Can the grandmother of the child take care of the child?

Yes, but there must be a big premise: grandma only helps to take care of her mother during work, and the main responsibility for raising her is still borne by her mother. Her mother had better see her children every day.

On this premise, it doesn't make much difference whether grandma takes it or grandma takes it. This is mainly determined by two aspects.

On the one hand, children are born with an irreplaceable emotional dependence on their mothers. The closer the interaction between children and their mothers when they are young, the more harmonious the parent-child relationship will be, and the smoother the communication channels between mother and child will be, which can effectively reduce the contradiction between children and their parents when they grow up, especially after puberty.

In addition, children who are accompanied by their mothers have enough sense of security in their hearts, which lays the foundation for children to live in peace with others and the whole world, and can make their psychological and emotional development more healthy and perfect.

Children who don't get enough attention from their parents, especially their mothers, have sparse emotional connection with their parents, which will cause obstacles to future communication. Adolescence is easy to rebel against parents. I believe that people who have seen Metamorphosis have a deeper impression on this point.

There is another saying in my hometown: When children are young, you don't care. When they grow up, can you control them?

On the other hand, in taking care of children's food, clothing, housing and transportation, grandma or grandma may be more considerate than mom (like my mother-in-law, she takes care of children, and I am more at ease than taking care of myself), but the old people's concept of parenting is bound to be outdated, and their acceptance of new things and new ideas will certainly be less than that of young people. They will give their children to them completely. Under long-term contact, children can easily become closed and negative.

There are also elderly people who tend to spoil and indulge their children, and do not know how to help children establish a sense of rules. It is not suitable for mothers to hand over the responsibility of parenting to the elderly.

Although women nowadays have to work and take care of children, they are really tired, but don't we all hope that children can be happy all their lives? Instead of trying every means to be ineffective when the child grows up, it is better to lay the foundation for the happiness of the child with the careful companionship and dedicated parenting of the mother when the child is young.

Who is helping to take care of your children? Say it in the comments section.