, this school actually posted the names of the top 5 in the total score of this month's exam and the top 5 in the single subject at the door! My previous junior high school and senior high school rankings either appeared in the slides of the class teacher or in the report cards of teachers in various subjects, so I wouldn't post them at the door as a reminder.

? We came just in time for them to have dinner after class. Some boys went to play ball, and there were no students in the teacher. There are four rows of tables for two in this classroom, and the class size is not large. Everyone's drawers are full of books, so they are packed in transparent boxes, and the space on the aisle becomes narrow.

? I walked around the classroom and found a history paper in the corner of the back door. It seems that a year ago, the college entrance examination reform no longer divided liberal arts and sciences, but chose three subjects, but this class is obviously biased towards science and there are more boys. As a liberal arts student who has gone through the college entrance examination, I instinctively did the questions, looked up the answers and found mistakes, and that feeling returned to the sadness of seeing the results of the college entrance examination. Looking at this classroom again, it feels more narrow and pressing, and the test paper workbook on the desktop is more ruthless. I'm going out to get some air.

? Weibo has a question: Would you like to give you 1 million yuan to reread senior three? I don't want to. Now let me recall my senior three life, which was a dark, bitter and hopeless day. No matter how much money I give, I don't want to go back to the past.

We waited in the classroom for a while, and some students came back to pick up the dresses for the chorus tonight and go back to the dormitory. After returning to the classroom half an hour later, "we" parents began to help students with foundation, eye shadow, eyebrows and lipstick. Makeup is a very magical thing. At ordinary times, everyone is plain-faced, wearing school uniforms, and there is no feature. When the makeup is immediately "lit up", everyone has vitality and color. According to the tutor, although the teaching pressure in this school is great, festivals are often held. Just like the carnival, the teacher's class content is relaxed that day, and students can put on "masks" to play happily and release the long-standing pressure.

? Probably, the resources of key schools are better, and there is an opening for students to restrain their anger. On this day, everyone can show their talents in piano, photography and bel canto without talking about their grades. I helped a girl who plays the piano make up. The girl's hair was cut to the length of a boy's hair, small and thin. Before she told me that she was in charge of playing the piano, I thought she was just one of the chorus members, and I would never associate the piano talk with her. When I chatted with her, she felt inferior. She felt that she was ordinary. But when I saw her talking about the piano in the audience, she was focused and serious, and the whole person looked very confident.

? Going back to high school again, I still entered as a parent. There is nothing wrong. Students think I am a parent (wearing a mask). I see the disparity between the educational concept and family background at the parent level. I checked the background of most affiliated middle schools. It belongs to the first echelon high school in Guangzhou, and its cost-sharing rate is as high as 5%. Tsinghua Peking University People's Congress Fudan Jiaotong University can occupy two rows of honor lists, and the worst school has more Chinese workers. Students with poor teachers' educational achievements, "if you don't study hard today, you will go to the university next door tomorrow" (the majority of affiliated middle schools are in Guangzhou University City). My tutor child class belongs to the key class, and the school and teachers have given it high expectations. Although there is no senior three, the usual test pressure is not small.

? We helped the students paint their makeup too late, and missed the opening hours of the school canteen. We discussed ordering a KFC for dinner and sitting in the open-air pavilion of the school. Several mothers sat together to discuss the teaching staff of the school, their children's grades and education methods, and also talked about their college life. I come from a small third-tier city, my parents have low education, and I have been working at the bottom all the year round. When I was a child, I struggled to live, and I was beaten if I didn't obey. As long as my parents raised me with food and drink, I raised you until I grew up, completely ignoring your education and psychology. When I grew up, I realized that this kind of education really hurt me. Going to college, leaving the former city and coming to Guangzhou, the gap between children growing up in different families is completely in the eye. I came into contact with the mothers of the best children. These parents are the kind of other people's mothers I have never met in the past 2 years. They are rich and indifferent, and it is appropriate democracy and freedom to talk about their relationship with their children, which is completely different from those parents in their hometown who are dry and yellow, have high-profile voices, dress casually and have extremely low quality.

? I am surprised at the education level of Guangzhou, a first-tier city. Although there are some parents with extremely low quality, most of the new immigrants who have taken root in Guangzhou are people with high academic qualifications, and their investment in their children is the strength of the whole family. No matter how bad the grades are, no matter how bad the school is, there is always one more way out than children in other places. In those places, children are still struggling on the same road, and the most uncomfortable thing is that there is only one road!

? When my roommate and I were about to leave, one of the mothers bought KFC takeout for the children in the class, and the boys in the class took the hot family bucket back to the class. I heard that the mother bought KFC for the class last student's day, and I don't know how many times it was. The mother said that she bought KFC to make the children happy. If I were the parents I know, I would have refused it coldly long ago. If she couldn't lose face, she said, it's unhealthy to eat this food.