What happened to the lovers who were forced to separate due to reality?

No love, no joy

In a city without a lover

So what if you have a car, a house and status

01.

In the thunderstorm season of June, the southern provinces have fallen.

Due to work reasons, I have no free time to write tweets. Apart from reading before going to bed and squeezing out a little time after work, I have no other time to study writing and reading.

I flew to Hefei a few days ago. Because the weather in Shenzhen was bad and there was no departure time, the whole group rested on the plane. It was already 12 o'clock in the evening. I was a little tired after flying for a day. I was exhausted and asked the captain to have a cigarette in the terminal to relieve my boredom.

Hefei Airport is a small airport with only a dozen boarding gates. Our passengers are resting on the seats in the terminal.

The smoking room is on the other side of the terminal, all the way from our departure gate. Since flights of other companies have been cancelled, there are only a few cleaning uncles left in the terminal. Auntie, it’s such a rare peace.

I walked into the empty smoking room, lit a cigarette leisurely, and looked at the drizzle outside the window. All I could think about was when I would be able to take off.

"You go, the flights are cancelled, now let me see how you go!"

At this time, a female voice outside the smoking room shocked me who was in a daze, and walked towards the door. , you can vaguely see two figures outside the smoking room door.

"I don't want to leave either. Now the flight is cancelled. I can stay with you for one more day. Isn't that great."

The person who spoke was a boy, who sounded very young.

"I have already made up my mind to send you away and never see you again, but now I have to suffer for another day."

There was a slight sob in the girl's voice when she spoke, smoking. The uncle and aunt who were cleaning outside had disappeared. There was no one outside, except for the young couple bickering in the corner next to the wall.

"If I could decide on my own which way to go, I would definitely stay, but whatever my family says, I must go back. I can have everything there, including a house and a car, but you don't want me to go back." You don’t want to go back with me.”

The boy raised his voice slightly and said to the girl.

"Then why can't you wait for me for another six months? Why can't you abide by the time we agreed on? You must go back early, violate our agreement, and leave me alone in Hefei."< /p>

The girl’s sobs became louder and louder, and she started crying directly in the boy’s arms. Maybe they opened their hearts to each other like this when they saw no one around. But there was someone in the smoking room next to him listening to the young couple's true love dialogue.

"There are some things I can't decide, but I really love you." The boy said.

I took the last deep puff of my cigarette, stubbed out the cigarette butt in the ashtray, and slowly walked out of the smoking room. I glanced at the young couple. The girl was nestled in the boy's arms, and the boy was doting on them. Holding the girl in my arms, I walked straight towards the silent terminal without looking back.

Along the way, I was thinking, if it is so difficult to separate, why must we separate.

Girls are naturally insecure. Before she fully accepts and trusts you, she will not go anywhere with you. If you leave without being able to fully tolerate everything about her.

Then I can only say that maybe I don’t love you enough.

In the face of reality and love, you choose reality, which is understandable, but before you decide, please don’t waste a girl’s feelings and youth. You can’t afford these.

02.

When I was in college, I had a good brother, Brother V, who went abroad.

Before going abroad, he had a girlfriend in Nanning whom he dated for two years. They were very affectionate, and they were the kind of friends who could bore each other to death in their circle of friends.

Since the whole family had to immigrate to the United States, he had to leave Nanning and follow his family to the United States. This was force majeure, and she could understand Brother V.

I went to see Brother V off when we were leaving. His girlfriend said sweet words that we would never be separated no matter where we go to the end of the world, but she couldn't stop the tears in her eyes from flowing down.

They separated and became a veritable foreign love.

After Brother V left, she refused to leave at the boarding gate. She told me, "Song, I know he may not come back for a long time, or he may never come back, but I have always had a glimmer of hope in my heart, hoping that he could return to China one day. Suddenly, a man in a suit and ties appeared in front of me and said, "Marry me, and I will take you to the United States." Do you think this kind of plot would happen in reality? "?"

I was silent for a few seconds, "Maybe, if things were so perfect, then there would be no girls in the world crying to death."

They separated. A year later, Brother V came over and never came back, but they are still as sweet as ever in the circle of friends. I am also very happy that they can still be as close to each other as before. Even I hold on to a glimmer of hope. Suddenly one day Brother V will suddenly He came back to announce to us that he was getting married.

A few months later, at two o'clock in the morning, just as I was getting ready to go to bed, Brother V came to me and said, "Song, are you asleep? I want to tell you something."

Being eroded by sleep, I replied, "What's wrong, don't tell me you're coming back to get married."

"Yes, I'm getting married, but not with her." < /p>

When I saw this message, I immediately woke up and had 10,000 black questions in my heart. What is going on?

"Are you getting married? Not with her? Who are you marrying? When will you get married? Where will you get married?"

I sent all the questions that came to mind in one breath. .

"It's a long story. I have been in the United States for more than a year. When I first came here, I was unfamiliar with the place and I didn't understand anything like an ignorant child. But here I met a The girl who is particularly nice to me is Korean. We communicate with each other in English. With her help, my English is getting better and better, and we are getting closer. Unconsciously, we are together. "

"So, you have always been trying to stand in both directions?"

"Yes, I know it's wrong, but I never had the heart to break up with my Chinese girlfriend. She has been holding on for me, but I have done something sorry for her, and I really can't bear to break up with her. I love her very much, so I have been holding on like this until now I want to marry my Korean girlfriend. I just have to face it, Song, can you help me?"

"Brother, I can't help you, but if you hold a wedding in China, I will definitely go."

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Throw your phone aside, close your eyes and start thinking.

Why do people have to be so mean? They will never solve things immediately that they know will hurt others. They say they love each other, but their behavior behind the scenes is completely different.

No matter what the reason is, couples who are forced to separate due to reality, regardless of gender, please don’t use gorgeous excuses to wrap up the fact that you don’t love enough, and don’t let “long-distance (country) love” detract from your love. You will be scolded for not being persistent enough.

03.

Each of us is looking for the person we like throughout our lives. Girls hope to go to the palace of marriage with him, and he can tolerate your occasional little things. Temper, even when you are older, your figure is out of shape, and your skin is wrinkled, you can still be called wife.

But based on the various problems in reality, we all feel tired and powerless and can only have a glimmer of hope in our hearts.

So we are never willing to give in until there is no despair. Even if we wait for a long time, even if we can't see the future, we still want to wait for the taxi heading towards love.

You can’t afford to delay your youth, but you can’t afford to lose your future.

No matter whether you are liked by others or you like others.

I hope that we can all be cruel to the person who likes us. If we don't like her or can't give her the future she wants, then reject her cruelly and don't leave her with a glimmer of hope.

In this way, she can give up and wait for the next relationship.

The most fearful thing about relationships is procrastination. Many people finally choose that bus. Part of the reason is that they have waited too long and are tired of waiting. Part of the reason is that their feelings are exhausted and there is no more. No longer able to love.

Yes, youth cannot withstand consumption.

Couples who are forced to separate due to reality, since there is no way to recover, let it go, be cruel to yourself, be cruel to her, and make both parties feel better. You fell in love with the right person at the wrong time. People can only do this.

This reminds me of Tsangyang Gyatso's words, "The world is safe with both Dharma, as long as it lives up to the Tathagata, it doesn't live up to you."

- There is no happiness without love.

- If you cannot disappoint Tathagata, you will certainly disappoint you.